My Worst Date Experience: What the Actual F**k Just Happened? Guys I don’t even know where to start. So last night, I went on this date (24F bumble) seemed normal at first. We hit up a cafe, had dinner, the usual chit-chat, you know the vibe. Everything felt fine. After dinner, we decided to take things to the next level. I booked a room, and we went to the hotel, we started making out kissing, undressing, touching all that shit. I thought I was ready for anything. But man, I was *NOT* ready for this. So, she tells me... 4 0 replies
Kaunsi color ki chadi pehne howali aunty and other instagram girls ? Im a gal yet i am purely disgusted by how Indian women are acting like hoes on insta be it vulgar dancing, wearing navel showy tops while cooking, and every post is so sensual I agree if u are into athletics / some dance forms where the dressing is little skin show for breathing what the hell is wrong with rest of them its so much OF vibes I think only fans began from the inspiration of modern instagram itself, where every profile is just for stalking and sensual... 3 0 replies
I have Indian boyfriend that have to marry by arrange. Main point is the girl knew that he’s in relationship with me and stay together but she didn’t care even said her parents chose the best for her. And trying to get more attention from him. I really don’t understand her mind. I have Indian boyfriend that have to marry by arrange. Main point is the girl knew that he’s in relationship with me and stay together but she didn’t care even said her parents chose the best for her. And trying to get more attention from him. I really don’t understand her mind. 5 0 replies
Indian Men, Does A woman Chasing & Begging You to stay turn u off? Why do men pull away after pursuing a woman so hard? Do they get turned off if the same woman who is now invested begging them to stay? What makes you obsessed with a woman? What is a dream woman according to you? Does a woman taking too much care of you turn you off? 4 0 replies
My MIL and FIL skimping out on my engagement lehenga and other shady behaviours So I am a 29Y woman, getting married soon to a guy I am in a relationship with 8 years. My fiance communicated with his parents beforehand that they won't ask for any "gifts" and they agreed. My family (being ladkiwale) called them to say that we are going to gift you XYZ (incl MIL jeweley, sarees etc). My MIL didnt say no and happily agreed. Then my family asked to gift me one lehenga. In our family we have the tradition of the bride getting her engagement lehenga... 3 0 replies
Thoughts on god and atheism Growing up, I never found religion logical, yet somehow, I still became part of it. As I got older, my doubts about God's existence grew. Most people around me are religious and constantly ask why I don’t believe. But they never offer any evidence for God's existence—only demand proof of His non-existence from me. If you claim something exists, it’s your responsibility to prove it, not the other way around. They argue that just because we can’t see things means they don’t exist. But that doesn’t mean God exists... 4 0 replies
Indians who only got 50 to 60 percent marks in School & College, what are you doing in Life? Indians who only got 50 to 60 percent marks in School & College, what are you doing in Life? 5 0 replies
The most pressing question on social media right now: 'kis color ki chaddi pehne ho?' 🩳😂 Is it a style statement or a new way to predict the weather? 🌈 People are discussing this like it’s the secret to world peace! Forget zodiac signs; your chaddi color might just reveal your true personality. So, what’s your pick today—classic black, daring red, or Monday blues? Let the chaddi wars begin! Comment below!🙂 2 0 replies
How to cope up the fear of ghosting I’m 26 and have been talking to a girl (24) for almost 5 months. We met on Instagram and developed a good friendship. She has shared all aspects of her life with me, and I’ve done the same. She’s a good friend, and we’ve built a strong bond. However, I still have a fear that she might ghost me, and I even confessed this to her. She reassured me that she will never ghost me and will always communicate with me before leaving the friendship, if that ever happens.... 2 0 replies
How to find like-minded and ambitious people and avoid ranting buddies? ***People often say, "Show me your five close friends, and I’ll tell you your future." If that’s true, where do I even find such friends?*** I’m not someone who has achieved everything, and I wouldn’t call myself super mature either. But one thing I know for sure is that I don’t like complaining about every little thing and I can’t stand people who constantly complain or make excuses for everything. What I really want is to connect with like-minded ppl, not necessarily achievers, but ambitious ones who don’t just... 5 0 replies
Should I even try to get to know this girl if my semester is ending and also our social lives are the complete opposite? So I am 23M turning 24 in just 7 days and currently studying MBA and talking with several girls in my college who are within 21-25 age range. But recently there is this girl who caught my eyes. She is 21 or 22 and my junior in her 1st year of MBA and I am in 2nd year which is also my final year. We both live in Bangalore but I am from Siliguri in West Bengal and she is from NCR region. In college we only talked once... 5 0 replies
Are parents more toxic these days ? Hi guys . So last night , me and my bestfriend were going back home from college and we were at the airport , in our IIT hoodie so as expected we were getting a lot of attention . For context we are freshies in a tier-1 old IIT . There were 5 or 6 families with kids \[ mostly teens \] and we both were just chilling in the lounge area and a few parents came to talk to us , you know that general stuff about coaching... 1 0 replies
What exactly happens to the money we donate for poverty alleviation and hunger reduction in India? Genuinely curious and want to understand this. Especially from people who have on ground/insider exposure to this. Funds through NGOs which feed hungry children, people in need, the abandoned old, clothes and shoes for children etc. What is the percentage that actually trickles down to those in need? Has private donations played a roles in bringing down abject poverty in India over the last 10-15 years? PS- This is not a post intended to malign all NGOs or bodies doing such work. It is God’s work if it is... 5 0 replies
Did anyone else also ever felt smth like this so back of my mind there has always been a crazy wish of mine like to kiss a woman.. n hv much more ... uk... so like i had a vivid dream today that i was kissing a girl and it really felt like surreal as if it really was true every touch every kiss... i could vividly feel it ... and that made me crave that in real life.. i really want to kiss a woman .... and btw i am not a lesbian i am straight.... 4 0 replies
Want to get rid of winpin movie coupon of LORD Movie Hello I have some coupon's Winpin coupon's of LORD movies. Sadly it isn't released in Rajkot. The value is 300rs Pan India All Format locked for LORD movie. Validity 10 January Of anyone wants it I am happy to sell it at half rate because I have no use of it. Pls DM me cause I want to get rid of this. 3 0 replies
Need your help on what should I do I (21m) attended a mandatory training session last year in the month of november, there i met this girl(20) and we had some common interests so we talked a little here and there during the training, then we did not talk at all until last month where she wished me for my birthday, and I kind of liked her a little during the training days, So a few days later I texted her and we started talking, Today we are meeting (for the first time just the two of... 2 0 replies
Skin tone Being fair is everything in this country. I know that skin tone doesn’t define you and what not but my dark skin has been a curse. I want to lighten my skin. Please suggest the methods that have worked for you. Also pls don’t say accept n love yourself and all that in the comments I have tried it. Any whitening/lightening tips and methods are welcome 🙏 1 0 replies
Mom found my condom in the bag I'm 24(M) and I have a girlfriend, no relative of mine knows about my relationship as we are conservative family. I had bought a condom and hid it in my bag. I just came back from my female friend's marriage. I went with 1 male friend and 3 female friend. It was a 3 day trip. I came back but i forgot to remove the condom from my bag and i understand mom had went through the bag and took it because its not there now where i kept... 4 0 replies
Where to watch GEORGIE AND MANDY'S FIRST MARRIAGE in India? Where to watch GEORGIE AND MANDY'S FIRST MARRIAGE in India? 4 0 replies
How do people get into relationships so easily? I've lived almost 30 years on this planet with not one person interested in having a relationship with me. Whoever I've asked has never felt the same. I'm even on dating sites and I don't get any traction there either. And yet I see hundreds of posts on relationships in this subreddit, people all around me getting married to their college s/o's, just getting on with life. I'm genuinely curious at this point, what is so different about me? Am I missing out on some giant hint that everyone... 1 0 replies