How to get a job while being broke? I've been unemployed for four months now and have been living off my savings, which are now exhausted. My income was never enough to save; I was earning Rs 13,000 a month, so I couldn't save anything. My father passed away when I was a child, and after his death, our relatives fraudulently took over our ancestral wealth. At the time, I was a minor, and my mother didn’t know much about the ancestral property. They took advantage of our vulnerability and took everything. She tried to fight legally... 1 0 replies
What is the cheapest thing someone can give you that'll make you happy For me it's truly the thought that counts, pluck a flower from the pavement and give it to me saying that it made me think of you and I'd be the happiest 4 0 replies
Arranged Marriage Deceit So my chaddi-buddi cousin who’s 33M decided to go with ‘family ki pasand’ and had a wedding a couple of weeks back. Bro is shocked to his core on the first night of the wedding because the bride seems to have almost no hair on the front part of her scalp. As per the bride she has had a skin/hair issue since childhood and uses hair extensions and makeup to cover them up. She kinda looks 40+ without the enhancers. Upon further grilling by Bro, she has confessed that... 1 0 replies
How will one student's fraud affect the trust in future Indian applicants abroad? A 19-year-old Indian student, Aryan Anand, recently faked documents, including academic transcripts and a death certificate, to secure a scholarship at Lehigh University. He even bragged about it on Reddit. While he’s now facing legal consequences, this incident has raised concerns. Universities abroad may now scrutinize Indian applicants more closely, and honest students could be unfairly impacted. How do you think this one student's actions will affect the perception of future Indian students applying to universities abroad? Will this cause long-term damage to their credibility? Original new [link](https://indianexpress.com/article/education/lehigh-university-review-application-process-indian-students-marksheet-admission-9727324/). 1 0 replies
What to do if your cousin gives your father's name and number as a loan nominee w/o anyone's knowledge or consent? 🤬 My dad and his two elder and younger brother had business but that elder one betrayed my dad and younger uncle. My younger uncle goes on rickshaw to earn. And my dad continued his business somehow gathering help from his friends. My (chumtiya) cousin (Younger uncle's son) with whom we don't talk because he betrayed, shared confidential things with people (my dad's elder brother) who abducted my father's property and all the money he earned. He (cousin) always did this mischievous things like robbing, lying and went behind our... 3 0 replies
Is this much loneliness normal in adulthood? I am 24M who stepped into working life 1.5 years ago. Recently, on observing people around me, I have seen that everyone is frequently getting messages on WhatsApp and Insta. They often mention speaking to some friend over phone. On the other hand, no one messages me on WhatsApp. I have 2-3 guys with whom I exchange reels/memes on Instagram, but there is no conversation, just sending and reacting to reels. I have only one friend who calls me semi-regularly, other than that, no calls. I have no other... 5 0 replies
I'm feeling like Ved from Tamasha after he returns from that trip. I genuinely don't feel like going to work although I'm already back home. I'm afraid of going back to my workplace. See those same faces I feel uncomfortable around and do the same boring job which sucks the living soul outta me. I honestly don't know how to deal with this feeling anymore and I certainly can't stand how it feels. I feel like I might cry any moment if it's too much. 3 0 replies
Giving birth is probably the worst pain a person can face, right? So why is the population of India(and some poorer nations) so high? Giving birth is probably the worst pain a person can face, right? So why is the population of India(and some poorer nations) so high? 2 0 replies
Women being subtly pressurised into marrying Men they're not at all attracted to - do you think this is one of the biggest problems with arranged marriages? Maybe in the past women were staying put in such an arrangement because of socio-economic and cultural pressures but that's not the case in today's world(which is good). This lack of attention could be due to anything (obviously most men would blame their own looks or money) but I won't get into that as it depends on individual men and women involved. Not to mention arranged marriage itself is stupid in the first place - no emotional intelligence required, no social aptitude required, zero sexual understanding required. The way... 4 0 replies
The best & the worst movie you watched in 2024? The best & the worst movie you watched in 2024? 3 0 replies
AITAH here? for context, I am 16M my father passed away when I was 10, I have a twin brother and my mother, we live together, the thing is, everyone for some reason sees my (twin)brother as the big brother, this really pisses me of, as I always consider us both to be brothers not elder or anything, now someone came to our house (friend of my mother or something idk) and just gave a lot of "gyan" and left, on of the stuff she said was she asked my mother... 5 0 replies
Why it seems easier to get away with rape kind of henious crime then divorce proceedings for men in India? On an almost daily basis, we see so many rape and murder convicts getting easy bail and reprieve from crime punishments. On the other hand, men governed by the Hindu Marriage Act find it hard to get fair relief in divorce cases. This doesn't seem like even a feminist-biased legal system issue. What is holding up our country from implementing fair and just legal treatment for all? 5 0 replies
I was Harrassed by two Girls! I'm 24M Met a girl at my work space. She is a new joiner to our organization and she is newly married. A lot of guys used to hit on her since she was pretty. But she became a friend of mine since we are in same team and moreover I'm a silent guy who doesn't flirt or bother other girls at my work space. I got broke up in my 5yrs of relationship and that's the reason for that. So initially our convo was related to work, later... 3 0 replies
WHY DO GIRLS. IN INDIA THINK THAT KOREAN PEOPLE ARE THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN FOR MANKIND? YESTERDAY MY FRIEND WAS TELLING WISH ALL INDIAN MEN WOULD BE LIKE KOREAN MAN WE WOULD HAVE BECOME SAFEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD? 1 0 replies
What to do if I am not able to adjust and compromise? I(30F) am unable to compromise for my mother-in-law. I can do it 80% of the time for my husband but if something is coming from his mother(mostly unreasonable, regressive demands) I am unable to do it. I even like certain things in a certain way in my home, kitchen etc. and if anything is moved by anyone I don't like it. It can be anyone. My husband is progressive when it is convenient for him. I am being asked to wear traditional clothes when I visit in-laws then why... 3 0 replies
paypal alternatives (please ignore the flair, i didn’t know which one was suitable) okay so i'm from india and i wanna send money to my friend living in America (it's not much only around 10-20 dollars) but the things is india does not have FNF, its not available here. india only has GNS available meaning the money sent today will get into my friends account after a long wait of 21 days. i'm sending them money for basic stuffs like getting mcdonald's or buying robux and stuff like that so a... 2 0 replies
How it's like to live in most hated country in the whole world :) It feels like everywhere outside India, people look down on indians—or at least, that’s the perception I’ve picked up. Sometimes, I think about just walking away from it all: the politics, the inefficiencies, Tbh I feel this deep, nagging pull to do something meaningful for India And yet, every time I think about it, I feel overwhelmed by how broken the system is and how hard it is to change anything. It’s exhausting to feel this way—like I don’t fully belong here, but I can’t let go either. Has... 3 0 replies
I got an opportunity to work as an intern but unpaid.Should I join this internship? I've recently completed my bsc in computer science and working in sales field part-time while looking for opportunities, and one day I got a call from a company(I didn't applied) in Hyderabad and they told me that they are hiring interns. They scheduled an interview for me and I went to the interview. They told after some basic questions that I'm selected even I have very little technical knowledge. Thes said that it will be an unpaid internship and if I work there for 3-4 months they will give... 2 0 replies
WTF what is the craze of sarkari jobs bihari bhai!! I saw a patna DM slapping a man because he was doing protest, I mean you Bihari and UP guys are the reason why these jobs are overrated as whomever even chaprasi crack a sarkari chaprasi job he will feel whole UP/Bihar is in his feet. Educated folks get out of this trap and explore the opportunities why living a life like a sloth just to live a life of a sarkari damad and security where you can reach sky high with your knowledge and skills. Live a dignified... 5 0 replies