Men are attracted to looks and women are attracted to personality?? How true is it guys?? As a women I would say yes even if guy is handsome but still if he is not decent sweet nice we tend to leave them. Personality interests and confidence is more imp to us. It's like a above avg guy with good personality. More never when we like a guy even if he is avg he looks handsome in our guys. Women are blind in love lol 3 0 replies
Does anyone find below average looking people attractive at first sight ? attractive atleast to the point where you are interested to know more about that person. 3 0 replies
What is the reason you're not dating right now? For people who are single (by choice) Do you ever feel like you want to be in a relationship but then you're scared to be emotionally exhausted and hurt, if it ends? And you decide not to date and just marry whoever your parents tell you to? Is there anyone else or just me? People in relationship are you guys happy? (Honest opinions please, my life depends on this) Is it a good idea to get arrange married? (I personally hate that but love marriage ain't possible either as... 2 0 replies
How to convince mom that I am not ready for a marriage yet? Hi, I’m 25(f) btw. The reason my mom suddenly started seeing matches is because my grandma fell ill and yk the typical Indian family she’s saying that before she dies she wants to see your marriage. I said that I am not yet ready because , 1. I don’t think I’m mature enough to handle new and additional responsibilities. 2. My career started 2 years ago and with my current pay check I won’t get a sufficient loan to handle wedding expenses. 3. I want to have a growth... 1 0 replies
Is kissing in parks acceptable? For some context me (18M) and my girlfriend (19F) started going out recently but have been unable to find a secluded space or rent a room due to some conditions. We have kissed in parks before which is usually during afternoon hours when the park is semi empty. I live in Navi Mumbai and just wanted to ask whether it is safe/acceptable to do so or not as I want to avoid any sort of complaints and complications. 3 0 replies
Why are the same RW men who were cheering for Shah Bano & mocking Muslim Personal Law Board, suddenly demanding abolition of maintenance ?? Isn't it blatant hypocrisy? 3 0 replies
ADVICE TO a 18YEAR OLD What would be the most genuine advice you would give to your younger self or any 18 year old? 1 0 replies
Why are so many workers from the Gulf coming back to India? I hope this doesn't come off as offensive. I'm genuinely curious. My college is in a pretty muslim dominated area. A good chunk of teenagers I know were born and brought up in the UAE or Saudi and Oman. But moved here for education. I didn't want to ask them directly. (Obviously) How common is this? And what are the reasoning? 3 0 replies
Why dont most Relationships last? Is it our generation? Have we become too fast and self centred that we have lost the patience? I see people around me, dating for a while then either cheating on their partner or breaking up for minor inconveniences as if it never mattered. Infact there was one couple in our college who I was sure of will end up togehter, man they were dating for 4 to 5 years now. But as soon as they passed out I am hearing rumors that they broke up. Was it similar... 2 0 replies
How has your life been in last 10 years? What has happened to your life in last decade? Positive or negative? 4 0 replies
Is talking to unknown girls or cold approach in India not acceptable? Recently I came accross a reel on Instagram where a guy was randomly talking to unknown girls along a road he was walking. The comments I saw below the video were not positive. People were saying that he is creeping out girls, cold approach in India doesn't work, he'll get called up by police etc etc. Some guys were also giving him death threats like WTF. I noticed one more thing in that reel that the some girls were comfortable talking to him while some girls straightaway ignored him... 1 0 replies
Please vote and help me decide my baby boy name Yuvan Yuvan means youthful and is a lord shiva name Or Avyay Avyay means eternal imperishable, lord ram name 2 0 replies
How often do you meet your partner? 1) How often do you meet your partner? 2) For how long do you talk with your partner in a day? 2 0 replies
To all the people out there who feel their lives have ended or not worth living, this is my message to you...let's get up together...I'll give you an advice and I'll follow it myself...let's see how far we can go ..who is with me ?? First post here on reddit... A bit of background....a few days back I lost everything I had...in terms of money ..I don't have a job..and am just a graduate...I m 38 and have my family dependent on me financially.....after crying my eyes out and seeing everyone I love crying....I thought of unaliving myself....but then I thought that I am neways gonna die one day...I'll keep trying until I am dead or i make it....so now ...not only me....I'll do it and help others do it too .. 5 0 replies
how to break no contact with your female friend? i have one girl friend with whom i have been close but purely platonic but i had few feelings for her and i shared it with her but after that we became distant for more than a year but i was also cut off from everyone but now when i am in better situation, i am trying to mend my friendships. 4 0 replies
Is there a limit to loud speakers in India? I’m from a very touristic city in Rajasthan. We have a lot of restaurants and hotels here. Suddenly there’s “Trend” here of Live music. Not the regular live music but the loud screaming of those singers and peasants waving their hands. This is going on everywhere in the city. I get it, people want to enjoy but every damn restaurant has this crap around here. Starting from 3 Pm to 10-11 Pm. Non Stop chapri guitarist and their peasants singing on Mic. If this happens on weekends, I don’t... 1 0 replies
Am I a loser 17f currently in 12th, not that good in academics but ik almost every sport and Ik 7 instruments. I don't have any certificates for all of these. But I was never academically good. I have always hated academics. I have changed around 15-16 schools being an army brat. While our country still values marks more than anything. I don't think I'll get a good college or even a college for that matter. I hate my life. Plus point being I am good at communication skills and I can easily... 3 0 replies
Megathread : Atul Subhash case Hello community , we have seen far too many posts about the Atul Subhash case and it's taking up the entire sub , instead of that this is a megathread about the same post about that case and topics in similar vain here. Also there are a lot of incels that have penetrated through these threads , we do not endorse any such people in this community and we are strictly against it , kindly avoid any such comments or you'll be hit with a perma ban. Engage in... 4 0 replies
Just a rant for then so...... I am 20 M and she's 20F Hi everyone. Writing because I have no one to talk about this, just want to clear my head. She called me today for the exam we have tomorrow. Like she haven't prepared for the exam. When I tried to help to like what to do and stuff, she was like that wasn't she wanted. The tone went low and I felt what I did. She's form another college and we often talk to each other. am like what did she expected? 1 0 replies