Anyone have “successful” siblings ? Anyone have siblings who are doing well? Does anyone have siblings that are essentially polar opposites of you? My sister is everything that I’m not and it makes me so upset. Shes making great money, she’s smart, she’s pretty, you know name it. She quite literally won the generic lottery from a looks, personality, and intelligence standpoint. And then there’s me.. the Low IQ, Autistic, ugly retard whose sole purpose is to sit here and play the same game over and over as I slowly rot in my room.... 2 20 replies
Job that involves loading freight into trucks I was given a job by a job provider that i need to undertake to not lose unemployment welfare but it involves loading and unloading trucks. Im kinda feel uncomfortable on it so im seeking opinion whether you guys think this job can be safe or not because Im worried that i might get into an accident and i tend to be clumsy but i might be overthinking. Job is logistics in Kmart 1 0 replies
i wish there was a society, or at least a apartment block of NEETs and other rejects so we could be together 1 13 replies
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I've been a NEET since I finished high school Hey everyone, this is my first time posting on this subreddit. I'm a 19-year-old guy, and last year I finished high school. I took a gap year to figure out what I want to do with my life, but I feel like I'm slowly heading towards being a lifelong NEET. I live with my parents, who love me, and I love them to death. They would do anything for me. My father always says that I never have to work if I don’t want to, that I'll always be... 1 0 replies
Trying to find new hobbies So I've been out of work for over a year now (chronic mental health issues and chronic pain), and I was wondering what people usually do to occupy themselves at home because my usual hobbies are just really boring and provide pretty much zero joy of any kind. I recently experienced a close family friend passing on top of the usual stuff with health and unsupportive family, and I just was curious what you guys do from day to day to deal with life and cope. 2 0 replies
My mom is in the hospital and I feel so lost and scared. Sorry for my English but I am not a native speaker and I need to vent somewhere. I am a 27F NEET who grew up alone with my mom. She has been divorced from my father since I was six. My mom is genuinely the only person I care about in this world, who I love deeply. The only person who knows all my secrets such as the fact that I have been living like a recluse practically since I graduated from high school. She has protected me from... 4 0 replies
Anyone else mad at how demanding society is? "Just give up your entire life working 8 to 6 plus unpaid overtime bro plus randomly on call during weekends bro. Till you can finally take a break at 65 when you finally die anyway bro. It's totally worth it bro! Wdym you don't think so bro? You were born with sin bro! That means you owe society your life bro!!!" God I can't fucking believe normies unironically and genuinely believe the above and just take it up the ass, enjoy it and expect you to as well. It... 3 0 replies
All societal ills stem from people's basic needs not being covered unconditionally We were born without our consent but yet have to earn our right to live, and that in itself proves our system relies on blackmail and coercion to ensure participation, which is immoral. Society won't start deserving the title 'civilized' till the safety net is elevated to include the guaranteed fulfillment of the most essential needs --food, shelter, healthcare-- unconditionally, for each and every member. Until the animating force behind people's actions is no longer fear or despair, with productivity being coerced under the threat of ruin, we shall... 5 0 replies
I said "I don't want to work" to my partner and they were upset. Yesterday my partner (21) and I (21) were talking and somehow it got to the point where I mentioned how I couldn't believe anyone would want to work and how I didn't want to work. I had no idea it would upset them so much. First they clarified that some people don't have a choice whether to work or not. Which I said I understood, and that was not my point. My point was that I think most people do not want to work (or at least not the... 1 0 replies
do you tell truth or lie about being neet to people nearby you when you meet someone and they ask you what are you doing etc, what could be your response is? 5 0 replies
Man, it's so hard to give a shit anymore when you've been like 7 years in bed doing nothing and you have zero energy. I have depression, anhedonia, adhd and autism....and i spendt 2017-2024 doing nothing....literally, that's 7 years were i just simply existed but i didn't engage with the world, i barely even had enough energy to watch a movie, play a game or even fucking cook a meal, that's just honestly kinda pathetic, let's be honest. I'm 27, so i'm still young and have my life ahead, but honestly i feel like a 60 yo man who is tired of everyone's shit and just wants to rest. Thing is like...i have... 4 0 replies
Sleep schedule fucked Last night bc of anxiety stayed up til like 8am. Slept til 3pm. It's a horrible feeling. 3 0 replies
Trying to stay positive I’m trying to be grateful and not take things for granted. I’m so fortunate I live in America which is a first world country and even though I live paycheck to paycheck I’m not poor. I have heat in the winter and air conditioning in the summer. I’m healthy and happy and so is my wife and so are my two kids who are in high school. I managed to be Neet for 6 years without any consequences. I am so much better off than a lot of people.... 2 0 replies
how do you deal with feeling like a loser and knowing you have potential? i know i could do so much but instead rot in my room all day, while i see all the people i graduated school with achieve things but on the other hand, i have absolutely no motivation or desire to work or achieve those things, im not materialistic so i have almost nothing to gain from a job besides independence away from family, but that wouldnt benefit me at all i feel like i dont belong in society at all. my only options are work a job knowing i... 2 0 replies