how do you deal with feeling like a loser and knowing you have potential?

i know i could do so much but instead rot in my room all day, while i see all the people i graduated school with achieve things but on the other hand, i have absolutely no motivation or desire to work or achieve those things, im not materialistic so i have almost nothing to gain from a job besides independence away from family, but that wouldnt benefit me at all i feel like i dont belong in society at all. my only options are work a job knowing i hate it and have no need for this money, or rot at home and feel like a loser. i feel like as a society we are in an extremely unnatural state but it also feels like im the only one that feels like this how do you deal with feeling like a loser and pathetic in comparison to others? for me ive told myself theres something wrong with me and i dont have the motivation others have, its not my fault. but i cant kid myself and say i dont care. my parents bother me daily