I have never given my 100% in anything and i feel like a failure. I am 25 now, did B.Tech in Civil Engineering, graduated in 2022 and unemployed ever since. Initially I decided that I will drop a year and prepare for GATE and other exams but I couldn't clear it as I was half assing it and got distracted by various other things. I decided I will drop another year. Couldn't do it the next year and this year as well, for the same reasons. I did take many other government exams in between but obviously i couldn't clear any. I even... 5 2 replies
Should a girl get married by the age of 27? I’m 26F and will be turning 27 in April. My parents keep pressuring me to get married, but I’m not ready for marriage yet. The thought of it scares me. When I tell them I’m not ready, they insist that this is the right age and that it’ll be too late for me soon. But I don’t feel prepared, and I’m not in a relationship with anyone. The idea of an arranged marriage scares me even more. 2 20 replies
How would you react , if one day you know that your nudes are leaked . How would you react , if one day you know that your nudes are leaked . Either its taken by you or someone take it. Will you think of society , family image , facing partiality , personal image , workplace issue of it , or live with regret for rest of life being traumatized of it because you will be poked of it here and there . Plus advice for the people who faced it. 4 20 replies
The love of my life started porn and I feel dead inside I don't know what to say or which sub to post this in. I feel sick, I feel sad. I guess I could use some help by just venting. I'm \[21M\], and I fell in love three years ago in college. A lot happened back then—some of my old posts might give you an idea. I was cheated on (which she didn’t even consider cheating), lied to, manipulated, and hurt in ways I never imagined. I’ve been quiet since childhood—introverted, laughed at for being that way. But she made... 3 20 replies
Southern states have saved the country from population explosion. They needs to be rewarded and not penalised for it. Southern states have saved the country from population explosion. They needs to be rewarded and not penalised for it. 1 1 replies
How important is height for dating in India ? I see social media posts all over about men being 6 feet tall but in reality I have seen women not caring that much about it ( atleast how much I observed) , its more likely the men should be few inches taller than the women rather than being 6 feet . I am 5.8 or 5.9 and never even felt insecure at all about my height in anything ever lol living in india 99 percent women are 4-5 inches shorter than me . 5 8 replies
Males of india pls never use hair removal cream on your groin area FUCK MAN I REGRET IT SOO MUCH EVER SINCE IVE USED THAT ITS JUST BEEN ITCHING AND BURNING I USED VEET SENSITIVE SKIN ONE AND STILL IT HURTS DOES ANYONE KNOW HOW TO GET RID OF IT 3 4 replies
What is one thing that could improve our lives? What is one small thing that an individual person can do, which can make life in India better? Many of us are guilty of criticising our country. But what is a solution to improve it? Can you think of one small change you can make today, which will make one tiny improvement to our country and our people? And 'emigrate' is not allowed as answer. 😄 4 1 replies
Has anyone ever dated an orphan. If so, what challenges that came with it? Should I give it a try? 2 9 replies
Is it ok to want a wife who will go for work and earn the money while I can stay at home and do household chores? Hello everyone. I want a wife who will work while I can stay at home and do the household chores. I won't care about her past or her personality .I'm fine accepting any of her demands even if I have to live with her parents. But I don't want to work. Is this fine or not? 5 20 replies
What is the incident in your life that changed your view to the world/life completely? What is the incident in your life that changed your view to the world/life completely? 3 1 replies
Who is the most overrated Indian celebrity? Many are not even worth being called celebrities IMO. 2 20 replies
Is casual dating a thing in India ? I'm a european but India has alwass somewhat interested me because of how different to Europe it seems to be from afar. My question is: Do young indians casually date? How conservative is India in that regard in 2025? 5 14 replies
Why we haven’t seen Woman terrorist?? If we turn up the history pages or see any scenario why there is 99% men who is responsible for heinous acts such as riots or terrorism, why there is no woman? Is it because women are too sensitive or Men are cruel by nature?? Need your POV on this.. 2 14 replies
pls suggest some good name for my niece She was born on 14th January on **makar sankranti.** Her rashi name starts with "he/hi" but any good, meaningful name will work THANK YOU ! 3 4 replies
What is your dream foreign place to live for the rest of your life and why ? What is your dream foreign place to live for the rest of your life and why ? 4 18 replies
If you run a business in India,no matter the size,please brag about it here If you run a business in india, no matter the size, please brag about it here. I am a student ,interested in any business scene here . I guess most of the profitable businesses that requires less capital are emerging but unknown .Would love it if you talked about your business here. 4 1 replies
Dealing with parents who hit you for your reaction but don't talk about the words that triggered you. Caring about me ultimately provides them a right to abuse me like a slave and then talk about how many privileges they provided me I'm fed up of them praising about my relatives who are my enemies as how many gifts they send me & blah blah blah. I got average marks in 10th boards and to which they still abuse me for not getting a distinction which distracts my mind from my studies. Today my dad beat me with a cricket bat just because I got in a fight with my mum and my dad will never believe me but will believe my mum who overreacts on small things. He threatened to... 1 1 replies
SHIT LIFE My life is shit Literal shit I want to break down any moment and cry,nothing seems to go right ,I m just rotting even while struggling 5 3 replies