Have you ever dated a narcissist? How did you figure it out??? Have you ever dated a narcissist? How did you figure it out??? 3 0 replies
How do you deal with a problematic family but also you are too attached? I (29F) am a doctor and recently moved back in with my family after 10 years away for studies. My brother also lives away, so for the most part, it’s just me with my parents now. From the outside, we look like a well-settled, happy, educated family—my father had a stable job before retiring, and my brother is also well-settled. But growing up, I saw a different side of things. My father was always a great dad, but he was never an ideal husband. He constantly did the opposite... 4 16 replies
Pls suggest distress/panic button or IoT device that can be used for elderly care. How about IoT buttons or smart calling bell? I’m looking to keep a device in my grandparents room that they can use to alert family members in case of emergency. They have become very old and using a mobile is hard at times for them. I saw Tapo IoT button on Amazon. Can this be setup to give an alert to a number upon pressing? There isnt enough info on the product page in Amazon. Or actually would a smart door bell do the job? 4 5 replies
Can intercaste marriages end the caste system in India? Do you think intercaste marriages can end the caste system in India? 2 3 replies
Have you ever faced racism outside India? Did you ever face any kind of racism outside India? If yes then can you tell about your experience? 5 31 replies
My oneplus phone got stolen yesterday, what should I do and which phone should I buy? Context: I lost/got my phone stolen yesterday :( I have taken care privacy and security stuffs. But I am anyway not a big fan of smartphones (I consider it as an evil tool). But the paradox is I can't live without it either. Map, Payments, Cabs, quick commerce, photos, Twitter, Notes everything's there. And I have always used just Andriod under 20K-ish. Now, I am thinking that I can either: 1. Go cheapest in market 2. Or, take a leap for iPhone investment. What do you think I should... 5 4 replies
When do you think India will get over casteism? I know it is hard to define a point when you can say that the country has got over casteism, but for this post I will define it to be time when around 90% of the people just stop caring about caste in every sphere of life. Can you imagine a time duration enough to change the society's mindset? Personally, I used to think that it would probably end when the today's children grow up and they would not indulge in this kind of discrimination, but later had personal... 4 39 replies
Bangalore Traffic Woes: Are Single-Occupancy Cars are one of the Main Culprit Behind Congestion and Pollution? Why is single-occupancy car usage so prevalent in Bangalore, contributing heavily to traffic and pollution, when carpooling or alternative transport could help? Isn't it ironic that people complain about traffic while being part of the problem by driving alone? 5 12 replies
Will sanskrit disappear in the coming years? You read the title right, what do you all think about this? I recently watched a video from Parliament where a member questioned, *"Why is the government wasting money on a language that isn’t used for communication/communicable or recognized as an official language of any state? Why are we promoting this RSS ideology?"* That statement stuck with me. I don’t know the full context, but when I think about it, it doesn’t make much sense to me either. How can you relate a language to RSS ideology? In South... 4 13 replies
Does anyone else feel excruciatingly lonely in their late 20s? When you are in your early 20s, you are fresh out of school and you feel like you have a lot of people you can talk to. You reach the age of 26, and boom! There's a lot happening in your life, personally and professionally. People who you were friends with are mere instagram accounts now. Add another year and you are a serious age now. You see your parents growing old. The few cousins and friends you were still close to, getting married. The feeling of exhaustion because... 2 8 replies
It’s my birthday today!! 🥳❤️ I’m 24 now! Life’s been a journey—messy, unpredictable, but also full of moments that make it all worth it. Just feeling grateful for where I am and excited for where I’m headed. Let’s see what this year brings! 5 27 replies
At what age did you officially celebrate your first ever valentine's day? Same as title. 5 40 replies
What do you think is better? 💍 Or 🙅 Also guys do upvote this! [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/1ip31p3) 3 8 replies
Men sacrifices Sleep for S*X where as Women Sacrifices S*X for Sleep? Guys can hold their sleep to have s*X and girls are vice versa...any opinion? 4 17 replies
In a country which is filled with self hating Indians who blame each other always about the problems , What best can an individual person do to bring change in India ? Every single day in all social media handles I see people mocking india , Indians saying we deserve hate blah blah , Best is to leave India . Man I cant afford to leave and being Indian is my identity I cant change it . I see people blaming government , blaming different castes or different community . If by blaming anything came out then probably we would be ahead of usa . So as a citizen what can I do best to contribute to the country ? I... 5 29 replies
What is the obsession of Indians questioning when someone is getting married as soon as they reach adulthood? In the wedding season, I've heard multiple people tell my parents that they should get me married off before 25, infront of me and not jokingly too. Even some unknown elder women have commented on this when they get to know I'm 22. I'm still pursuing my education but the first thing they ask when I'm getting married. 1 23 replies
Was i wrong? I recently lost a close friend from my MBA days, and I still don’t understand why. We were really good friends, and even on our last day, she told me she was sad about parting ways. Later, we both got placed in Bengaluru—she joined two months before me, about 10 km away. When I moved, I texted her to meet up, but she had night shifts and found it difficult. I insisted that we could meet at least once, but she stopped replying. Frustrated, I jokingly texted, "Hey hey,... 2 0 replies
Views of IGL controversy. Do you guys think that what indian media is doing to him is correct?" Views of IGL controversy. Do you guys think that what indian media is doing to him is correct?" 1 0 replies
The saddest feeling on the Valentine's Day Valentine’s Day used to feel different. It was once about love, laughter, and shared moments that felt like they’d last forever. Now, it’s just another reminder of how temporary everything can be. The saddest feeling isn’t missing someone—it’s knowing they’re now just a memory. The same person who once made your world brighter, who filled your days with laughter and your nights with deep conversations, is now nothing more than flashes in your mind. A song. A place. A scent. Suddenly, they’re there again, but only in your thoughts.... 1 2 replies