What are the biggest disadvantages of living in a tier 3 city/small town in India? Question 3 0 replies
Is a life without a family, focused solely on personal interests, fulfilling? If I choose not to have a family and dedicate my time entirely to pursuing my interests(ambitious ones and not) , what are your thoughts on this lifestyle? Many might be living this, of any of you have been living or in know someone living like this, Share your thoughts? 3 0 replies
A new phone I come from a lower-middle-class family, and recently, I started gambling with the sole intention of buying my mother a new phone as a surprise gift—something she truly needed but I couldn’t afford otherwise. After a week of relentless effort and some luck, I managed to gather enough money to order the phone. However, on the very day I placed the order, I ended up losing all the remaining money I had earned. To avoid canceling the phone and ruining the surprise for my mother, I had to borrow... 5 0 replies
How to ask for condoms in a pharmacy store as an 18 yo? How is the reaction, should I go to a store far away from my home, etc etc? 2 0 replies
What should I do rn? I really love my gf ... she's the only girl whom I have truly loved ever since school days. Recently she got in relationship with me and it feels like on cloud nine. She's very supportive and sweet but one thing which she often says makes me very depressing - her family won't approve for the marriage and she's helpless in this case. Ik her family is typical orthodox Hindu family and they are very stubborn for intercaste marriage and this things makes me so depressing that I'm not... 3 0 replies
Mechanical engineer struggling Hi, I have a cousin 23M who is a mechanical engineer 2021 passout. For 1 yr he was job less and in 2022 he got a job in a private civil contract firm in a big metro city. He works as an estimation engineer there in the MEP dept. His job includes responsibilities like preparing BOQ, pre tendering contract files and procurement for the fire fighting equipments like pipes and all placed in buildings. His salary is 24k as a fresher he is been in that company since 2022... 2 0 replies
Do you have secret santa at work and what do you usually gift or receive? Do you have secret santa at work and what do you usually gift or receive? 4 0 replies
Do LDR doesn't work, ever..? I'm 22M and like a girl (19F) very much, and she likes me as well, but we live far apart. We met on reddit a few months back, in some college related sub, and talked a lot here, before sharing contacts. Now we talk to each other a lot, and do VCs literally every day. We've met twice irl, can't exactly call it a date though. I've got so attached to her that i think i love her So recently she has been saying stuff like we don't have... 3 0 replies
How do you not lose hope and faith in God? Hi everyone, I am going through a bit of a turmoil in my life rn. Nothing personal, just something on the professional front with a close family member. I try helping them but i see myself giving up and losing hope. What do you do when things seem bleak? Yesterday, i gave up on God and the fact that he listens to me. I cried for hours on end and couldn’t eat/sleep. I am hopeless and faithless and even took down his photo from the wall. What do i... 4 0 replies
Idk what or how to feel about this. I will keep this as short as possible So i got a call from my ex yesterday after 7 months to answer my question (why did you just breakup and go back to your ex in like 2 weeks) 7 months ago she took me to lonavala and proposed me on my birthday and 17 days later her brother saw us coming out of a hotel and told her father about it and then she called me instantly after her father called and asked her about everything that who... 4 0 replies
Made a comment on how to move on. Are we doomed? Got so many DMs of asking for advice and suggestions on the same. Are we all so fucked up because of relationships? What the fuck is going on w us as a generation? 1 0 replies
How can you work 9 to 5, and still feel like you're living a meaningful life? How can you stay motivated and not feel like time is being wasted ? I’m 18, and honestly, I struggle to get up in the morning with the cold weather here. I often think, if most people end up working a 9-to-5 job anyway, is this daily grind and struggle something that lasts a lifetime for everyone? It feels like everyone’s stuck in the same cycle, and I wonder if there’s a way out or if we’re all just destined to follow this path 3 0 replies
A female's POV on Atul Subhash Case Before starting, I would like to tell that I've a similar case going on in my extended family. It has not reached an extreme stage but is in initial stages but I get really concerned about it. So when I heard this case, I was affected and could empathize with plight of a person struggling with this. I am really disturbed by the recent case of Atul Subhash's suicide and I strongly believe that he deserves justice. What's even more troubling is the deafening silence from my social circle,... 1 0 replies
Has anyone felt this ? A fellow ABCD here idk if this is the right sub to post this 😅. I personally feel so much gulit when I am romantically with someone. I’m old enough to make my decisions, but recently I hooked up with a dude who’s a muslim, and I was wondering why I felt so gulity. But I realized it’s due to the subconscious gulit i have due to constantly being told to never associate yourself with people who are muslim, and for me I do not dislike muslim people lmfaooo😭.... 4 0 replies
Need your advice So basically I ordered a lego like brick set and shipped it from China to my sister's at UK because they didn't have delivery in India. Now that the package has arrived there, I wanted to ask how can she bring it to India without paying any duty? To let you know, It's a 1700+ parts brick set (basically f1 car look alike, 1:8 scale model). If she just unboxes and unloads all the bricks in a plastic bag, would that do? What are the possible scenarios? Any workarounds?... 4 0 replies
Help regarding passport I have to get my brother passport reissue and he is currently in 10th preparing for boards and in edu qualification what to choose: A. Graduate or Above B. 7th pass or less C. Between 8the and 9th D. 10th pass or above 4 0 replies
Why indians are so annoying? Israeli here - Seriously, what is wrong with indian men? Just back from a trip to India and everybody was staring at my wife, catcalling her, everything is ULTRA dirty (Israel is not very clean TBH but you guys are on another level). Seriously, why not take some responsibility? 2 0 replies
Share something positive He did this , she did that , all i can see is negative energies in this sub. Tell some positive good stories, life moments, that made you feel like life is worth living . 3 0 replies
FLIPKART SCAMMED ME WITH FAKE CASIO G SHOCK. How do I get a refund? Wake up, call flipkart, cry, repeat- this is my life now. I have been in extreme distress over the last 8 days. I received a FAKE/ COUNTERFEIT Casio G-Shock watch from Flipkart worth Rs. 11340/- my hard-earned money. This FAKE watch is coming from a Casio “AUTHORISED SELLER”- RETAILNET. It was an "Open Box Delivery" - during this, a customer is supposed to inspect the content of package and check whether the product is undamaged and then accept the delivery. I checked it and it seemed fine (because it... 5 0 replies