How do I ask my money back from my Cousin who is getting married in a week. A few months back my cousin sister really wanted to buy an iPhone from all the money she had saved from a previous teaching job she did. She told me she will buy an iPhone 13 because she did not have enough money for iPhone 15. So just to help our out I said it's better to get an iPhone 15 and I will pay the rest of the amount which she did not have (Around 15000). Now she is getting married in a week and I really want... 3 0 replies
My Gujju Jain BF (28M in US now) broke up with me (hindu 26F) because he feels I might not get a job in US... Is it only him or the gujjus think practical over emotions? This is not a hate post on the Gujarat community, I just want to understand if it's personally only him or community driven reasons. I had also put up an earlier post wrt veg Non Veg. We lived and met in Chennai, we became friends, then he left for US to complete his master's. Last year December, he visited back, we confessed that we like each other. He went back, completed his masters, he's been working for 5 months now. We were in LDR, we had our regular fights... 3 0 replies
Being nice is a competency issue Often people can be very broadly categorised into two types Simple/nice/naive people who harbour no Ill intentions towards others , aren't toxic and don't play mind games or try to harm others in any sense Cunning/Manipulative people who are extremely street smart can play people according to their whims and wishes. Would trick others into believing/doing things how they want. Not so nice people I know this is way too broad of a generalisation but you might get the gist. I think I belong to first type , so... 5 0 replies
Friends father being held captive My friend's father has been working in a company called Al-Jabbar in Lusail, Qatar. The company has not paid his salary for 4 months to several employees(around 400) so they decided to go on a strike. The company told them to get it settled in court but instead they went to the police station and all the 400 employees were detained and are now being held captive. My friend and his family are really worried as his father is the only person earning in the house. Any suggestions to... 1 0 replies
Boyfriend’s career and relationship My boyfriend (22M) and I (22F) have been dating for about 5 years. He’s in the Army and most of our relationship has been long distance. He’ll be getting commissioned as an Officer soon. We’ve also been discussing marriage and our families are aware of this. We recently had a tough conversation where he was open and frank about the risks he would face in the line of duty but that I’d be looked after. I’ve always admired his passion for the armed forces but really don’t know how... 2 0 replies
Urgent guys , really need opinion in this. Is it my fault?15f So I often put up the financial issues of our home infront of my mom and i complain to her that why dad did this did that. Cause i can't bring myself to ask him those questions directly. I actually dont like to talk abt finances infront of my dad cause he already has so much burden , so i ask all that through my mom. I actually fear him too while talking all those. Today my mom put up some questions and asked dad... 3 0 replies
Please stop talking loudly on personal calls in public in foreign countries! And put on some deodorant in foreign countries! It’s fucking embarrassing when you start screaming in some Tamil or Marathi dialect at the top of your voice in front of a bunch of Germans in their own country! Stop doing it and have some civic sense! I tried giving you the stink eye at Frankfurt airport today but you didn’t see me. Come on guys, let’s put on some deodorant and remember to have some social awareness in foreign countries - these are really the main complaints people have about us otherwise we are known to be... 4 0 replies
Will I get a girl who will truly love me or she is just settling with me? I 26M, never had female interaction, no female friends, vgin. I have seen people enjoying their youth having multiple gfs and bfs. I didnot do that in my youth as I am an introvert and awkward. Most of the females I think have a lot of guys running around them that is why they surely have been in some relationship or surely had male friends. As I have no experience in these, will I be capable to satisfy my wife or be better than her exes in everything whether... 5 0 replies
The creepiest thing ever happened to us. What would you have done? We were in a resort on the outskirts of nagpur to attend a wedding! On the wedding night my wife and I left our room for dinner around 930 and came back by 10. We changed and my wife was washing her face in the washroom when I heard her say " Aap yaha kya kar rahe ho, yaha kaise aaye". I immediately stood from my bed to find a guy with a walkie talkie in his hand standing next to my wife. We both were stunned and furious!... 4 0 replies
I wanna join army camp for a month so that I can learn discipline is there a way to do so? I lack a lot of discipline, so I wanna join an army camp to learn discipline and become responsible. Not exactly fighting wala army camp, but like basic stuffs jaha hote ho army related. I am not talking about paid army training camps Jo army mein selection ki tayari karwate ho woh nhi. Genuine army camp for just a month or two. Any way to do so? 5 0 replies
I saw my father looking at edited Aradhya Bachchan’s pic.I am grossed out .What should I do? Few days ago I went to my father’s room and found him looking at Aradhya Bachchan’s edited photo.In the pic her boobs were enlarged in some lehnga like outfit…I think it was on YouTube as it was a video . I am so heartbroken.This isn’t the first time I have found something inappropriate.But she is a kid!!! Sometimes when I think too much I don’t ever want to get married….what if the guy turns out to be a creep. 4 0 replies
Drop your best 10/10 song!! Hello beautiful peoples!! We are towards the end of 2024, so drop one of your favourite song that is the bestest. PS: Only one song please, and I'll try to compile all of them and share the playlist here :) 2 0 replies
Starting a clothing brand I want to start a clothing brand in the near future but before that i want to know more about what job to to take to have some experience and earn some money and I'm 27 male and currently working as a graphic designer in a banner printing media store and want's to go to delhi from next year. So, please help as i need some suggestions. 5 0 replies
If anyone's a BlackHat hacker, pls do try and contact me. Recently i have been scammed by a person online through UPI. The person posed as a loan agent and kept taking money from me to provide me a loan of 10 Lakhs. I am a student so i couldn't apply straight from the bank. The loss amount is almost 7. Pls help me. If anyone needs the scammer's details pls dm me. 5 0 replies
Remove the beard protest by feminists Old but I was shocked to read an article today that this happened Video : https://www.instagram.com/lokmattimesmedia/reel/DBTU-NUshs6/ Article : https://www.wionews.com/india-news/shave-or-shoo-off-indian-women-protest-against-the-beard-citing-hassles-while-kissing-769616 I mean radicalization of women has gotten so normalized now. 3 0 replies
What is important? Is it money or the experiences of life? It's somewhat philosophical. People with money say they value experiences and those who don't have money they feel money is most important to even maintain relationships. I fee money is the means to happiness but is not the destination. What are your thoughts? 1 0 replies
Experiencing sex/orgasm headaches Hi all, For the past 4 days, I have been experiencing excruciating headaches whenever I orgasm. Even while using a vibrator, being fully relaxed etc, it has been happening. I read on Google that it's not case of worry but wanted to ask an opinion if anyone's had a similar experience and how'd you treat it without constant medication. For context, I do not have migraines or any disease and I am healthy. Just this past 4 days I have noticed this again and again. I am 24F 1 0 replies
What should i do now?, 😔 I met a girl on an application weplay, we started talking related to studies n all from there we quit that app and went to telegram and then whatsapp we exchanged our contact also so slowly that chat converted into a hourfull conversations like 4-5 hours but but slowly she started liking me i was just there coz I find this girl very ambitious but very emotionally vulnerable I supported her gave advice that she must talk to parents dont live alone in her house talk to everyone its... 1 0 replies
Is karma a real thing? my(22M) gf(23F) left me for some another person.the thing is she cheated once before but i was so in love with her that i thought she would change.now she's with another person and that person showed me a screenshot in which she said " i am not the person anymore like before, i really love you and want a future with you". it just happened a month ago and she's thinking about all this with that guy. the way we broke up she was talking to him at that... 3 0 replies
Where can i use my phonepe gift card? I recently got a phonepe gift card of around 5K INR and I need to clear a few doubts. Where can I use this money. 1. Can i get this amount in my phonepe wallet? 2. Which merchants can I pay using this money? 3. Can i pay to groww SIPs or Growww balance using this money? 4. Any other payment places, except for recharges 2 0 replies