not a single new year wish Hi guys. Happy New Year, sabko. I know aaj kaafi log honge jinhe ek bhi wish nahi aaya hoga except their parents. I'm one of them. 2024 was shit, tbh. Lost my chachu, bua, and mamu. All three of them. With shit tons of financial problems. It was a weird year. Lost way too many friends. Got betrayed by many friends, and basically, sab se hee. Even in college I used to cry because of how lonely it got sometimes. Luckily, I was used to it since my school... 3 7 replies
Happyyy New yearrrr, What are your plans for 2025? Happyyy New yearrrr, What are your plans for 2025? 2 10 replies
Happy New Year 2025 May this year bring you greater happiness and well-being than the last. 1 2 replies
What's the reason for ur happiness in 2025..? What's the reason for ur happiness in 2025..? 1 10 replies
Why foreigners are extorted money in name of entry fees even at Unesco heritage sites in India? I (28M Indian) recently visited Rajasthan for tourism, All the palaces and monuments have significant price for entry tickets, for citizens its ranging from 50-400 , But all foreigners tickets are starting at minimum 4x ,5x that of Indians. Why is this the case even for government operated sites?? I what visited UK few months back , I never sat this kind of ticketing system at any place, museums, grounds or anything. Anyone knows why this is the case in India? 2 10 replies
What are your new year plans and resolution? This year I wish to succeed more academically, career wise. Publish my research and articles, monetize my skill, get paid to exist, meet my people and protect my energy, go on solo trips and do good in clinics 2 4 replies
Does anyone else hate the feeling of new year It's very exciting that it'll be a new year in another hour but still it's saddening that 2024 will also just be another memory and it's like time is just flying by...like 2020 was 5 years ago. Damnnn 4 10 replies
Do people really don't see our pain unless we tell them? All my life, I've hidden my pain from everyone. Why? I don't know. I could never express it, even as a child. I (22, F) was sexually abused as a child for years, and it has stolen away my life from me. I don't know what peace is. I live in constant fear and my heart is always heavy. I don't even know what I want in my life to feel better. I don't know if anything can make it better. Every day, I walk around masking my pain,... 2 8 replies
Whats your new year eve plan I'm getting bored in home what about you guys what are you gonna do now or after some time 2 10 replies
How are you celebrating this new year? Everyone's out there enjoying with their family, friends and partner this eve. All the clubs, restaurants are booked for the night. Concerts, get-togethers, so many events going on. Whereas, I'm just sitting at my home in my phool wala blanket and doing absolutely nothing. No hanging out with friends, nothing. How are you celebrating yours? 4 10 replies
What is the point of caste anymore? I don't understand why people give som much importance to caste in this century. Who cares if you are a Brahmin. You take the same local train to work as others. Who cares if someone is Dalit. Why do people just hear that word and go attack the person. They didn't choose to be associated with the caste. It not something anyone earns. It's just a societal construct that people are born into. It has no logic anymore then why give it any relevance? I was raised to believe... 4 10 replies
Why can't I spend my New year alone working in the office? Hello, so I am an Architect, and I have deadlines which are not at all irritating for me I'm happily working and producing the output. In the process I might be working late today till midnight maybe. Now people around me want to party and enjoy and I personally don't like New year parties. I have no valid reason to be like that and I know it's annotfor others when I behave like this. I was raised in a home where we used to have a good food maybe... 3 2 replies
What's with the random rise in hate for Indians? Whenever I open instagram now, I see a lot of reels or posts saying, "Share this reel or post to delete India" or making a edit of some Indian insta accounts post and showing their account based on location. Am I missing something? I know people outside India are super racist to us but to this extent lol. In game, people have called me a scammer and slum guy after I comm lol too. Is this just some of trend or am I reading too into this lol. Tell... 3 10 replies
How to convince parents for intercaste marriage I am not sure if this is the right sub for this. But I am 26 (F). My parents had been looking for men for an arranged marriage for the past 2 years and I had been fairly open to the idea. I spoke to many people but it did not work out for me. I met a guy about a year ago and we started dating, he's a great boy with a good job. I told my parents about him a few months ago, they are totally opposed... 2 10 replies
Ladies, what chance does an average looking single 28M have in 2025? Asking this from a discussion my friends group had sometime back: Lot of guys have had 0 luck with dating apps (some have taken premium too), not really dancers, like to drink occasionally but not regular club goers. Some of them, thanks to their jobs have gotten a bit of belly fat now. All are in the 27-30 age group, no ex's, earn decent (let's say about 1L take home), live decent lives (not a lot of everyday struggles, family isn't dependent on them financially, rather free lifestyle). Most... 4 8 replies
Regarding women's perception of inexperienced men in arranged marriage scene: Is it hypocritical to ridicule men for their lack of dating experience? I often see social media posts by Indian women on their disappointment with men they encounter in the arranged marriage market They ridicule / complain about their complete lack of dating and relationship experience despite being in their late 20s and early 30s. **They see it as a red flag, a sign of incompetence, and even character flaws**. Here's an example of that sentiment >*"No guy is above 30 and still without dating and relationship experience. If he really never had any its a huge red flag. Dude has serious... 1 10 replies
How much do you rate the Year 2024? I’ve had the worst year of my life, and it affected me emotionally and physically . From blood infection that left patches all over my body to getting stitches in my head and f\*cked my mental health. I’ve dealt with intense loneliness, depression, and had no friends. Has anyone else experienced a similar kind of year? How did you cope, and what did you learn from it? 3 10 replies
what would happen if Gandhi ji was born on 31/12 instead of 2/10 ??....imagine i cant even imagine wat would happen No drunk driving = no money for traffic cops on 31/12 we would all go in to the new year sober.....lol 3 3 replies
What Was Your Biggest Achievement This Year and Why? As the year wraps up, this is a great time to reflect on personal wins whether big or small. I'll go first, started gym ( it has been 7 months ), quit smoking, met the most amazing person. Its been 4 months since we started dating. Share your proudest moment and what made it special! 1 4 replies
How can someon be in love with two people at the same time? The guy is 10 year older to me. I am 26(f) and he is 36(m). He is in a serious relationship whom he is planning to marry. At first I thought this was an office fling but whenever I try to finish things he never lets me. 1 10 replies