Unable to understand why i can't find a partner 25M .So far i've had multiple failed talking stages that led to lowering my confidence. I am not very good at humor when speaking with someone new. Sometimes it just clicks and the other person naturally vibes with you. I am a decent human being, does not lie much, tries to help others, has a decent job, respects women, maybe bit possesive but i am learning to be chill. A few women do show interest in me but i am not interested in them. Is this just bad luck... 5 8 replies
Is everyone tier 1 MBAs or Btech graduates here? I mean everytime I see in any sub, literally everyone is either in IT field or has done MBA(tier 1) and has packages of 6LPA+ . Literally no one earns like 20k-40k per month (even the freshers). I feel really demotivated as I don't think I'll be able to crack tier 1 MBA neither am I in IT so as per my calculations I won't be able to make even 6LPA till 30 (unless I do some courses like CPA/CA/CMA/etc which requires too much time and money which I... 2 0 replies
How common has cheating become in India? Day by day I’m hearing more and more cheating stories in relationships/ even long term married couples. Really gives me trust issues because I’ve seen seemingly strong relationships broken because of adultery. And it’s not just men doing it anymore, I’ve seen plenty of women too. I get dating apps play a role in having easier access to sex but there has to be more to it. Do you know why it’s becoming so common? Is cheating prevalent in your circles? 1 10 replies
What side work can you do to earn extra money? I am a corporate slave and I need to earn more to get something I need to buy. I have invested some in mutual funds but what can I do other than that to earn more? Please suggest what you do or think of. 1 2 replies
Which country do you have 0 interest in visiting ? Which country do you have 0 interest in visiting ? 1 9 replies
How did you guys welcome your New Year? I started my new year like any other day, nothing different except that I talked to my parents in the morning instead of in the evening. 3 7 replies
WTF ARE WE SUPPOSED TO USE TO LISTEN TO GOOC MUSIC!? I have been trying to listen to good music but... Spotify removed your playlist songs without informing you Yt music is simply trash - kids have better playlist then them Other apps tried like blackhole but they don't work well anymore. What are you guys using? I'm tired of not getting my good music even after paying 100s of rupees to these fking useless platforms. 4 2 replies
Fraudster stole money from mother via phone pe transaction,how to revert? In short some guy called my mom and told he transferred 1 lakh in phone pe and asked my mother to transfer the same amount to another account.My mother transferred the money without knowing that there was no real credit in the first place.kindly guide me what to do.i have the utr number of the transaction. 2 0 replies
Is making AI kiss video ethical or even legal ? I have seen many ads and app featuring this . Also watched so many reels on instagram where people have made two celebrities kiss or they themselves are kissing with their celebrity crush using ai video. What are the laws and your thoughts regrading this ? 3 1 replies
Ever felt you want SOMEONE to remember your STUFF? **I forgot attending my GATE exam one year and forgot to even apply the next.** Yeah, my memory is *that* bad. Despite juggling many hats, multitasking remains a nightmare for me—thanks to my forgetfulness. I’ve often wished for someone to step in and remind me of what’s important. So, I’m building that *someone*. 🚀 A PERSONAL ASSISTANT software that remembers everything you can’t. From task management to seamless multitasking, it’s designed to ensure you never forget the crucial stuff again. Now, I need *you*—yes, you! What’s missing in today’s... 1 0 replies
Are you rich enough to help the so called poor??? If you go to Church Street in Bangalore, you see people selling flowers. They send their kids to beg people to buy flowers or sometimes to ask for food. Many people feel bad and give them money – ₹100, ₹200, or even ₹1,000. The flowers cost only ₹50 for 20 roses, but people still give big amounts to help. These kids make more than ₹2,000 every day. They work from 4 PM to 12 midnight. And on most days, it’s like hitting a jackpot when some rich guy blows... 5 2 replies
To the people who drink , how do you keep yourself from falling asleep ? When I take whisky after may be 5 glasses , sleep hits me and I can't do anything about it. I'm missing late night moments due to this xd. Any tips to keep sleep off and be more sober through night would be helpful. 1 10 replies
Why everyone is obsessed with iPhone on dating apps? It seems like showing off iPhone has become a culture on dating apps Is iPhone really that necessary to show ur class? Like seriously? Too much show off And not even iphone it's iPhone pro dude, i understand u earn well and u are quite rich but don't make a statement with it An average middle class guy might be ur best match but he won't right swipe u just bcos of ur show off, or are u convinced u only want to marry rich, then where is love?... 1 10 replies
Why do we bother making New Year's Resolutions on New Year's Day as we rarely stick to them ? I have a doubt why everyone can't Stick to the New Year Resolution that we take on New Year's Day . 3 2 replies
What are your New year resolutions? My new year resolutions would be 1. Spreading happiness 2. Spreading Awareness 3. Doing what I want to do consistently 4. Learning new things 5. Visiting new people and places. Happy new year to you all 3 0 replies
How does one deal with abandonment issues? I've experienced this a lot lately. Either someone close to me or a stranger with whom I have a whole hearted conversation suddenly ghosts me. I know some people use virtual world as a stress relief but when they first initiate the talks with the intention of never ghosting and then do it anyways, what's when the issue starts. I certainly can't take it anymore. Sometimes I have this urge of suddenly disappearing but that's not me. How do you guys deal with such people or instances? 4 3 replies
Taking Loans in India, Bank create Physical and Mental Harresment, suggest how to handle kiosk With lot of harassment and 130% collateral taken up loan from PNB for 20 Lakhs, paid almost 13 Lakhs, failed to pay last 2 installment due to business competitions and low returns, every month from 20th everyday lot of call from PNB tell everyone to remit before 25 th , so many calls everyday, missed my 2nd installment they came to my shop unexpected and started shouting Infront of customers told them will pay this month, still they went to my home to check if I'm living them and... 2 2 replies
What are the funniest new year messages/memes you received/sent? I try send funny messages to my friends/family on every festival like Diwali, Holi, New Year etc. so that I could try to make them laugh a bit. Also the usual wishes are boring lol. What are the funniest new year messages you received/sent? I have been searching the web but not finding anything interesting this time around. We collectively can generally ideas for everyone to send and have a laugh together! PS : Happiest New Year to everyone 😄 5 0 replies
Is it normal for husbands to be this chill about other men's attention? Hi everyone, I'm feeling a bit confused and wanted to get some perspectives. I'm a traditionally-minded married woman and I've always believed in a certain level of possessiveness from my husband. My husband is an amazing man in every way. He's incredibly caring, supportive, and always puts my needs first. He's a wonderful provider and we have a very happy marriage. However, I've noticed something that's been bothering me lately. Whenever we're out and other men interact with me, even flirt a little, he doesn't seem to react at... 1 2 replies
Adults who do not party and drink/smoke, how do you socialize on special occasions? As a working adult who does not drink, smoke and dislikes clubbing and partying, I don't find many opportunities to enjoy festivals/events these days. Every celebration I know is people drinking and/or dancing and I cannot go there as I don't enjoy it. Are there any other ways of celebration where someone like me can enjoy with others that doesn't involve all the above ? 4 5 replies