What are the genuine reasons why some women make excuses to avoid sex with their husband? What are the genuine reasons why some women make excuses to avoid sex with their husband? 5 25 replies
Anyone else just tired of the constant r*pe news and heinous crimes against women? Kinda makes one want to leave this messed up country, sometimes; very shameful things being on the rise is really concerning. It really makes one wonder if humanity even has any hope against such evil; and I don't think it does. 5 0 replies
Struggling While My Younger Brother Thrives – How Do I Cope? I'm feeling really low seeing my younger brother succeed while I’m stuck in a low-paying job with lots of responsibilities. He has a high-paying job, a freelancing gig, and seems genuinely happy, while I’m constantly anxious about my future. My family gives him a lot of attention, and it makes me feel even worse. I know I shouldn’t compare, but it’s hard not to. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How do you deal with these feelings? 1 8 replies
Is it really worth having kids in India? I've always had this doubt do people really care about the problems we face as Indians? No jobs, overpopulation, religious conflicts, corruption, a backward education system, a broken justice system for the middle class and poor, poor air quality, high taxes like in England but facilities like in poor countries. I mean, we know what this country is like and how we suffer and struggle. Do people really think about this before having kids? I'm not against anyone; it's just my opinion. I even told my sister not to... 3 0 replies
Anyone else getting only violent content on Instagram today? Not sure if it’s just me, but my Instagram feed and Reels are suddenly flooded with violent content—fights, accidents, and other disturbing stuff. It feels really out of place. Is anyone else experiencing this? Could there be something weird going on with the algorithm today? 2 0 replies
Why are there more male sadhus and not as many female ones? So, I was talking with my friend, and he said something interesting—he thinks that men tend to be more deeply into spirituality than women. He pointed out that there are way more male sadhus than female ones. That got me thinking… In daily life, I see women being more involved in puja, rituals, and religious activities, but when it comes to intense spiritual practices like sadhana, meditation, or renunciation, it seems like men dominate. Why do you think this is? Is it societal conditioning, historical reasons, or something else?... 4 24 replies
Why is there a stereotypes in India that men are afraid of their wives? I have seen this stereotype alot that men are always scared of their wives and always worry about not making them angry. Men act very bold in front of others but as soon as their wife comes, they become submissive. Where did this stereotype come from? 2 24 replies
Where am I wrong in here I (23M) am light brownish have above average physique earning 1L but only 10% of the money is left at the end of month . I am sole earner of my house of 6 people mom,sister,grandparents , have a sister who is studying for doctor my mom had to retire due to mental stress and physical health problems I have a house on rent women are rejecting main problem is I can't leave my mom and sis right now my dad is alcoholic ( I don't want to till... 1 1 replies
6 hour drive and you can only listen to one artist. Who are you listening to? 6 hour drive and you can only listen to one artist. Who are you listening to? 3 0 replies
Where does all the money go? So, recently Adani donated about 10,000 crore rupees, and similarly, Tata used to donate 60-70% of his annual income. The Tata family has almost donated $100 billion till now. If Tata donates so much money, why do his medical colleges charge crores of rupees from students? Where does all the money go? Even if you want to use this much money for donations, you also need a good number of people to do the job. How much employment do these NGOs provide in the market? 5 0 replies
Why do Indian study subs always give out of touch advice? Anytime I have asked advice on these subreddit with regards to my field (science/research) the advise is always go abroad which is hilariously out of touch. It's crazy to me how so many people are just enamored with the idea of going abroad for their MS that if someone earnestly wants advice they just repeat the same old stuff like a parrot. **Here's the thing if I could afford to go abroad I already would have done so.** I wouldn't be here on reddit asking for advice. Also the... 3 7 replies
What’s a “normal” thing that feels totally weird when you really think about it You ever do something totally normal and then suddenly realize how weird it actually is? Like… clapping. Why do we smack our hands together to show approval? Who decided that was a thing? Or how about blowing out candles on a birthday cake? "Happy birthday! Now exhale all over the food we’re about to eat!" What’s something totally normal that suddenly feels bizarre when you stop and think about it? 1 4 replies
As a man, will the society accept me if I am not ambitious at all? No seriously, because our indian society expects men to be extremely ambitious, the bread winner & to be successful too. I personally have no interest in being successful, earning lots of money, I just want to live a peaceful & healthy life, I just want to do whatever I want, being healthy is my top priority, my mental health is my top priority, why should I go & work for endless hours in a high pressure environment & ruin my mental health every day. So I was just curious... 3 17 replies
Advice: is there a cultural thing in India on who names the baby? I am not Indian but my husband is. Before we even got pregnant my sister in law was adamant that it’s her right to name our baby. She even cried before we got pregnant when we said we’re not naming our baby on the name she likes because she only picked it because it rhymes with her kid’s name. Now that we’re coming close to due date and have picked names ourselves, she’s still insisting on the name she likes and has made me feel really uncomfortable about the... 1 0 replies
How many of you have parents who indulges or ever indulged in corruption? Given the blatant corruption in India, many people here must be having parents who chose to indulge in it. Spill the beans guys!! 5 2 replies
why is physical abuse an integral part of indian upbringing. I WANT REASONS AND HISTORY AND HOW THIS STARTED OUT. 5 0 replies
What are somethings which are essential but feels wrong to do? Let me go first. I think it's very important that even in an arranged marriage, it is essential for the potential couple to make sure that they are sexually compatible not at all necessarily by having sex. I don't know about you but this feels very wrong and very ineligant to me although I know that it's very essential. 5 9 replies
What memebership is worth every penny in India ? What memebership is worth every penny in India ? 4 24 replies
Trump propose "gold card" a citizenship program for $5 millions, if it really happens will it lead to mass emigration of wealthy from India ? https://www.firstpost.com/explainers/donald-trump-gold-card-scheme-us-citizenship-for-rich-eb5-visa-13866758.html/amp 1 32 replies