How can I stop comparing my life to my rich friends' lives? I'm 17, and I always find myself comparing my life to that of my rich friends who come from upper-class families. Their lives, their enjoyment, and the things they post on Instagram and Snapchat make me feel sad deep inside. I'm from a middle-class family, and I know my parents can't afford that kind of life. They have big houses and cars because of their successful parents. Comparison has become normal for me, especially since my dad often compares my marks with those of my friends and our relatives'... 5 0 replies
Tamil Nadu government concern over implementation of three language policy is right or wrong!! Does implementation of three language policy if a ppl of the state are very reluctant to take is justified, when there is various past instances of riots and self sacrificing already happened for not implementing it . Is regional lang and english is not sufficient 1 0 replies
Does anyone starts listening to old Bollywood songs out of the blue sometimes? I don't know why but I felt like listening to "Dus bahane" or Bhool bhulaaiya songs out of nowhere while I was brushing today morning, hehe. I do this also when I feel nostalgic sometimes, especially on Friday eves: listening to old songs playlist I used to listen to in my childhood. Anyone else? 2 12 replies
Are you in Favor of Reservation based on Economic status (very very low income) instead of caste? If you are in favor why? If not, why not? 2 60 replies
[M26] Why men’s compliment feels real? I was traveling by train, standing at the door, and thinking, “If only I could get a cigarette somewhere, it would be perfect.” Then, I turned my head back and saw three guys standing at the opposite door. They were friends, and one of them started lighting up a cigarette. Seeing an opportunity, I asked, “Bro, do you have a cigarette?” He said yes, handed me the pack, and I took one. Then he asked where I am from and what I do. After a bit of conversation, he... 1 15 replies
Why do Indians defend political parties even when they're wrong? 16M in India, most people act like voting for a party is a lifelong commitment. Changing your opinion about a party is seen as betrayal, even when the party is clearly doing something wrong. Instead of questioning their leaders, people blindly support them without even fact-checking. Media channels don’t help either—almost all of them are biased and only show one side of every issue. It’s like people see politics as an 'us vs. them' battle, when in reality, all we need to do is hold parties accountable when they... 1 27 replies
Why do indian people love clicking photos with random foreigners? I get a bit surprised, tho happy to see them so happy 2 0 replies
What’s a sign you’re hotter than you realize? What’s a sign you’re hotter than you realize? 5 0 replies
You just won 10 crore , and your parents ask you for half, what would you say? You just won 10 crore , and your parents ask you for half, what would you say? 5 0 replies
Can we, in any way, prevent SA from happening? If not, how can we minimize it? >!Sexual abuse and rape is so frequent.!<I have read stories about all genders of all ages wearing all kinds of clothes being in all kinds of places being assaulted and left depressed and traumatized. It's like, no one is safe in this country anymore.. Do you think there is a way we can stop this? Also, I feel terrified by the thought of something like this happening to my people. Is there any way I can prevent this from happening to them? 3 0 replies
Husband not defending me from his sister ? I am from the U.S., while my husband and his sister are from India. Since my husband didn’t have any family here, I was excited to sponsor his sister and help bring her to the U.S. However, from the very first day she arrived, she started making snarky comments about me. At first, I ignored them because I didn’t want any problems, but over time, the comments became more frequent and more hurtful. Instead of addressing them, my husband would direct the blame toward me, insisting that I was... 3 20 replies
Why are some guys nice to women but rude to men, I'm a man and I just don't understand I've seen this happen so many times in my life I've had professors or teachers who would be absolutely rude to men, but be absolutely nice to women. For example in my college, my friend had copied the calculations of a girl, and showed it to the professor for correction ( not an exam ), and he got blasted for it and was told it was wrong, and when the girl went up, it was all perfectly fine? She got full marks for it.. And in my workplace too,... 2 9 replies
Will more people turn efilist, pro-mortalist, anti natalist? Anti natalism is the philosophical idea that birthing children is immoral. Pro mortalism is the philosophy that suggests that killing humanity will end all suffering. Efilism is 'Life-ism' LIFE spelt backward which suggests it's an anti-life philosophy. It is a form of anti-natalism that is anti-life. I am none of these though I belonged to this. Currently I am in more favor of having rights to euthnasia after age of 40. 1 13 replies
Apart from Indian/south asian food ,which country's food you like ? I have not tried a lot but mexican food is good as it has good amount of spice , also I like South east asian food , specifically spice less european food does not cater my tongue , how about you ? 3 17 replies
What membership is worth every single penny? What membership is worth every single penny? 2 18 replies
Finding My Style & Wardrobe Essentials Hey everyone, I’m a 21M trying to figure out what fashion style suits me best—old money, street style, or casual—but I’m really confused. I have a dusky skin tone and want to know what color palette would complement me the most. Also, how do I start building my wardrobe from scratch? Would love some advice from you all! 1 1 replies
What are signs of a toxic partner for both men and women? What are signs of a toxic partner? For both men and women I am a man and I think the following traits are toxic: 1. Controlling your time and actions 2. Loud reactions over small things, for example crying and shouting for hours on forgetting to do a gesture on girlfriend's day 3. Princess treatment 5 11 replies
Does life really get better with time? To all the adults here, people often say, "Hang in there," or "You're still young; there's so much left to experience." But is that really true? Did you find the romantic partner you hoped for in your 20s or 30s? Did you land the dream job/company or achieve the career goals you once thought of? Were you able to overcome your struggles and rise above them? For those who did, life must feel rewarding in some way. But for those who didn’t, how do you keep moving forward? Looking... 1 7 replies