I moved to the UK from a very amazing life in India AMA? Marketer. Live and work in London with my partner who's English. Have a divine cat. Wouldn't live anywhere else. I’ve been here 4 years now. I left India because I found it to be too sensorially stimulating and it couldn’t be avoided as most roles are in office. I also was very scared about my own future and well being. I like secular States. Moving abroad is not for everyone and you may not love it. With all the deportees from the US and soon UK, I’d love to... 1 0 replies
Why good looking Indians get comments like ," you dont look Indian" ? In west people will call good looking Indias as " you look persian" , " you look hispanic" , " you look arab" etc etc . Most of India is poor and people dont give a shit about their looks , even if 10 percent of Indians are goodlooking thats more than the population of Russia . People need to accepts Indians look all sorts of people not only like jogpreet wearing turban and singing good morning pineapple 5 0 replies
Anyone felt like they lost spark in their life ? I feel like this is the lowest I've ever felt in my life. I feel like I have no identity in this world anymore. Like any random person you meet will say I'm doing XYZ job or I'm going college or I'm doing a business. And I genuinely feel so sorry that I have nothing going on because I'm choosing to isolate myself due to fear shame and anxiety. Even my birthday is next week but I feel no enthusiasm and all I wish is I hope it never... 4 0 replies
?? I've been noticing a trend where people constantly mock Kerala and Malayalis under the guise of "jokes." But is it really humor, or just disguised hate? Language Mockery - People type " ➿️➿️➰️ " to imitate Malayalam, as if our script is funny instead of just different. Dismissing Positivity with Stereotypes - When someone praises Kerala, instead of engaging, they drown them out with "Dosa idli sambar chutney chutney" to shut them up. Hiding Behind "It's Just a Joke" - When called out, they gaslight by saying "Why are... 3 0 replies
Is it worth sacrificing my career over love? 25F, I have a flourishing career as a software developer working in Bangalore for some really good prestigous companies. My boyfriend just got a govt job but it transfers all over India every couple of years. Earlier during the pandemic, I thought I will get a remote job and we can make it work, but with the remote job culture dying, is it worth it to make the sacrifice of letting my career go - or take up any remote job. Or is breakup the right way to go.... 5 20 replies
How do y'all think we can actually improve the cleanliness and hygiene of street food in our country? How do y'all think we can actually improve the cleanliness and hygiene of street food in our country? A lot of street vendors just aren’t financially stable enough to prioritize hygiene. Handing them gloves won’t help—they’ll probably just discard them and go back to the same practices. Canceling their licenses isn’t an option because, well, most don’t even have one. And shutting them down by force? That just makes them play the victim card and turn public sentiment against the government—something politicians definitely want to avoid. So, is there... 4 0 replies
how to hold a conversation with females? 17 M.......... I talked to a lot of girls....through chats ..... offline also.....got a lot of cute messages lekin 3-4 days ke baad we cant talk like we used to do.....kya kru mai ....... please help me 😭 because of this I fumbled a lot also 😭 5 0 replies
Why can't men forget their first love/Relationship? I've seen a lot of men , across the spectrum of age who are never able to forget their first love/ relationship. Even I personally after years can't get over it completely. Whereas girls , through my interaction I've seen they get over with it real quick and move on. Why can't men, why do we not? 3 0 replies
Why is it hard for freshers to get a job why are we paid less 😡 So I have observed after we finish our degree just when we decide to apply for a job they ask for experience 🙃 don't they know we are freshers despite knowing they ask . With great difficulty they think we should give or not plus the pay is so less only 16 k a month what do they think about themselves. I think all freshers no matter what job they do out of desperation they not accept the job if they underpay, Guys like Narayan Murphy want us to... 1 0 replies
Do you believe in love at first sight or lust at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight or lust at first sight? 2 0 replies
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten and actually enjoyed? What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten and actually enjoyed? 3 0 replies
Was India More Open About Sex in Ancient Times? I was watching some videos about India's history, and I came across something really interesting... It seems like people in ancient India were much more open about sex than they are today. So I decided to look deeper into this and found that... There’s plenty of historical evidence that suggests that ancient india was more progressive about sex and sexuality than the india we know today—homosexual themes in literature, erotic carvings on temples like Khajuraho and Konark, and, of course, the Kamasutra. Even texts like the Manusmriti and Arthashastra... 3 0 replies
How should I confront my 10yr old nephew that porn and explicit content is bad at such young age?? Last week, in a family function, we all boys and my cousins' (male) son and friends, all were in the hall room (about 12 people). Don't remember but my nephew (11 M) started arguing with one of his cousin (12 M) and mentioned "MIA Khalifa." Atp, like me everyone I was just too shocked to react because it's a sensitive topic especially involving a kid and my cousin mingled with feeling of dismay and anger, slapped him and ask him to go into his room... And as soon he... 2 0 replies
Why are Indians obsessed with navel, especially down south? Why do we Indians especially down south go so much gaga over waist and navel compared to other culture and countries? 5 20 replies
Why feminism in India does not address the root problems of inequality of society ?? I grew up in a small village and growing up I always saw husbands treating their wives as everything but a human being , no respect nothing , Saw kids being forced to wear hijabs in village one of my classmate told me how much she hates it and she fought not to wear this so her mother cut her hairs so that she is now forced to . I saw people not respecting women and their household work at all . Always knew it needs change and change... 5 18 replies
if you knew no one would judge you, what would you do differently? not trying to offend anyone, but if you feel called out, maybe a little self-introspection wouldn’t hurt 1 11 replies
how come a culture with kamasutra origins, erotic literature and art become a place where s*x is taboo and must avoid ? how come a culture with kamasutra origins, erotic literature and art become a place where s*x is taboo and must avoid ? 1 20 replies
Mister Prime Minister Good evening everyone, I always thought modi was a nice person until today when I got a reel which was talking about some snoopgate scandal. I bet you not guys, y’all need to see it and actually know whom we elected and why are there so many rape cases pending. INDIA’S GOT LATENT AGAR PUBLIC KO INDIRECTLY BARBAAD KAR RAHI HAI TOH YEH DIRECTLY KAR RAHE HAIN just see it guys case kaise daba diya gaya tha 3 5 replies
How cohesive is India as a country? Hello everyone, I'm ethnically Chinese, but I've lived in Canada my whole life. As a person who's studied a lot of Chinese history and politics, I recognize a lot of similarities between China and India, at least on a surface level. Both countries have incredible diverse and massive populations (1.4b). They also have a big landmass, and are developing their respective economies. Both suffered at the hands of European colonizers, but India more than China due to its total subjugation by the British, while China was semi-colonized like Persia... 2 17 replies