Why do guys gotta slide in your dm to talk about something I made a post about? I clearly made a post about it, one everyone could comment on. It's there for a reason. Why do they still have to dm me to talk about that post? I cannot handle too many dms which is clearly why I'm posting about it. 3 17 replies
Married women, did your husband and in-laws change after marriage? Married women, how did things change for you after marriage? I often hear that people change a lot after marriage, especially when family gets involved. It also seems like women end up taking most of the burden if things go wrong. Of course, everyone has their own struggles, but I’d love to hear from women about their experiences- whether it was an arranged or love marriage. Did your husband and in-laws stay the same as they seemed before marriage, or did things change? What challenges did you face, and... 4 9 replies
Please give your honest opinion and not just some bs! In India, why do people with almost zero achievements, who have always thrived on their parents' money, display the highest arrogance, even when they know they are talentless? The irony is that they can easily shut you down with their baseless and hurtful comments. On the other hand, people with strong, self-made backgrounds — who have achieved success through their own hard work and intelligence — often remain silent. They hear things like 'You’re poor, and we’re rich, so of course, we’ll take advantage of that,' and end up... 3 0 replies
3AM rant on Current India. So, this Samay and Ranveer thing kind of triggered things for me but it has always been there deep inside me but kind of was not giving it importance. I believe this country and where it is headed right now is a complete and utter joke. HEAR ME OUT! I have some points which makes me say that. 1. To start of, something everyone knows at this point which is how we media and politicians are ignoring the actual rape cases and pushing comedians for no reason. Making freedom... 4 8 replies
Is it normal to want someone to talk about daily happenings, when I have no friends? I 19M 2nd year college student don't have any real friends in college and sometimes I feel pretty lonely specially when I see people talking to their friends and siblings about their daily stuffs. Siblings s bhi baatein nhi hoti h like they are busy in their own stuff. Is it normal to want a person in life with whom you can talk anytime and about anything. If you also have a similar situation we can connect.. 2 0 replies
Getting married in 10 days. Having panic attacks... Help! I love the guy I'm marrying. It's taking place after 2 years of struggle in convincing our parents. And now that it's happening, I'm more anxious than happy. I have anxiety disorder and every day, i go through very bad panic attacks. I don't wanna cancel the wedding and I can't bear this constant panic situation. I'm scared of how my life will change. Please suggest what to do in a situation like this. Is it normal for women to go through this ? 2 5 replies
When will we stop making fun of ourselves and stop asking for some gora validation ? Enough is enough , all we do is ask for validation for our culture , our infrastructure , our food from foreigners . We are a Third world country with low gdp per capita and have to go a long way . That being said we all are human beings with same value of life , We always existed in India for thousands of years and will continue to live and continue to celebrate our culture and religion . Still on social media or even in irl we behave... 1 0 replies
Is the etiquette of applauding in cinemas after a memorable movie still alive in India, or has it diminished over time ? Is the etiquette of applauding in cinemas after a memorable movie still alive in India, or has it diminished over time ? 1 0 replies
I’d love your opinion/thoughts. I’ll try my best to not keep it long. I am 25F and I come from a fairly good family. But unfortunately my life hasn’t been fair to me one bit. I was sexually abused for months by someone I knew when I was 2. Yes you read that right. You’d ask how I even remember but I do, that too clearly. I don’t pay much heed to that incident surprisingly because the things that happened after that really fucked me over. When I was 14, I was violated. Not physically per se but publicly humiliated at school.... 1 0 replies
Lost spark in life. Does it get better? 10 months since he got down on one knee and proposed - told me we were destined to be together and he wanted to marry me (despite admitting he has commitment issues). 10 months since he planned a future with me and told me he was excited to make me meet his mom. Told me if 30 years from now someone were to ask him who’s inside his heart, the answer would still be me. 9 months since he broke up with me over a stupid argument. It was... 2 0 replies
What's your go-to Indian comfort food? I think for me simple daal chawal will always be comforting and without any doubt Biryani will always top the list. 1 120 replies
As an Italian man, I love India's history, i'm so addicted and i need where to learn Hello !!! deeply admire India's rich and diverse culture, from its ancient traditions to its modern influences. I deeply respect India's spiritual traditions, from the teachings of Hinduism and Buddhism to the peaceful philosophy of yoga and meditation,diversity in languages, traditions amazes me I feel there is connections between us and i trully want to know more !! i found Indian history so ignored and underrated Big love from Italy 1 0 replies
Indians, i would like to ask whether u like whatever is happening in kumbh? Ok, so kumbh mela is going on, and some of u might have also gone there. So, irrespective of u being there or not what do u think of the kumbh mela. I have heard that ganga is really polluted with feacal matter and what not. And also ur take on the belief of taking a dip in ganga to wash away the sins. Also give ur overall take on it irrespective of any points. 3 0 replies
Seeking Advice: When is the Right Time to Tell a Partner About Personal Health Issues Hey everyone, I’m facing a tough situation and could use some advice. I have some personal health concerns, including erection problems, a small penis, and possibly being infertile due to a high immotile sperm rate. I’m wondering when is the right time to share this information with a potential partner. My dilemma is whether I should: 1. Tell her before getting into a relationship (so we both have clarity before things get serious)? 2. In case of arranged marriage when is the right time? 3. Is there a “right... 1 2 replies
I fuckin hate Indian police When I was 20, I used to sit at out kirana shop just to help my father so he could sleep a little more, one daily evening , when I was at shop, some police personnel came to my house, my mother told my father to open the main gate, he was sleeping, my father woke up ,opened the door, made those police guys sit in ourdrawingr room, they all were taking a look at out hous while sitting (my home has a quite good look from inside),. Dad... 5 0 replies
Males help (females avoid) I am having a very bad itch down there WTF DO I DO I CAN'T BEAR IT I FEEL LIKE DYING HELPPPOPOO 3 94 replies
J&K I don't understand. Please help me understand. What is the current political status of J&K. Also, what is the will of the people. What drives the need for a special status going forward. 5 0 replies
Indians who migrated to Scandinavian countries (Norway, Denmark), is it as good as people say? I've heard it's very good in almost every way. Is it overhyped? Is it only good for the native people there? How expensive is it to migrate and settle there? 3 11 replies
My GF's ex is harrassing us My girlfriend's ex is stalking us. He came outside our college and started initiating a fight with me ( My GF and I are in same college) and kept forcing my gf to go somewhere with him. We called a cab and somehow got away. We went to the police the next day but they refused to file any complaint saying he hasn't done anything wrong that can justify a complaint yet ( he threatened me and my friends in call, the police officer heard the recording too). Today,... 5 0 replies
What's your Best Reply to shutdown "When are are you getting married?" / "Shaadi kab karne wale ho?" Especially from nosy relatives and Pados Wali Aunty.... for the gazillionth time. As if You not getting married is like a moral burden on humanity, that needs to be lifted. 4 0 replies