Possible to re"Start" life after 30? Thoughts? Im 33, i stil live with my mother in Germany, i moved here from Poland when i was 16 and i havent achieved anything. I have no degree or any useful skill, i bounced between dead end warehouse jobs, but my scoliosis got worse to the point im unemployed since couple of years dealing with everyday pain . I dont have kids, wife, or a gf or any plan for myself preety much. Im on antidepressants since i was 21 and i feel they completly messed up my brain... 5 0 replies
Thoughts on Buddhism? I think a lot of NEETs might be able to relate to a lot of the Buddha's words. I think Buddhism has NEET/outcast vibes in a lot of ways. As with any philosophy, you are going to find some inaccuracies and contradictions. Especially with philosophies that are thousands of years old and were mainly spread by word of mouth, like Buddhism, so there is bound to be some bullshit and falsehoods in there, even if the Buddha was a perfectly enlightened person. A social problem a lot of people... 1 0 replies
Stolen from Boomers, founders, the top 1% have stolen from us, the people. War, inflation, rising cost of food. The cards are stacked against millennials, Gen Z. Gen Alpa’s fucked. Skibidi toilet can’t shift kids into a higher bracket. Ghost jobs and layoffs, wage slaves for corporations. The rich are laughing in their villas and mansions, and ugly NEETs are gooning in their rooms, penniless and pathetic. The divide is astronomically wide, so much so the sky looks different for Bezos and Musk. We’re controlled by the powerful, our measly bank... 1 0 replies
Wishing to connect with others online I know this subreddit isn't designed to seek friendships , however I am hopeful to attempt to overcome my isolate even if it's just though online disscussions . Like many others here , I struggle greatly to communicate with people in person . I never had any friendships in childhood and currently spend most of my days at home or going for walks by myself . I'd be happy to hear from other lonely people who wish to talk to someone with similiar struggles as themselves . 1 0 replies
I was such a happy child with dreams and ambitions You want to tell my five-year-old self that I would become this I just wouldn’t believe it even in school. I was always quiet. I was sheltered and I wasn’t exposed to a lot of things that other kids were. I ended up being homeschooled for my last year of high school and college I had an IEP plan that allowed me to go to school once a week and it was in community college. I didn’t really have that much friends and then when I was 19 I... 5 0 replies
Food that can be cooked quickly? Hello I need some recommendations for food which I can cook quickly I mainly eat french fries, noodles and when I’m not lazy I’ll fry some minced meat Thanks 2 0 replies
Anyone else got bullied at work? How did you handle it? Would you do anything differently now? I remember I was a contractor at one job and everyone was going to lunch. There was an older guy who was like somehow the presumptive ring leader. The coworkers had asked me to join them so I was like ok but the older guy didn't like me and asked them, who's this? And I introduced myself to him, but the way I did it was I was a bit offended that he didn't ask me and his group was all women so I think he was mad that... 4 0 replies
Any Ex-NEETs here still haunted by their past NEET lives? Was a NEET for quite a while due to extreme anxiety and suicidal thoughts until 2 years ago. After seeking help, I am currently enrolled in University and have to apply and complete an Internship to fulfil graduation requirements. However, my mental health issues are still there....and also I think that I am not motivated at all. I kept having thoughts of failing my internship, and I ain't motivated to learn, like I gave up on life itself. The NEET life felt so good and horrible at the same... 5 0 replies
really losing motivation in life i’m a deep NEET aka i’ve never been employed, i’ve been volunteering so far, and i’m looking for more volunteer opportunities to fill up my resume, been looking for part time work, trying to get my drivers license, been trying to keep my brain busy by doing my creative hobbies but it’s hard to not fall into a doomscrolling rut. Everyday is like agony knowing i cannot do anything to reach my goals due to my circumstances, I wanna travel overseas and i even started learning another language to... 4 0 replies
Hi i Made a discord server for Neets. https://discord.gg/a2vm6cpd I tried to make a neet friendly discord server where you Can make friends and relate to each other. 2 0 replies
He should’ve also put a tiny fraction of a grain of rice that can only be seen with a microscope for disabled people on welfare that heartless assholes swear are the problem He should’ve also put a tiny fraction of a grain of rice that can only be seen with a microscope for disabled people on welfare that heartless assholes swear are the problem 5 0 replies
10 of us. 1,000 sq. ft each. No neighbors. Cool location. $18k total. That's less than a 1 year apartment lease. 10 of us. 1,000 sq. ft each. No neighbors. Cool location. $18k total. That's less than a 1 year apartment lease. 1 0 replies
Question of the day: How clean is your room? Mine...could be worse. Got dirty clothes all over the floor and I haven't swept in months. 3 0 replies
What’s a job I can do where I don’t have to talk to a single human and can have earbuds in the whole shift? (Pls, no warehouse or similar slavery like jobs) Yeah. As the title said. Currently, I very luckily managed to find a role with a water/sewerage company and my job is pretty much responding to live chat customer enquiries and emails, which I don’t really mind. It’s the ‘in person’ interactions I despite. Unfortunately, management told us we will all soon be going onto the phones and having to talk to customers. Fuck that. I’ve done call centre before and I’d sooner beg on the streets. I am very socially anxious and kinda socially retarded. And then, when... 4 0 replies
My parents keep fighting What should I do? They just keep fighting and there's no end to it. 2 0 replies
I work a lot but I think I prefer the company of NEETs more than working ppl I work a ton and hate it, I'm a good worker, I do my overtime every week, say my yessirs and all that etc, I grew up homeschooled so like I don't relate to the ppl I work with at all and never really have except for a few select people. Every NEET I talk to is like hella cool most of the time and most of the time have really good taste. So yeah just wanted to say u guys arent as hated by everyone like you might... 1 0 replies
Be grateful. I see a lot of posts about how NEET life is just as depressing as holding a job. I have to strongly disagree. You get to spend majority of your day messing around on the internet either playing video games or being entertained by your favorite personalities. I think the depression comes from doing ABSOLUTELY nothing. If you do even a little bit here and there you won’t feel as bad. For example, making dinner and cleaning house can benefit you greatly. I recently found a recipe for a... 5 0 replies
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