How will you react, if you come to know that your partner is having physical relation with someone else? Keep in mind that adultery cannot be a legal basis for separation in India. 2 0 replies
Over-generalized titles in posts nowadays Almost every post I see in this sub these days, if it has a someone describing a problem they are facing with someone, the title is just phrased to discriminate against the whole group of people. "Why do mothers hate their daughters", and the post goes on to talk about an issue OP is having with their mother. "Why do Indian husbands take their wives for granted", and the post goes on to talk about an issue OP is having with their husband. And so on. This is concerning... 2 2 replies
Why do mothers hate their daughters? Pretty much the question. There is an unseen tension between me (23F) and my mom, which I think we both feel. I am vey scared of her mood, how would she react. She criticises me a lot, but provides me with homemade food-so I remain confused. Anything I say can result into a conflict. When I present a fact, she goes way above and beyond to prove me wrong.. Only thing we can agree on is how much her in laws are toxic, nothing else. One more thing I... 3 47 replies
Is it fair to blame the Govt. for the country's challenges when, in reality, the responsibility to create value and drive progress lies with the people? For example, our railway stations are filthy & overcrowded but who is responsible? Why airports are so clean but railway stations aren't? Because in metro, you can travel 120 kms for just 30 rupees. Basically, railways is run as a charity, for giving the poor masses, cheapest possible way to travel. Who is responsible that the masses are poor & only 2% is able to pay direct tax? Ideally, govt. shouldn't be in business. It's upon the people to take risks & create value in society. Are Indians doing... 3 0 replies
Need Discussion on Banning White LED Headlights & High Beams - Road Safety Crisis Seriously, can we please have a serious discussion about banning those blinding white LED headlights and the rampant misuse of high beams in India? It's becoming a massive road safety hazard. Whenever I m coming back to home from gym, half of the time I m blinded by my fellow Indians who don't even know what fog lamps are or high beam is. It seems like half the drivers out there have absolutely no clue how to use their headlights. They're driving around in cities with their fog lamps... 4 0 replies
How to mingle with peoples How to mingle with people when we go out or at gym I am very bad at communicating with people 3 4 replies
Why do Indian husbands start taking their wife for granted at some point of time I am a doctor by profession and married for 2 years now. I always wanted my husband to respect me and stay connected on all topics. But now I feel that my husband has started taking me for granted and sometimes doesn’t listen to me. I don’t know if it’s normal. All I want is respect in the relationship. Please give tips. 1 57 replies
Is it safe to eat Biryani now? Considering the recent flu news in India, is it safe to eat Biryani now? 5 28 replies
Men who never had a relationship and are trying for arranged marriage, dont you feel inferiority about being unable to get a girl on your own? Also how do you figure you would be liked by her if you have never been by anyone till then? 5 24 replies
Who around you committed Sui*i*e you thought never would? How did it personally effect you? Same as above Edit 10:58 PM I don't know how to write this but hearing all these stories & it makes my heart shatter. I am sorry you all had to go through those times 🙏. 2 48 replies
What’s the Biggest "Oh Shit" Moment You’ve Seen/Done at Work? I screwed up big time, (lawyer here) While registering for GST turned the CEO into COO and submitted the application. The physical inspection of documents is day after tomorrow. I'm gonna get fucked real bad. 2 1 replies
What does "maturity" mean in terms of a lady's nature? This question is for all the ladies and gents out there. What do you people mean when someone says that a lady is mature not physically but otherwise? What is the meaning of maturity, specifically in women? Does maturity mean being practical in life? How can a mature lady make or break a relationship? Is it good to be overly mature? All the inputs would be highly appreciated. Thanks to all. 3 4 replies
How to become attractive to girls beyond the basic weight loss, grooming and clothing.? Basically what sort of personality, hobbies, attitude etc to keep. 1 47 replies
You wake up and suddenly have the ability to pause time—but only for 60 seconds per day. How do you use it? Imagine you have a superpower, but it comes with a weird limitation. You can stop time for exactly 60 seconds each day, no more, no less. How would you use this ability in your daily life? Would you use it for something clever, chaotic, or completely pointless? Let’s hear your best ideas 3 27 replies
Should I get married at 25 ? So I have this gf who is 3 years elder to me. I’m currently 23 and she will be 26 in May. Her mom and her relatives are pressuring her to marry in two years. My family is okay with it, as long as I am stable and happy. But is it too early ? 5 0 replies
Why can't we just live and let live? just live and let others live. Too hard? I feel our society, especially Indian society, doesn’t want us to experience true freedom. We’re always scared of being judged. Funny enough, if you try to be different, you will be mocked. Maybe names will be called. Forget the old generation being judgy; the new generation is also in the same boat. They are more on it as social media exists with everyone now, and you can easily bash them. very few are breaking through but for how long will they... 1 5 replies
Why do Indian people working in MNCs never miss a chance to lick a**es of firang counterparts or firang bosses? I work with a top-tier (if that applies) American Company and it had been a week that I’ve been asking my senior (my boss’s counterpart) in another team to share an access which he owns. He never replied to me earlier and kept redirecting me to IT teams which are next level to sarkaari officers - kept moving me from one person to another. And then finally the request landed with a super sweet young girl (intern sorts) in IT team who told me that the guy, my senior... 1 0 replies
Why Nayi Delhi is New Delhi but Navi Mumbai is not New Mumbai? Why Nayi Delhi is New Delhi but Navi Mumbai is not New Mumbai? 3 0 replies
Why do Indian parents manipulate their kids? They say, 'We are so hardworking for you; you're our only hope.' Hope for what? To bring us out of poverty or the middle-class struggle? Even mothers say, 'We carried you for nine months.' Well, who asked them to get pregnant? 2 0 replies
What do you think about the people who illegally migrate to USA or Canada or EU ? Why they sacrifice their dignity , morals and everything but also spends a lot of money by what they could have lived a okaish life in India edit - the people who are straight up justifying crime and loan scams , I hope your area gets flooded with illegal bangladeshis. 2 15 replies