Mother doesn’t approve of my partner. Advice needed please! I’m in my late 20s and have been dating someone I love deeply and can really see a future with. The problem is that my parents have been very unsupportive of our relationship. Initially, my dad was on my side and supportive of my boyfriend and me, but recently, he’s started siding with my mom and now opposes us being together. I still live at home, and whenever I try to see my boyfriend, who lives out of state, my parents give me a hard time. They bombard me... 1 8 replies
What are you doing to change the society ? While we love to blame government and politicians for everything I feel that we as a society aren’t civilized enough. I have lived in different countries and can see a stark difference in how people and society are in genera. So, I am just curious what we are doing differently to have a positive impact on society and people in general? 4 10 replies
Suggestions for secret santa gift for an anime fan? Limit: ₹500 So i have to gift something to my colleague on christmas for secret santa. But I don’t know what to give. I know he’s into anime. So i was thinking gifting something related to anime like a manga book or character figure. Do you guys have any better suggestions? The price limit for the gift is ₹500. 4 2 replies
Why do so many married men in corporate environments appear sexually frustrated or cheat, even after love marriages? Do women in similar roles feel the same pressures or act similarly? I’m a 26-year-old man who has worked in corporate roles across major cities like Bangalore, Pune, and Mumbai over the past few years. During this time, I’ve noticed a surprising pattern among many married men, especially those in their mid to late 30s. A significant number of them seem either sexually frustrated or are actively cheating on their wives. What shocks me the most is that many of these men had love marriages that are 4+ years old. What’s even more troubling is how they objectify and judge women.... 5 10 replies
Indian men, how did you deal with balding in your 20s? I am at the age where I can’t hide my receding hairline anymore. My crown in very visible, and the hair on my head looks very thin and patchy. This is impacting my self esteem and ability to attract women. I know there are many treatments out there, but I don’t know where to start. Indian men how do you deal with this issue? 3 10 replies
Want to start a solar power company I want to quit my 9-5 job and ultimately start a business down the line, solar power setup on a large scale. I have contacts in government for contracts but before that I want to understand more about the industry. How should I start? 4 1 replies
What can I gift my partner (23m)? Posting it here because his taste resembles men over 40. He works in corporate and is pretty workaholic. He uses quiet luxury but is down to earth and doesn’t care about material goods at all. He’s just raised that way. I’m great at gifting and prefer things which have a deep sentimental value and thought attached to them but I have no idea! His birthday is in 3 days. So men over 30s, what would you prefer to get from your SO? 5 10 replies
Why is Tourism not a major agenda for India Asia is considered the "paradise" for tourist across the world. For country that has so much to offer from the mountains of Kashmir to the deserts of Rajasthan, we have absolutely no tourists to show for compared to countries like Vietnam, Thailand or Indonesia. Why is it that the government not bother about this since his tourism will translate to more income and better worldwide perception? 4 4 replies
Why do Indians in general hate each other ? My personal perception is the way we were raised. The famous situation like Sharma ji ka beta yeh kar raha hai, itna aage badh gaya. God I always hated those kind of kids. what I mean to say in a really crude way is, due to competition everywhere and comparison by others we have always put ourselves down. And then those failures led to looking for reasons in religion, regionalism and the list went on from there. Of course this is not so simple as I have put. My... 5 10 replies
Why does the Indian judiciary not have a jury system like the American one? Although not sure if it is a good idea or not. Happy to hear what you all folks think about it. 5 10 replies
PLEASE HELP!! IM TIRED OF THIS LIFE 19M doing my BE in some tier 3 college in Bangalore. had a recent break up where i was too much attached to a girl and she broke up with me couple of months back since then i am not able to be myself, i am all alone, friends support her and be with her even after knowing the situation. messaged her a month back explaining abt my situation, she said "i am in a good place now, so stop sending these kind of messages" i broke down. no... 3 10 replies
People who went from rags to richest how did you do it?? By this i mean people having around networth above 10 - 20cr , what education did you pursue , how was your journey ( in terms of difficulties, problems faced, new experiences etc. ), What are you doing now? Guide us 🙏 1 10 replies
Did she proposed me? I 22M (soon to be 23 in a couple of days), work as a junior assosiate researcher at a Lab in Delhi. I am the youngest employee expect for interns and most of my colleagues are 35+ and I don't connect with them well. Hence I started spending more time with the interns, some of them became good friends of mine and among them is another girl (21/22 Idk). She became a great friend of mine, and we often use to go home together sharing a cab (basically it... 4 10 replies
Am I over burdening myself? 22 M working as an SDE in a multinational company (12 lpa) . Don't know why but I always love coming to office and doing more and more work..others in my office always taunt me for this and they themselves try to avoid work..I always have that urgency in me to solve things asap and take more stories in sprints and take more responsibilities in other than work activites but It sometimes feel am I taking too much work? I get tired after work (overtiming somedays by will) but... 5 10 replies
Jealous when your gf talks to another guy ? Guys are you jealous when your gf talks to another guy ? Ik people would judge but be honest. Do you get jealous and like seriously angry/insecure when she talks/spends time with another guy. 5 10 replies
People keep talking about Indians moving abroad, where are they going? Everyday there's countless posts about people leaving India for "greener pastures". Where are they even going? Popular destinations like Canada, Australia, UK etc are tamping down on immigration. The US tech job market is currently fucked although it's gotten marginally better for highly skilled and experienced engineers. Where are all these people even going? You can't just be rich to leave the country. You need visas and jobs to stay there. You can go abroad as a student but the ones that went a couple years ago are currently... 5 10 replies
Is there an edge for rich families at Ivy League schools like Harvard? I was watching a podcast and learned that Birla's son is doing his MBA from Harvard. Similarly, Kotak's son also did his MBA there. I understand how incredibly tough it is to secure admission at such prestigious schools, and Birla himself is highly educated and accomplished, so it's possible that some of those traits contributed to his son's success. However, I’ve noticed a general pattern: a lot of wealthy and influential families seem to send their kids to Ivy League schools in the US. My question is: does legacy... 4 10 replies
Which are your top 5 states to settle down in India ? If possible,write some reasons alongside. 2 10 replies
Which is the best tier 2 city to settle down in India? Considering the fact that almost all toer 1 cities have become densely populated and uninhabitable due to pollution, traffic, pricing etc. which tier 2 cities are the best options to settle? Most common response I heard is Jaipur, Pune, Indore, Cochi. Any other cities you think can be better than them? What are your thoughts? Where do you live and where do you want to move? 1 10 replies
How would you feel if you are newly married and your husband takes viagra? 29 M, I'm dealing with erectile dysfunction about an year. My family is looking matches for me as I'm well settled career wise. I told my parents that I can't marry right now, they are asking what's wrong. As you might understand it's highly difficult to have this convo with your parents. I've always dreamt of having a nice family with kids and the thought that I might not be able to have one is causing me debilitating sadness. So, I've come to terms with using drugs like viagra(sildenafil),... 4 10 replies