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daddy

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about 1 month

I want to have good feelings again

I only feel numbness, sadness and angriness, only negative. I want to feel love again, I don't even know anymore what the fuck is that, I only get angry at women, I get angry at people, mainly I am with the reason ofc, but why can't I feel something positive about people? I know why because they all act stupid , act norm and are prejudiced against me. • I think my only escape is schizomaxx so I can manipulate my brain into loving some fictional character and living...

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happy

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about 1 month

I have a debt in loan apps for since October I haven't paid the remaining December until today.

Man, I borrow some money to apply some jobs even it's a low pay. Because I need it for transport and for my everyday needs. Mom's don't want to help me because he wants me to be independent. Now they are calling me(about the job btw I got fired for no reason or maybe I was useless or something like that), I try to apply to get like a neetbux in our LGU but nothing happens.

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jhasneha29novm

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about 1 month

DAE just spends all day on the bed sometimes?

There's just days i have zero energy, man... I've spent four days without going outside or playing a game or watching a movie.

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viraj.catanxs

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about 1 month

Waging turned me into a cynic

I once waged for about 8 years on and off. I hated every job I had because of my coworkers. I’ve met every type of douchebag you can imagine. I now find it hard to be open to new people being neet dosent help making friends either. I don’t miss most people that’s for sure. I did meet some diamonds in the needle stack and I hope they are comfy. But all in all it’s really true that most people suck lol. Everybody just tries to use you for...

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sam

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about 1 month

Does anyone else here have parents who just don't care?

I'm not ungrateful to my mother for all that she has provided for me. But sometimes I feel more like a house cat than a human being. I think the worst part is that I can totally understand why she does it. From her perspective she's just trying to enjoy her life, parenting must have been extremely annoying. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong? Just looking for opinions from other NEETs. It's like the opposite of overbearing parents, like she simply couldn't care less about most things in my life...

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mitali

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about 1 month

Should I start going to the gym? Do any NEETs here lift weights or do cardio?

Hi, I've been a NEET since February 10th, 2021. I mostly stay at home. I broke my back in 2017 so I have chronic pain. I can still function fine though. I wonder these days about going to the gym to start lifting weights and doing cardio. I'm already strong from working in construction for 10 years before I was a NEET. However, I'm overweight and smoke weed and cigarettes a lot. When I was working I would walk a lot too. Usually a minimum of 10 kilometers every...

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zakir

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about 1 month

Does anyone else have trouble walking?

I haven’t seen anyone talk about this. I’ll delete this later since posting publically is scary, even on a burner account. I’m sorry if it’s poorly written I never had trouble with mobility as a kid, but as a teen, I started having severe back pain, and walking for a few minutes would hurt a good bit. But I didn’t walk much, so it didn’t concern me since I would rarely feel it. It was only when I went on a vacation last year that I got worried. I...

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nikki

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about 1 month

Is like I need permission or something

One of the things that keeps me in the inertia of being a NEET is the feeling I need permission to do something. Years failing to fit in the society, now trying again is getting harder. Is like my interior voice is saying "You can't leave your house, you have nothing to do outside, so stay in your room where no one can see you." The only place that I felt I kinda belong was the mental hospital, everyone say is a terrible place, but I like, at least...

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kajal

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about 1 month

i got rejected for a volunteering job

i did a trial shift at the doggy kennels and even they didn’t want me ? anyone know why this is ?

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nikita

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about 1 month

Do you even like yourself?

Just a simple question. There are some things about me I don't like.

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mittul

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about 1 month

Are there people here without any friends or social groups?

I feel like I'm in the minority, everyone has at least one friend or community that they identify with, I don't know how people do it either. How to make friends?

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nikita

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about 1 month

unemployed 24 years old

unemployed 24 years old

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arpit

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about 1 month

Quality of upbringing

I have a feeling most of us are the product of single mother homes and wanna check [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/1iyuzgi)

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happy

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about 1 month

I feel better and more capable

Hi guys I wanted to share with you that for the past few months, I have been making some small changes in my life. I share this not to boast, but to say that no matter how far in the dark pit someone is, small changes can still be made to improve quality of life and general fulfillment. I'm still lonely, don't have any irl friends, have no job, etc. still have tons of issues but things are better. I started really small and the first thing I did...

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tanishasahu0911

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about 1 month

Looking to help / coach someone

I am looking to help someone (or multiple people) because I enjoy it and I'm curious about it. I'm a NEET and so I'm free all day every day to discuss things with you. So please DM me if you are interested. If you are feeling lost or like you are wanting some advice please DM me. With being a NEET myself, I found feeling the exact same way and I always thought about if I could give my past self from years ago advice. It seems interesting to...

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arpit

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about 1 month

I seriously hope there is no reincarnation or afterlife

I am so done already and unless I am reborn with immense wealth, healthy body and a good family I don't want to go through this shit called life again.

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moon

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about 1 month

I'm going for the peace and leave the dark

i'm gonna try to reach a point where i only care about chill , forget all thoses shit that burn my brain those years, i'm gonna visualise a chill place with nature and try to reach that , i'm done i will never be normal at least be in peace in my brain, would be enought, thought it seems hard to reach all that pain will take time to erase itself 1 years or 2 i can do. Neet sloth laying to the warm river. See you guys

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ekta

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about 1 month

i realized i don’t feel comfortable being myself at home

i am a happy person. but i don’t feel comfortable being happy because i disappointed my dad big time with career choices and my mom feels it’s immature to be happy (she’s depressed) okay i found a sub to poast this under and i hate to call this venting. i should be above that. ofc everyone’s gotta vent at some point but i would call this more like meditation i’m going to get income and then move to bulgaria so i can walk everywhere and be an adult

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vivek09

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about 1 month

I guess most of us have suffered bullying

I guess everything has an origin. Constant rejection and humiliation from childhood has lifelong consequences, the first being low self-esteem, the second being the low value one places on oneself with phrases like "I'm worthless." Third consequence, social anxiety, irrational fear, it starts with a strong tachycardia that will affect even your vocal cords, your hands will shake, you will sweat, it can appear at any social moment, it starts at school, what for some is just a place to learn and have relationships with others of your age...

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shreyaa

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about 1 month

AvPD -> Living in constant shame -> Selective Mutism -> 26 y/o NEET

Just need to vent. I clearly need a therapist... --------------------------------------------------- I only recently discovered what AvPD was ([through this video, if you're curious](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j0Ut9eDesI&ab_channel=MedCircle)), and when I did, it was like I unlocked something that managed to explain all of my struggles growing up—things that I was never able to put into words. Everything discussed in the video above resonated so hard with me, from having incredibly low self-esteem and constantly pushing people and opportunities away while being fully aware of the consequences, to living in constant fear of being...

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i/communityname

i/neet

I want to have good feelings again

I have a debt in loan apps for since October I haven't paid the remaining December until today.

DAE just spends all day on the bed sometimes?

Waging turned me into a cynic

Does anyone else here have parents who just don't care?

Should I start going to the gym? Do any NEETs here lift weights or do cardio?

Does anyone else have trouble walking?

Is like I need permission or something

i got rejected for a volunteering job

Do you even like yourself?

Are there people here without any friends or social groups?

unemployed 24 years old

Quality of upbringing

I feel better and more capable

Looking to help / coach someone

I seriously hope there is no reincarnation or afterlife

I'm going for the peace and leave the dark

i realized i don’t feel comfortable being myself at home

I guess most of us have suffered bullying

AvPD -> Living in constant shame -> Selective Mutism -> 26 y/o NEET

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