I only enjoy being in fantasy worlds Be it anime, manga, games. ITS just better than being outside. 1 9 replies
The Financial Times has written an article partially based on this sub - Young people are rejecting work. Why? The Financial Times has written an article partially based on this sub - Young people are rejecting work. Why? 3 3 replies
I am the loser in my family I am almost 21 years old and a male. I am in college, but the classes are so easy but they won't simulate the real world where I will definitely fail. I dropped out of high school and gotten a GED and gotten kicked out of the house at age 17. I moved into my grandparents house to go to school although I am failing miserably. My grandparents said that if I fail college, they might send me to a group home. I feel like a loser compared to... 1 6 replies
I'm getting McDonald's for breakfast/Do you spend a lot of money on take out? Hi, Today I'm getting McDonald's for breakfast. I'm getting some sausage bacon and egg breakfast wraps, two apple pie, and two muffins. That's enough food for almost the entire day. Because of my mental health issues I don't really like cooking and survive on a lot of take out and fast food. Do you spend a lot of money on take out or fast food? Do you go out to eat a lot? 1 10 replies
Hey guys why are you neet, in my case it is involuntary. Please tell yours and how are you managing life and things in general. I tried jobs but I cant perform and panic a lot. I got jobs using reference. Dating life was never there due to low self esteem. I am about to cross 30 and all friends have drifted away as they all outgrew me So folks, how are you managing all things, would be a lot helpful for me to navigate life. 2 10 replies
I Got A Psychologist and idk how I feel about it but its okay Been in the most recent round of isolation for about 3 years now with a short period of doing door dash until I started breaking my moms car. Practically hikikomori aside from leaving the house on a weekly basis for the doctors, or to go to the store. At 27, nearly 28, its getting quite old and that shitty saying of "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired" is true for me. Not sure if I'm quite to the point of actually being able to change, but... 16 0 replies
How I like to walk around, but absolutely hate commuting. Like, nothing better than to leisurely stroll around on my two for couple of hours, but if I need to be somewhere, nah. I also can't drive and get sick from public transport, so only option is walking. Good that I, at least, live in a walkable city. 10 0 replies
this is not a life I'm mostly just vacantly distracting myself but every once in a while everything just hits me all at once. There's just fucking nothing to my life at all, I'm not doing anything my brain has rotted away and I can't even express how this feels at all i'm just teetering between numbness and extreme anger desperation frustration that i have no outlet for i used to think i could somehow at least get something creative out of my situation but nothing of value can come from a person on... 12 0 replies
Disability benefit scams and why the government isn't going against healthcare insurance companies Interesting thing is that the government is just sitting by and watching all these insurance companies murder and torture ill people with deny, delay defend tactics. Like it's sort of shocking, that blatant murder is just treated like business as usual. But the thing is that from what I gathered from disabled people, social workers and doctors, the government uses the same murderous strategy against disabled people claiming benefits, forcing vulnerable people to go through a lengthy appeals and court process. Then it spreads rumours about disabled people committing... 4 2 replies
Need to vent. Sorry about this. I really envy people who live in the US and the other Western countries. The inhabitants of my country are a fucking cancer. I am so tired of the normies/disease who inhabit my country. So tired of being treated like crap because of my autism and sexual orientation. The inhabitants of my country deserve to rot in hell. Can't fucking stand them. I really hope that I will one day escape to the US, UK, or Canada. I told myself that I do not need to experience eternal suffering.... 4 2 replies
I was thinking I’m 50m and I was a Neet until two months ago in NYC living with my mom. Then two months ago I left NYC and move to Atlanta and moved in with my wife and kids and applied to a job and stopped being Neet. I enjoy being a Neet immensely. I was just thinking if I stayed in NYC with my mom and stayed being a Neet and never moved to Atlanta with my wife and kids, what would it matter. In the larger scheme of things nothing... 14 0 replies
How I deal with normies, debt collectors, and other miscellaneous trash that is interrupting my iPhone 16 pro experience Now all calls except my contacts go straight to voicemail, all the normies and anyone that wants my money can burn in a searing inferno before they ever get anything from me. I fucking love wasting these people's time and hopefully getting them fired and on the streets for not being able to get a debt from me for years 😹😹😹 Should I open even more credit cards, take the cash out, flush it down the toilet to spite them, and then have the slaves call me straight to... 11 0 replies
How long would we even survive like this? I am wondering how long we can survive like this. I don’t have any friends or SO. I have been all by myself for the last 12 years. I do go out occasionally, but it is mostly with my fam when it is too important.Otherwise, I only step out of my room when I need something that only I can buy by visiting the nearby shops. Basically, I don’t have any social life or anything. The worst part is I have been like this for so many years. Also,... 14 0 replies
Currently on my first gap year after college, I just wanted to get opinions from those who have also done this, I have the questions listed below: Here are the list of questions: Why did you choose to do a gap year? How did end up coming a neet? What were expectations to being a neet or on a gap year compared to your current reality? Was it expected or is it different from how you view it? Pros and cons of a gap year/ being a Neet? Overall experience of being on a gap year or being neet? 15 0 replies
my phone got broken again and I haven't use it since a month ago. Don't have money to fix it, I still have a backpay from work that I haven't claim it. But it's too far from my place 2hrs away. But no I would rather use my laptop for now which I am using right now. Much better because when I have my phone I had so much problem and so many jealousy because I always see my friends or schoolmates are now much better life. Much comfy now because I don't use the social media beside this reddit, I feel like much Isolated because they don't know what I am doing. 8 0 replies
Former NEET here but still dealing with the consequences. I made a decision to go back to school and work while training at the gym two years ago because the NEET lifestyle got so unbearable. It was so chill in the beginning, but it became unbearable three years in. Not being able to hold my head high was part of it, but my main issue was time passing in a blur with zero awareness. Fast forward to now, I still have this issue of my days just ending like they never even began. I don’t know if it’s... 16 0 replies
job update lol been working my shifts, talking to people, actually doing ok socially. But man there’s these moments where i just wanna clock out mid-shift, walk out the door. Idk maybe it’s the pressure or the noise or whatever but it’s loud in my head sometimes. oh yeah, pretty sure the owner saw me smoking outside during break. 13 0 replies
Normies constantly need to do something And I think this is the biggest thing that sets us apart from them. Being bored is the worst thing in the world to normies. They constantly feel the need to go out and do things, to travel, to go on trips, to go to the store, to go to bars, to go clubbing, to go hiking, to go to literally any sort of activity at all. Anyone remember the lockdowns and how furious normies got when they had to stay inside for a few weeks? It's funny too... 12 0 replies
Pissing your life away and living only for transitory pleasure instead of anything meaningful like growth or achievement should BURN your soul and keep you up at night. For it not to, barring serious brain damage, would strong indicate arrested development. Therefore it's your parents fault. what other conclusion can be reached? 10 0 replies
At what age did you feel you would be an outcast in life? I felt it as soon as 5 years old when I was most of the time playing alone instead of playing with other kids when I was in kindergarten. My favourite time in kindergarten and early elementary school was when we were playing in the computer lab doing random shit. Everytime we had to be in groups/teams for work or something, I'd always feel like shit and felt the need to get out of the classroom. What about you? 17 0 replies
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