Does anyone have beautiful dreams? Lately when I have been going to sleep I have the most beautiful and interesting dreams. It's like I'm a normal person who isn't physically disabled, has friends, and goes on crazy adventures. Then I wake up... to a cold, dark, empty room and cry sometimes. 3 0 replies
being a loser at 29 years old there isn't a day that not having a girl haunts me. living like a legit unemployed loser just because of this low self esteem and social anxiety, even though i am not even ugly, some guys i've seen that are average-ugly have girlfriends and have cheating issues here in the philippines with girls above their levels lookswise(in social media, and even outside)... and these mental words(social anxiety, low self-esteem)are taken lightly these days, easily throw those words around, it seems like everybody have these mental issues now. damn... i... 4 1 replies
I feel pretty seen by the posts here I definitely feel a little better about my situation after reading the posts on this sub and seeing that many people are going through similar situations. I think the hardest part for me to deal with is seeing the physical and mental deterioration in me as isolation prolongs. I sound coherent while writing this post since I have gotten good rest and meals yesterday, but more oftentimes I am too scatterbrained to even put few sentences together. I cope in embarrassing ways, mainly through completely detaching from current reality... 4 1 replies
Never, in any hypothesis, accept advice from normies, they will literally destroy your life If you don't want to believe me then go ahead and accept them, you'll get blackpilled in the end seeing with your own eyes reality... don't say I didn't warn you. 1 3 replies
Family are pressuring me to find a job and get married. Advice needed So I'll give a little context, I'm 24M living in the UK. I've been NEET for the last 6 years other than a brief part time job which I failed at miserably. Like many on here I suffer from a number of mental health illnesses mainly debilitating social anxiety. I've never been able to hold down a job and have never even been on a date because I literally begin to shake uncontrollably with fear in certain social environments. I've managed to get by so far in life by... 5 0 replies
If my neetbux backpay was ever approved I'd be a six figure neet I'm not good at math, but I've been mentally disabled since I was a kid and it got progressively worse since 2013. If my backpay was to be approved, if I applied a second time, I will be a six figure neet. I would buy a love doll and try to become independent to some extent because my parents aren't going to be there forever. If people suddenly had romantic interest in me, I would have to turn them away because nobody cared before. Unfortunately for me, it is... 5 1 replies
No job, no education, no social life - you might just as well not exist I swear being a NEET is a mindset normies push you into. Last year I had a job in which I was being bullied for keeping to myself and not wanting to play dumb office politics by some 30-40s miserable women. After being "fired" (technically they just didin't prolong my contract but it's really the same thing) I got into the same rut again (spending days depressed and doom scrolling, and eating out all the money I've earned, and then mooching off my mother). My CV makes me look... 3 0 replies
Is there any way to travel the world for cheap? Ideally something where I can travel and work with groups of people. I have no work experience and traditional careers don't interest me. I've lived most of the last 5 years locked up at home and its really getting old. I'm lonely and bored. I would love to just travel around, work enough to just sustain myself, hopefully with other groups of people because I need a sense of company in my life. How can I do it? 4 1 replies
ive been a complete shut-in neet for too many years; im not sure i can ever imagine having a normal life at this point. the one thing that made me feel accomplished in so long, after failing the first time, i built a shelf that stands tall in my room. sure, it could definitely be seen as a step forward as far as general motivation goes, but this shelf is not to hold my clothes or anything important. i bought it and made it to display my collection of visual novels. i guess its good to have something in my room that reminds me that im capable of hard work, but i only... 3 0 replies
Anyone here have OCD? I'm approaching NEET status once again due to severe OCD. Does anyone else have a similar experience? I'm curious as to how you're managing because I'm genuinely stumped on how I'm supposed to proceed with my life 2 0 replies
Hello seniors 😁 Can I give neet with Pcm Just asking I know it is difficult to follow both subjects,we should focus on one but I have a doubt if we have choosen PCM stream then is it possible that i can get admission in govt college after neet if i cleared it 1 0 replies
I seriously got to look into studying a career/living independently because I can't keep living like a prisoner in my own home. What should I do? TLDR: to save you the sob story, I need help in learning to be a functioning independent adult. I want to learn a skill so I can get a i work from home job perfect for a socially anxious individual so that I can later move to South America again. This is certainly not the best place to ask for advice but, I am a 20(M) NEET turning 21 in a few months that got a little emotional after a family argument caused by a CPTSD trigger, and frustration... 3 0 replies
The true number of tech layoffs since 2022 is likely over 1 million—double what’s officially reported. In this post I will show how the total number of layoffs in the tech industry should be well over 1M and are consistently under-reported on [layoffs.fyi](http://layoffs.fyi) and media. * If you add up the sum of counted layoffs since 2022 til now, in the tech industry alone, you have 592,436 that were A) tracked on this website and B) had a specific # of employees laid off in the # laid off column. * If you look at the way the table is set up, companies with a... 2 0 replies
Not a real NEET but I'm employed, don't live with my parents, married, and taking continuing education (Japanese class). But damn the despair is real, and I feel like a NEET in spirit. Married 12 years, employed in same job for almost 8. Learned too late that I prefer to be alone and despise physical intimacy, but I've made my bed and have to lie in it. Kids, for godsake don't rush into a relationship thinking love or companionship will fix everything. While I have a great deal of affection and love for my... 1 0 replies
FUCK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO ABANDONED ME IN 2016! **THIS MESSAGE GOES OUT TO ALL MY OLD HIGH SCHOOL FRIENDS: K, I, G AND J**. WASN'T IT OBVIOUS I WASN'T BEING THE USUAL ME? That there was something wrong about me? Do I really have to spell it out? THAT PERHAPS I WAS D E P R E S S E D ? WHY DID YOU GUYS JUST LEAVE ME TO ROT LIKE THAT? YOU KNOW I USED TO DEFEND YOU IN MY MIND THAT MAYBE YOU WERE ALL SIMPLY BUSY WITH YOUR OWN LIVES AND WHAT HAPPENED... 1 0 replies
Being NEET is eating away at my brain My vocabulary is poor and limited, I can't focus on anything, my creativity has become non-existent I just wanted to read a book, I have so many books. I wanted to read The War Of The Worlds by H. G. Wells, but I can't, because I'm too stupid to retain important information and delve deeper into the narrative. I'm tired of just watching doomscroll and porn. I'm tired of not being able to express myself in art, even if no one sees my creations. At this point I became... 1 0 replies
Anyone who regrets not going to college or having a degree? Feels like the doors of good opportunities are all shut without having one. No way I can do janitorial, burger flipping or security jobs. 1 2 replies
Difference between neet and incels Are incels just neets who have some kind of hate towards women? I was just wondering what the difference was 5 6 replies