It's expensive as f to build a PC, maybe I need to focus on something else So I saved up enough to get mid-ranged parts, but i did not account for a new GPU and monitor. so let's say i had the money for a GPU and monitor. then i bought everything, put it together... guess what, i'm still a loser virgin. goodbye computer phase... see you maybe christmas or something... before gta 6 for sure... 5 1 replies
Do you have weird rules/choice too ? Wanted to share a short of "rules" that i have and know if you had similar things ? like anything that come to your mind. So i'm a shut-in , i don't exist on internet except on this reddit account that will end up being deleted like the others. I really crave for a relationship , i have dreamed moment with her for thousand of hours now that years have passed. Never touched or even aproched it, but i think i could have , their is this thing with... 3 0 replies
What’s your everyday life like? For me it’s all kinda the same. I’m trying to get on a more consistent/productive routine but I usually don’t have much to do. I usually wake up around noon on most days. After waking up, I will immediately doom scroll for about an hour until I feel like I should be getting up to start my day. Then, I will proceed to take a shower and get dressed for the gym. I don’t particularly enjoy the gym, but it does make me feel somewhat productive so it’s an... 2 1 replies
I've been looking and making friends online. I also observe that I'm the only one who cares. Like in real life when life's good I'm the only one who cares but now I'm in my downfall they don't care anymore no updates, they even don't come to my house since I became neet, even our houses is just 3-5km away. Same with the online people, guess I won't care anymore about it. 5 0 replies
want to have a gf... Yeah.. I know many here will think I am some desperate guy looking for Gf. Maybe I am and you are correct... but is it my fault? I was bought into this world .. Then many expectations were attached to me ....... Do everything that is considered normal-- \>Get education \>Then Get Job \>Then get a wife \>Then to continue the bloodline have children \>Then grow old while providing for her \> Then die Also being a male lot of stereotypes were attached to me.. \>He must be fit... 3 1 replies
What if we lived in a post-greed, post-capitalist society like in Star Trek There would be no money, the acquisition of wealth is not a driving factor in our lives, we work to better ourselves and humanity. All of our universal basic needs are met due to the replicators who make sure that no one goes hungry and there is no need to hoard resources. This one is huge for NEETs, people work for passion, not survival. Imagine being a star fleet officer, exploring and creating to improve society, only if you’d want to. This eliminates all the stress that exists in... 3 0 replies
Are you a sensitive person? As in sensitive to criticism and such, I am talking about in person, I don’t know how people can get upset from words on a screen, I myself don’t, but in person I just crumble. Even if someone looks at me the wrong way or stands too close to me, I feel extreme anxiety and distress. I can’t be around people for long periods of time, my anxiety is crazy. Do you also think this sensitivity is part of why you are NEET? All the women seem spiteful and... 5 0 replies
Have you given up on finding a relationship? I myself have, being a NEET and all it can feel impossible to find someone compatible. I have too many mental problems and can’t leave the house. Even if I do, I have never been attractive to the opposite sex, and never had a chance growing up and doubt it would be any different now. I’m probably going to die single and alone. I’ll just become a monk or something. I’d still like to have a girlfriend or wife some day but I’m not holding my breath for it.... 1 1 replies
work gives life meaning. When I initially graduated from high school, I resonated with r/antiwork. I got a full-time job, hated it, quit it, and went back to doing 8 hours of work per week and drawing an allowance off of my parents. For about a year, I was really a NEET working once a week for $200, spending it all on fast food, and just floating through life. Initially, it was great, but after six months, I felt like garbage. No growth, no improvement, nothing to look forward to. A year later,... 1 3 replies
regarding neet registartion . while uploading the documents , i am not able to see captcha below it. is anyone facing the same problem as me ? pls help . also , what is the contact no. and email id of nta ? https://preview.redd.it/wz3iesu7xvie1.jpg?width=5664&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bc37dd09bb10719c763ed272f03357f6c42826b9 1 1 replies
"Son, it's about time you got a job. Just walk straight up to the manager, look him straight in the eye and give him a firm handshake and ask for a job. That's how i did it back in the days" 3 2 replies
Is it really needed to fill the sub-locality in the NEET-UG form? I am a newbie to neet! Is it really needed to fill the sub-locality form ( which is optional) it's my first time filing up. Pls guys a help is really needed 3 0 replies
Anyone here just really lied a lot in your resume and it worked out? Like basically you didn't even really have any work experience or referees, but you just lied over and over again in your resume about things like work experience, job duties, length of employment etc and then you sat an interview and did well at that? How did you do it? What did you do? Cheers👍 1 0 replies
Fun manga recommendation. Hi everyone, Recently discovered this fun manga. It is comedy gag manga about NEET brother and sister who passes time doing stupid stuff at home. The chapters are very short 1-4 pages usually. Its fun and wholesome not realistic for NEETs but I love this one. It helps me escape reality of neet life sometimes. **Manga name:** Hatarakanai Futari / The Jobless Siblings 5 1 replies
My NEET brother refuse to work and is draining my father’s money. My older brother, my grandmother, my father and I live in the same household. My father died suddenly one night, we weren’t prepared for his departure. I work and make enough money to live by myself and pay for the house bills, however my brother (33yo) doesn’t work nor studies, he has never had a real job in his life and every time he tries to get one no one hires him. He is obese, and really doesn’t care about his health, every time I mention him his condition... 1 0 replies
I am about to leave NEET status (at least temporarily) Gonna attend online college for an associate degree in business admin (Master Promissory Note signed, everything is approved) and got approved for CompTIA cert studies with a voucher, got my EBT card, life is gonna be gooooood. I'm still probably gonna be unemployed for a bit though. 3 0 replies
It makes me sad that I’ll never get to experience a lot of basic things normies do. Dating, getting married. Watching the ultrasound as I meet my new child and then hold them in my arms. Nope. I’m going on 31 and I’m so far away from any of my goals that it’s scary. It just hurts knowing I’ll be in my 40’s and 50’s with no family around me or anything as my friends all have that. I’ll never be a Dad :( 3 0 replies
Feeling lonely again... all it takes is a little spark of reminder... It's not fair, I'm not normal and I never will be, I have zero social contacts, I live on a dead end street with vacant houses, all I see are birds. Online no one wants to be my friend, all I have are these interactions with people I don't know on X posts, reddit, YouTube. • I hate how people complain about how they have no friends and are lonely but when you try to make friends they ghost you, it's like women who say no one wants to... 3 1 replies
I know exactly when my life fell apart, but I don't know how to fix it It was in 2017-2018 when I lost my best friend. It's a long story. So when I was a teen, I was not very emotionally mature. Or mature at all, for that matter. I cared about 2 things: boys and drawing. Well... I had a friend. We met freshman year of high school I think, and I liked him IMMEDIATELY. He was a geeky guy, on the spectrum (like me, though I didn't know I was at the time), gamer boy, artist type. I met him thru a mutual... 1 0 replies
I'm a degenerate loser I have been for decades at this point. Mostly due to childhood sexual trauma and mental illness. I'm not proud of it. In fact I hate myself pretty much constantly. But it's still who I am and it's not going to change especially with how fucked my countries mental health services are ATM. What I'm trying to say is people like me still deserve a modecrum of respect and patience. I'm weird. Again I know that. But would it hurt normies to be a little bit more civil? 1 2 replies