Why do most people hate working and paying bills but then force kids into this world and expect them to do the exact same? Why do most people hate working and paying bills but then force kids into this world and expect them to do the exact same? 3 0 replies
Society as a concept is disingenious / fake What I mean is that my mother is always telling me: "Be a productive member of society". I'm like "Okay, but what is in it for me?" Because if I wasn't in a privileged position of owning real estate (several) and by doing so being a landlord, then given my severe chronic medical conditions, I couldn't work, then I couldn't get money, and then I'd be homeless. In this situation, what would society do? Fucking NOTHING. Society doesn't care about you. Look, the vast majority of us esp. men... 3 0 replies
I think I’m never going to stop being a neet I’ve been a neet for 4 years after I graduated high school I have no dreams or any goals I wish to stay home and game all day.. I have never had any desire to be apart of society I want to rot away.. I have nothing meaningful to contribute to the world. 4 0 replies
Do you think it's okay to accept living like this? soo i don't wanna be here with the wrong idea. Is this sub mostly for people who try to be ''better'' or is it ok to just accept being a NEET and not having any remorse or anything like that 5 0 replies
when was the last time you talked with a girl friendly/flirt For me it was 3.5 years ago on internet for 1 weeks , and before that 2 years i think. The last time was horrible and i was in a perma panic not knowing how i'm supossed to act. Now it would be way worse , i'm scare even by thinking about it. Tried to join a discord server today , and saw two people flirting and left. It was pain and sadness, being reminded living was a thing in their reality 2 0 replies
I wish I was a kid again I keep watching nostalgia core videos on TikTok of the years of my childhood, and it’s so painful. I just miss being a kid so much. I don’t think I’ll ever be happy again. 4 0 replies
Does the guilt go away? I recently told my mom I was planning on becoming a NEET and she was kind of offended/disappointed/angry and guilt tripped me a bit. Does the feeling go away after a few weeks or something? Assuming she doesn't guilt trip me again. I was once a NEET during the beginning of the pandemic, but it was the pandemic, my mental health was terrible, and my memory isn't that great. 1 0 replies
I should not have been born, I am not for this world There's nothing good about me, I have no motivation, no curiosity, no desire, no will, no interest in anything I failed wherever I went, I am just a burden on my Parents and on this Earth I am a useless worthless waste of space, my life has no value, I am of no use to others I just wish that I didn't have so many mental, emotional and physical problems, I wish that I could have been like others, I wish I was beautiful, I wish I was intelligent,... 5 0 replies
" Earning a living " SHOULD NOT be normal. No one asked to be born in this vile capitalist system. " Earning a living " SHOULD NOT be normal. No one asked to be born in this vile capitalist system. 5 0 replies
Mom almost checked out So mom caught covid corona virus last month and had a silent heart attack, and was rushed into emergency. She's 66 so she's at a vulnerable age. This got me thinking bout my neet life, if she passes away, it's gonna be tough for me as we are very close and she's always been supportive.. Things won't be the same when she's gone. Do any of you have similar worries? 2 0 replies
Do you think that you're Neet either entirely or somewhat due to technology? I really think that there's so many Neets (and mentally ill people more generally) these days due to technology. The western tech loving world people (that don't even question/oppose technology at all lols. "Yayyyy the new iphone" (and lines up at the apple store for hours)) love to blame the amount of crazy people out there on "drugs", but i really think it's technology. When time honoured (thousands/millions of years) ways life and lifestyles are uprooted so drastically, major societal repurcussions follow. For example basically everyone's got anxiety now.... 3 0 replies
What kind of games do y'all like to play, and what kind of games do you hate playing? I like playing roguelikes, Isaac is probably my favorite game of all time. I hate precise platformers, though. Super Meat Boy might just be my least favorite game ever. Interesting how my favorite game *and* my least favorite game were made by the same person. What about you? What kind of games do you like and what kind of games do you hate? And most importantly, do you actually enjoy the games you play? I've been a NEET for like 2 years now, and I'm getting less and less... 1 0 replies
Is there anyone here who has been YEARS bedroting and doing nothing all day bc of anhedonia? It's February 17th 2025....and i've done nothng in the entire year (and 2024 also did nothing lol), just watch random youtube videos and scroll reddit. I'm so mentally unstable and anhedoniac that i can't function. 3 0 replies
This is interesting [ How Years Of Gaming Affects Your Brain ](https://youtu.be/xaICKlp9kQc) 1 0 replies
People have been giving me A LOT of shit for being a neet lately It's really fucking annoying when everyone dog piles you, when you know you're trying your absolute fucking best. I'm not lazy, Im trying my best to escape neetdom, but people don't understand how crippling having something like social anxiety is. I need people to get off of my ass for five fucking minutes. IM A LOSER, I KNOW. IM TRYING TO NOT BE ONE FFS. I can't stand people, everyone sucks. 4 0 replies
Passion Hi! I wonder if there is something you feel burning passion for? Some hobby (not Necessarily gaming) I personally still can't find this thing :( 1 0 replies