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nikhil11

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about 2 months

As a North Indian tired of seeing hate between us, I’d like know from South Indians themselves whats wrong? And how to make it right?

Everyone I hope we can have a civil discussion. If you can’t contribute please find some other post. This is a genuine fact finding discussion. Edit: Thank you everyone for your input, knowing views firsthand has helped me understand our India better. Jai Hind!

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madhu

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about 2 months

has anyones parents fffed up their career and marriage prospects.

i hate it. parents didnt allow me to work when i graduated during covid bc i only got low paying in person jobs. my mom would have crazy fights with my dad one time i had to pull them apart after my mom almost took out my dads eye. when i was unemployed and my dad and bro were out of my house i had to hear my mom cussing and cursing that my aunt and her daughters would get raped (backstory she thinks my dad is cheating with...

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ashish

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about 2 months

I'm currently on a flight to Thailand, and the indian stereotypes are true.

From the waiting area to the pre-boarding zone and now on the flight, this large group of men in their 30s has been causing a constant disturbance. They are excessively loud, smell of alcohol, and show little regard for basic courtesy. From the Indian airport staff to the airline crew, they've been a challenge for everyone around them. I understand the excitement of a trip, but that shouldn't come at the cost of others' comfort. Unfortunately, this behavior isn't entirely their fault—it's a reflection of the norms they’re used...

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swastika

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about 2 months

I'm 28 how long realistically do I have to find a groom if I want 2-3 kids?

I'm healthy other than dry skin/eczema. Regular periods, no pcos, no asthma, never smoked or drank and am willing to go under any health screenings/tests. Ive been told im quite pretty when my skin is doing good like nice nose, nice cheeks, nice face structure. I'm not into clubbing, having tons of male friends, no relationship past. I work in tech sure my salary is kinda low due to a late start due to the pandemic/some family issues but i have potential to move up due to my B.S...

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mrigank_shekhar04

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about 2 months

Does not being busty count against you in AM?

Im not busty I have the same body type as Niti Taylor maybe even smaller boobs than her. I'm trying to gain weight IDC if i lose my small waist i just want to be a bit plumper. The only thing plump about me is my thighs and butt. I feel like im getting rejected for not being busty enough in AM prospects. I try to wear things that accentuate my curves that i have like midi fitted skirts, or high waist jeans but i feel my chest is...

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manjot

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about 2 months

What's your idea of love? Your perception

Someone asked me today about my concept of love. I replied that, to me, love transcends mere affection and attachment. It's a bond where neither partner feels inferior or inadequate when doing something for the other. Love holds immense significance for me; I desire a partner who is as obsessed with me as I am with them, someone who chooses me every single day. When I think about intimacy, I want only their image to come to mind, never considering anyone else. This makes me curious about others' perceptions...

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shubh05

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about 2 months

Need some serious suggestions

Anyone up for chat?

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mitali

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about 2 months

Why do Indian parents think that education is everything?

Why do Indian parents think that education is everything?

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nikki

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about 2 months

Why don’t we copy sensible things from developed nations?

Instead of learning about how to behave in public places, discipline, civic sense, not littering, respecting queues, etc., we’re making Bollywood remakes of useless Hollywood films, promoting promiscuity, hookup culture, getting drunk, doing drugs, etc. Even these films promote this degeneracy. Clearly, we want what’s easy. And then we wonder why people from poorer countries like India have such a bad reputation in developed nations. Not to mention how it’s hurting our country and society. Before you bash me in the comments, of course it’s a choice at the...

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rishi

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about 2 months

On what platform do you use reddit mostly?

I am new here (3 weeks old) & i started on PC Browser, then i went to the app itself which for some reason i am not liking then i opened in Mobile browser with which i was somewhat satisfied. I don't really like the interface of the app on browser it's much better for me. [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/1ivonwp)

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shreyaa

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about 2 months

Did instagram’s algorithm change after Trump came into power or am i just tripping?

Tl;dr - I feel instagram algorithm is promoting racist, sexist, bigoted content towards indians with the help of American IT Cell. So my algorithm earlier was mostly filled cute couple reels, funny shinchan reels and other such funny videos, i do not like negative content, for that i come to reddit. i want my instagram feed to be light hearted so i always made sure to and still do, to report and hide racist, sexist, tragedies, news, fights and all this kind of content. But from the past few...

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manjot

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about 2 months

Am I the only one ?

I am a 17M of 5'6 height with a skinny figure. I often feel uncomfortable with some guys having a larger size than me. Is this common or am I the unique one somehow?

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shubh05

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about 2 months

Can I attend my friends wedding in India as a Pakistani?

Hey everyone, One of my close friends (who’s Indian) is getting married, and I really want to attend her wedding in India. However, I hold a Pakistani passport and was born and raised in the Gulf. I’ve only been to Pakistan once in my life (don’t know if that’s relevant), but will it be possible for me to attend her wedding? I’ve Googled it, but there’s no proper information or explanation that actually helps. What kind of proof would I need to show? Has anyone gone through this before?...

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vratesh62

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about 2 months

Why do american raised indians look different than Indian raised indians?

I'm 67% indian been born and raised in California, USA my whole life, im 17. I've visited india like 7 times around and noticed that american raised indians look mush different than india's indians. I know factors like diet, climate, and pollution are big; but does anything change somewhat genetically or in development

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zohazeiselo2425

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about 2 months

Have you ever been loved correctly ?

Have you ever been loved correctly ?

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sainsamridh_01

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about 2 months

What's your favourite poverty meal that you still eat regardless of where you are financiallly ?

What's your favourite poverty meal that you still eat regardless of where you are financiallly ?

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51 replies

aditi

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about 2 months

Why is the central government so tone deaf on Hindi Imposition issue? TN will never accept the 3 language policy.

I’m posting this because I genuinely don’t understand. No matter the social conditioning, PR, or political rhetoric, deeply rooted cultural and linguistic identities cannot be erased or imposed. Even our most right-wing political parties (except the BJP, of course) either oppose or do not support the three-language policy. So why is the central government still so persistent, despite it being an improbable task? The incentives to learn Hindi already exist, like being able to communicate with half a billion people is reason enough. So why impose it? I have...

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vivek09

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about 2 months

You wake up in 1950, you’re twenty again, with no identifiable paperwork, no house, no connections, only a suitcase filled with 50k dollars, what are you going to do?

You wake up in 1950, you’re twenty again, with no identifiable paperwork, no house, no connections, only a suitcase filled with 50k dollars, what are you going to do?

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nikita

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about 2 months

Why our government is not taking any action ensuring the basic hygiene requirements of food ?

In the recent days I almost stopped eating street food , these people put their hands anywhere and then make food , I went to a decent restaurant today . I mistakenly went to the kitchen section finding the toilet and it was absolutely filthy . there is no morals when these people make food even in bakeries or local icecream vendors . What can we do to make it better ?

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malagupta1918

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about 2 months

Why do Indian parents say, 'Be grateful for everything we provide'?

Once, I asked my father for a ₹25K phone, but he bought a Vivo phone worth ₹15K without telling me. When I asked him about it and reminded him that I had requested a ₹25K phone, he angrily said, 'Be grateful for everything I provide. There are kids who don’t even have this ₹15K phone.' I agreed. Later, when I scored 90% in my 10th standard exams, he asked, 'Why only 90%?' I replied, 'Be grateful for my percentage. There are kids who failed their subjects.' Then he got...

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i/askindia

As a North Indian tired of seeing hate between us, I’d like know from South Indians themselves whats wrong? And how to make it right?

has anyones parents fffed up their career and marriage prospects.

I'm currently on a flight to Thailand, and the indian stereotypes are true.

I'm 28 how long realistically do I have to find a groom if I want 2-3 kids?

Does not being busty count against you in AM?

What's your idea of love? Your perception

Need some serious suggestions

Why do Indian parents think that education is everything?

Why don’t we copy sensible things from developed nations?

On what platform do you use reddit mostly?

Did instagram’s algorithm change after Trump came into power or am i just tripping?

Am I the only one ?

Can I attend my friends wedding in India as a Pakistani?

Why do american raised indians look different than Indian raised indians?

Have you ever been loved correctly ?

What's your favourite poverty meal that you still eat regardless of where you are financiallly ?

Why is the central government so tone deaf on Hindi Imposition issue? TN will never accept the 3 language policy.

You wake up in 1950, you’re twenty again, with no identifiable paperwork, no house, no connections, only a suitcase filled with 50k dollars, what are you going to do?

Why our government is not taking any action ensuring the basic hygiene requirements of food ?

Why do Indian parents say, 'Be grateful for everything we provide'?