Hi, I'm new here. I'm autistic, unemployed, socially anxious, virgin, ugly, stuttering, friendless, lonely and 30 years old, in short I'm an absolute failure in life. Regards 2 4 replies
I don't want to go to therapy I don't want to get better so it seems useless what do I do 2 5 replies
People who shame neurodivergent people for begin unemployed are clowns. Seriously, don't give 'em time, just ignore. 4 0 replies
Enough dissecting biology, lets construct some friendships :) Don't flame me for the title it was ChatGPT. Anyways a dropper friend of mine is looking for some friends. He is only on insta not reddit and well sometimes I don't have much time to talk to him so yeah talking to someone refreshes his mind and as a good friend, I am here looking for someone. 3 5 replies
So I have a question about well NEET girls Well my question is why do NEET-girl art shows them as hot and sexy. But NEET-guys art shows them as just ugly guys? And is there any NEET girl that can relate to NEET girl art? I do apologize if this is a rude question to ask just want to know. If anyone want to chat more about this. My DM’s are open but that is if you want too. 4 7 replies
And the nightmare begins again After 2 years neeting (this time) I got a job. I already regret it I start my first shift in an hour and have gotten exactly zero sleep. 1 6 replies
Trouble with forming and communicating my thoughts I'm a Neet/semi Hiki in my late 20's and never had a job. I'm going to be applying for a fast food job. I know someone that can potentially get me the job. I'm doing my resume and writing answers for what I'll say on the job interview. I had helped with my resume it's basically half way done, I just need to change it a little and add somethings to it. I'm struggling writing down my answers for the job interview questions, I'm using AI to help me... 5 2 replies
Counselling fee refund Hi, my sister filled the mcc choice filling and filled choice for 2 rounds but didn’t get any college and didn’t opted for any other further rounds. A document with refunds released by mcc shows her roll number and amount but ref number is 0, what does this mean ? Is she eligible for the refund ? 4 0 replies
feel bad i always feel bad as usual but this one is different. yesterday i posted about my uncle open a small business, selling soft drink and he ask me to join him. yet no one came to buy. probably cause its rainy day. i see no pedestarian, just saw road traffic near me. i felt bad cause he spent money to decorate stuff, around 500$ i guess and he's kinda jobless at that moment. he owe his friend's money to run this business. but i had a good talk with... 5 3 replies
I hate being a loser so much I wanna rope but I’m too scared Over for social anxiety tardcels I don’t wanna rot as a neet forever 3 6 replies
Some people should not have been born, I am definitely one of them I should not have been born, I am not for this world and this world is not for me, I do not belong on this Earth This world would be a much better place without me in it Basically there's nothing good about me, every child is born with some good qualities but it looks like I was born after some kind of cursed spell was initiated by the Devil himself, I was just born to be a failure, I am a born loser and there's no 2 ways... 1 0 replies
My parents remain hopeful, I remain ropeful My mom signed me up for another bullshit program and she thinks it's going to help me get out of this. I told the lady in there it's not going to help me. I can't be saved. No one will hire me. 6 years of this bullshit. I just wanna die. I am a useless pos. I have the IQ of a potato and work ethic of a sloth. I have the social skills of an autismo and I am a joke. My life is a joke! I wish... 5 3 replies
"If you don't work, you will end up homeless or commit crime." Has anyone else's parents tried these lines on you? "If you don't work, you will end up homeless and commit crime!" My mother has previously given the "you will end up homeless" line on me, but now she gives the "you will commit crime" line on me. The homeless line I can understand, because there are many homeless people in my city because rent is too high. A lot of them are just regular people who hang out at the library all day. But I don't want her giving... 4 6 replies
Sleepmaxxing Does anyone here do it? I do it in tandem with my red light therapy. I recommend getting a sleeping mask. 5 5 replies
How to get out of the groundhog day flat circle I’m going insane from living the same day every day. It’s not by choice cause i’m crippled with anxiety depression and ptsd so i can’t just go out and “Join A Club!” but literally what is there to do. Wake up, move body, look at screens, eat, maybe cry, repeat. I know i’m in a shit situation but i don’t even know what i SHOULD be doing. what should i be doing? i know nobody knows my situation or capabilities but i am just desperate for any answer. PLS!... 1 0 replies
How do you know if you can work? I've never worked and my family has always told me I'm mentally disabled. I have some orthopedic problems so at home I prefer to lie down most of the time. I can't umagine myself sitting down 8 hours a day - the pain in my legs and back will be great. But generally: If you have been long-term unemployed, how do you know if you're capable of work? 3 4 replies
How much shame did your parents put you through? I was a NEET for 2 years and I'd say they didn't shame me all that much if at all, never actually felt attacked. Been employed for a year now though in a job I hate and want to switch... I still live with my parents and the moment they heard that they got a bit upset questioning if I'll repeat the same mistakes. Also denied all options I mentioned I'd been considering switching to, which were different trades, saying they weren't suitable for me. They didn't berate me.... 4 3 replies
Daydreaming about traveling (if I had the money) I did some backpacking as a NEET in Asia (mainly Thailand) 7 years ago when I had some inheritance money, Really helped me experience living life to the fullest. Trouble is life here in my home country (UK) feels so dull now and It makes me resent everything. I dont want to work, If I could earn 2000$ a month I could permanently backpack asia or south America for a few years and escape the unfurfilling NEET life. Do any of you fellow NEETs travel? Want to travel? 3 4 replies
Did anyone else get forced into NEET life by their parents? I was a neet for 3 years, from 18-21. Not as unlucky as a lot of the other people here, but I still felt like sharing my story. My dad was always a really controlling guy and wasn't afraid to get mean/physical either... He didn't let me do ANYTHING until he retired. His justification was that "as your father, I want to have 100% control over your transition into adulthood, so wait until I have the time to do that". His retirement date kept getting pushed back, and I... 3 0 replies