Rant : Officially unemployed as a 21 year old female with no college education. (Warning , a lot of rambling and self pity.) Hello there everyone, A tiny bit about me as a human on the other side of the screen. I am 21 and live with my mother. I am extremely blessed as she does not charge me for living with her (rent free) I never attended college. I understand me saying this is extremely pessimistic. But, I never seen the point. I have dyscalculia and dyslexia. I barely made it out of highschool alive. I starter working as soon as I was granted the opportunity. Working class jobs you know?... 5 3 replies
Does anyone else avoid every possible social interactions even with parents? This sometimes make me subordinated under circumstances I didn't want to but due to several lack of social abilities I accept muted, the less I talk the quickest ends, just leave me alone, I'm fine with my mangas, movies and fap material, I don't want to interact irl anymore, people sucks they have failed on me. 3 5 replies
Pulling away from friends Hey guys I'm currently pulling away from friends and am scared to approach them because I don't have a job and don't really do anything interesting. So I don't have much to tell. Also one of my mates has been making funnily intended remarks towards me, but they feel like stabs to the heart. Does anyone have advice to stop me from pulling away from my mates? I also have slowly growing anxiety. Every time I meet up with them the anxiety for the next time gets even worse.... 4 3 replies
There is slight hope out there...try Americorps if you can Hey all, I've posted here long ago about my journey. Basically hadn't had a FT job in 30ish years of existing. But, my dad passed in 2017. He supported me financially. So now, I had to enter the workforce. I lived off inheritance for several years, found a PT gig I hated, etc. Well, in Feb., I found a job through Americorps. They accept people with huge resume gaps, and my job is in a school tutoring math--so, I get summers off, holidays, weekends, etc. And, we only work... 1 2 replies
Do you have any neurotic obsessions lately that are keeping you busy? I know most people here just browse the internet endlessly and don’t actually enjoy anything. Including me. A few days ago though I became really into Minecraft again and have been excited to wake up to play that. Unfortunately, I barely even fucking can play it though because I want to play the Xbox 360 version but the emulator is unstable so crashes constantly and makes me lose my world. So, I can’t actually play the game so I’m just reading through Minecraft wiki pages and watching Minecraft videos... 5 3 replies
Are friendships even real? I try to keep contact with people to keep "friendships" going but i always slink back to being in complete isolation. I like to talk to people once in a while, but i can't help but to feel like im "using" people and annoying them with my words. Those "friends" usually say stuff like "we miss you" or "where have you been?" and try to reach out but i just don't feel deserving of having friends and never really feel like part of a group, i know im not... 1 6 replies
Im too ashamed to face anybody I think i have to accept ill be miserable for rhe rest of my life. Im no good and theee’s nowhere for me. I dont have anyobe ti talk to. Im a faliuere. I truly am pathetic. 3 0 replies
Autistic black NEET at Costco snaps it and disrespects expensive items Autistic black NEET at Costco snaps it and disrespects expensive items 2 0 replies
IDK HOW I DID IT BEFORE i just came up on my 1yr at my job. ive had 3 other part time jobs since 2020, but for the most part i was unemployed through that timespan. and obviously, all the years leading up to that. didnt even do middle school. isolated since 7yrs old. mom made sure of it 😴 growing up, i was a total shut-in (and maybe just a bit of a homebody now) I'll turn 22 this summer. so like, maybe, based off my age alone, i was never officially a neet.... 1 1 replies
It’s actually scary how dependent I am on my pc My pc hasn’t been working for a day and my head hurts from lack of stimulation, I honestly feel like breaking things when this happens I’m losing my mind 1 4 replies
I wanna bullet Wastw of spacw wastw of air i am. Im good for nothing. No one cares what i think. I deserve death. 1 0 replies
Coffee or Tea? This is my first poll. NEETs, what beverage do you favour the most? Coffee or Tea? [View Poll](https://www.reddit.com/poll/1hz7osc) 3 3 replies
How much do you sleep? Last week I was sleeping 16-18 hours a day. This week I've been sleeping 12-14 hours a day. Last night I went to sleep at 10 pm and today I woke up at noon. I'm trying to improve my sleep schedule. It's just that I don't have much to do during the day and turn to sleeping as an alternative. 1 4 replies
Looking back, I'm glad I didn't kill myself: I was there when my aging pet needed me My dog was recently euthanized, and before that was getting on some medication to prolong and improve his life. Looking back, my help with taking care of the dog while my family was away was invaluable. We loved him dearly, but he needed quite a bit of attention and me being there gave my family some breathing room with going out of the house and just like that we helped each other out so someone could stay while the other left. Now imagine all the extra workload of me... 5 1 replies