Am I too late? Aspiring for a toned body I, ~40M, always aspired to have a great physique, abs with muscles and all. Never got time in my life so far to look after myself because of other commitments. Slowly I am realizing that I should have tried fulfilling my aspirations and desires too. I am 5 feet 10 inches tall and I weigh 78 Kgs today. Is it loo late for me to try for a toned body? If not, do I need to take any precautions as compared to younger folks? P.S. I am a healthy... 4 6 replies
How to handle loneliness M20 I have been a boring,introvert,shy person and always find difficulties to make new friend or interact with females,I try all the time to be busy with my self,focus on studies but once every single day a hollow space of being a loner hits now its effecting me.Not a attention seeker just Looking for some advices Thank you 2 4 replies
Should I feel guilty I was dating a girl for past 6 months. In some recent times she started giving me less and less time. She didn't value me. I had a feeling she lost interest in me. Whenever I tried to talk to her we always had an argument. I tried my best and at last I just walked away. I thought she didn't value me enough. I loved her so much but all I got was just anxiety and depression. 🙂😌🙂🙂 But when I think about her I feel bad but... 3 8 replies
Would you marry someone in a different economic class ? Let’s say your net-worth is around 35Cr and the other person’s net-worth is around 1Cr. This includes family share net-worth too. Would you marry if there is a stark difference in the economic situation but you get along with the other person. 1 20 replies
Does haircut or facial hair matters in a job interview? I have given many interviews but haven't been shortlisted. With each interview I feel like I’ve improved my communication little by little, but I still don’t understand why I’m not getting selected. Sometimes I feel like it might be because of my hairstyle and facial hair( i also interviewed in clean shave). I have fuzzy, wavy hair that looks more curly than wavy and if I cut it short I don’t look good. I’ve also grown a thin beard which makes me look better than before, but it’s still... 3 6 replies
To all adults, what advices would you have for a newly turned 18 year old girl. Hi i turned 18 just last month, and want to take advices from all the adults out there to navigate the next phase of my life better. Right now, I have not even tried smoking and drinking yet, and not been in any serious relationships. Just navigating my life as a college junior and would love advices on all spheres of life ❣️. Also, I will remove this post within 6 hours if mods find it not specific enough. Thanks for reading this, and please say something you think... 4 10 replies
How do you handle being ugly, introverted and ignored mostly by people around you and not taken seriously, even at work? How do you handle being ugly, introverted and ignored mostly by people around you and not taken seriously, even at work? 2 6 replies
Do you think it's possible to do the things shown in the movie, Sivaji the boss? Not the 1 vs 100 fight scenes obviously. But what about things like using local goons to turn the tide against the corrupt higher ups, etc? 2 0 replies
Let us be the generation to break the chain? If you had kids in the last decade or so, do you: 1. Ask your kids (both girls and boys) to do household chores? 2. Teach them to clean up after themselves? And that cleaning is not someone else's job? 3. Do you try not to talk rudely or look down upon your servants/helpers in front of your kids? 4. Do you try not to drive rashly when your children are in the vehicle? 5. Tell your children to speak softly when in a public space? To be mindful... 5 1 replies
Which business will run definitely.... The only condition is that it requires too much money hence people not able to open such business. Which business it might be? And your reason? 1 4 replies
Why do people always mention huge dowry and under the table income as perks whenever they are comparing government job with private job? Both Govt and Pvt job have their pros and cons and one has to choose where they want to go after seeing all sides of the argument as well as where their own interests lie. But what baffles me is that everytime there is a discussion about comparing both sectors, the pro-govt jobs side always talk about dowry and bribes as an advantage. I mean one can talk about the job security, allowances, better work life balance and respect in society instead of glorifying illegitimate earnings. 5 2 replies
Men over 30: Do you find yourself getting more emotional as you get older? Hey guys, I’ve been thinking about something lately and wanted to see if anyone else can relate. When I was in my 20s, I was very much the “men don’t cry” type. I remember being emotional deep down, but I rarely ever showed it. For example, I was really close to my dadi (grandmother), but when she passed away, I didn’t cry. I felt it, but I just couldn’t let it out. It was like I had this mental block, like showing emotion was a sign of weakness or... 2 11 replies
Do you ask cyber cafe owners to delete the documents after printing? I don't suppose everyone has printer at home or know some one who has printers at home. So the only option is cyber cafes. When you need to print out some personal documents, do you ask the owner to delete documents after printing? 5 5 replies
What is something new that you would like to try this year? It can be anything from learning to drive, going on solo trip, building soemthing from scratch, new hobby, changing jobs, passing an exam, changing your style, moving out , trying new food , getting into a relationship, playing an instrument and other things. 5 8 replies
Do you think the influencer life is worth it ? The money is an aphrodisiac , yes , but is it worth it ? The whole thing of being out there , yes their are boundaries to what people share online and it is most definitely a mirage too , but you see so many people living their lives , all the free stuff they get , trips and goods and actual money ! So is it worth it ? 2 0 replies
Hi all.. I lost my father in this Jan.. he was sick for the last one month.. after all the rituals and pujas… with all the people around.. the time was passing by.. now with only me and mother.. it is quite hard.. having a regretting feel within myself that I couldn’t save him.. Not sure why i am posting this.. sitting alone on sunday evening in front of his photo.. posting this over reddit… 1 1 replies
Kya ye sahi ho rha hai? My boyfriend screams at me when he's angry. It's been six months in this relationship. He says that couples yelling at each other is normal—fair point, I agree. But why is he being disrespectful? He tells me things like "You never do XYZ" or "You always do this," and honestly, all of this has made me so numb toward him because if I have no value to him, then what am I supposed to do? Plus, his tone gets extremely disrespectful, but according to him, it's fine as long... 8 16 replies
Is it a good idea to get my phone repaired from a local shop in cheap price or with a service centre for huge price? My phone's battery isn't working properly, it gets depleted fastly and not charging properly. The local shop sre telling me they'll replace my battery in cheaper compared to service centre where they're demanding unnecessary charges of motherboard, connectors etc. around 6000-7000 . What would be the best option as local shop will do a shoddy job afaik. Is there any place where I can get my phone repaired without uncesaarily charges and with good quality?I'm from east Delhi. My phone is IQ00Z35G bought in 2022. P. S don't tell... 4 1 replies
Indians who live overseas, what do you get for your non-Indian friends when you return from India? I have some non-Indian friends and needed help getting gifts for them. I would like some recommendations for snacks as well, things that would appeal to a non-Indian palate. Thanks! 5 3 replies
What is the dumbest thing you did out of love? i was in my 8th std when there was a sales day in my school and my mom’s birthday was nearing. my mom loves plants so i brought a beautiful rose plant home. i didn’t want my mom to see it so i locked the plant in my cupboard and after days when i opened it for gifting my mom, it was withered. my dumb mind didn’t know that plants needed sun and water, all i wanted was to surprise my mom. drop yours!! 4 12 replies