Why isn’t more awareness spread about the risks for going to the states illegally? I mean you see the conditions they have to face, they pay upwards of 40-50 Lakh rupees travel through forest, war torn countries, shipping containers. Then when they reach the states they basically have no healthcare, no scope for a proper employment and also getting pr through the asylum route is going to get harder now that the government is onto the bs. We need to make people understand that if you are able to collect 40-50 lakhs you can probably do something else that will actually improve your... 1 0 replies
Visa processing Why is visa processing in India always done by private third parties? Same with doing visa for India abroad? It's always terrible and annoying. Dealing with the embassy is so much more straightforward. So any idea why it is done this way? 3 0 replies
Tell me about your arrange marriage meetings ? Can you please share your all arrange marriage meetings experiences with me. Like how the meetings were done what questions you are asking. How you found that he/she is perfect for you, I wanna know. 1 0 replies
What do people in their mid20-30s do in regular everyday to day life ? I’m already in my late 20s, I’m literally not doing anything with my life right now and all I feel is as if I’m living in fear shame and anxiety. I’m not even working on my life and I feel utter confusion and feeling of lost. Don’t know what to study in college. Don’t even have a job. Not driving. Don’t have social skills so no friends. Afraid to step in real world. Been living in self doubts and overthinking for so many years. Even family is not proud... 2 0 replies
Help needed Hey everyone, I'm a student from a Tier 1 college and this post is about my girlfriend. So, she studies at Kristu Jayanti College, and she got a year back in her first semester due to attendance shortage caused by some health-related issues. However, her college is not allowing her to be promoted or even letting her write exams for promotion. She's basically stuck, and her year will be wasted. They are saying that she repeat from the first semester in the new session and not even anything authorities... 5 1 replies
My two cents on the ongoing latent saga Having little to no knowledge about the reach of the show, while having an argument with a friend, I searched for Samay's channel and was left shocked to my core. 40 million views on one of the latent videos! We today are speaking of how the bigger crimes are being brushed under the carpet and how the perpetrators of it roam freely. And then we slyly defend such content and its creators by creating parallels, in the name of humour and freedom. I do not care where it came... 5 1 replies
Confused if I should have a second child Hi, my husband (M36) and I (F36) have the sweetest 3 year old boy. We have been married for nearly 8 years and are financially comfortable. We initially didn’t want children but 4 years into our marriage we changed our minds. We love our son very very much and now we’re at crossroads about whether or not to have a second child. My husband is clear that he doesn’t want a second child at all because one, it’s a big financial burden and two, he doesn’t believe all siblings... 3 8 replies
Why r u awake? Why r u not sleeping at this time is there any specific reason or ur bored or something 1 10 replies
What's the most horrifying, spine-chilling story from your hometown? It can be related to the paranormal or crime. The scarier, the better! What's the most horrifying, spine-chilling story from your hometown? It can be related to the paranormal or crime. The scarier, the better! 1 7 replies
Moving in to apartment where suicide has taken place recently Me and my friends were looking for a new rented apartment to shift in but was not able to find suitable apartment under our budget and to worsen it further one of the guy backed out last moment which led us to shrink our budget even more.Just then we stumbled upon this wonderful flat with all amenities in a gated society where we were told a suicide has been taken place four months ago and since then complete puja path(vastupujan and all) had been done and owner is looking... 1 10 replies
Do men/women care about hyperpigmentation that much? I really want to know . As Indians, I used to think it is normal to have darker underarms, private parts. But with passing time, the derogatory Russian stuff making me think like it's real validity. Answer honestly. 1 4 replies
Do Girls Get Harassed This Often, or Is My Workplace Just That Toxic? Tldr: I Helped a Co-Worker Stand Up for Herself Today Read full: For some context, I started an onsite project at a factory, but since I mostly work from home, I'm not used to the workplace dynamics there The Key People in This Situation: 1. Owner (A) - He's a flirt and has had affairs with multiple women who worked there. However, he understands consent and doesn't force himself on anyone 2. His Son-in-Law (B) - Initially, he seemed fine, but he wants to be like his father-in-law and... 2 3 replies
Has someone's love stopped you from porn/masturbation? Has someone's love changed you completely and you don't watch porn/masturbation? 2 20 replies
what was your biggest comeback and how did u do it?? same as the question like how did u deal with life its failures and all.. and how did the society affect you 3 8 replies
how would you feel about living a complete celibate life how would you feel about living a complete celibate life 5 16 replies
How do you cope with Visa rejection?? Mine: I wish, India progress soooo much that other ppls ass burn out of jealousy. I seriously wish we progress, like China. Where leaving country means unsuccessful in Home country to find a living else where, Unlike current situation, where leaving india is progress. 4 7 replies
Is it just me or do you also think people are overreacting on this ‘latent’ situation? While I completely understand why people found ranveer’s question inappropriate I don’t see what was the need for an FIR? People were offended by what he said and they have the right to criticise him. But I’ve seen people tweet about how they want samay and ranveer to get the death penalty for this. There are people posting memes about ranveer sleeping w his parents and isn’t that vulgar on their part? isn’t that promoting incest even more? What upsets me is that I’ve never seen people get this... 1 0 replies
Is it only me or does all the youngest kid experience this? No ones tells me anything about the decisions of the family. I am basically the servant of the family, like koi aaye to chai pani pilana, ghar ke kaam krna , sabzi mandi jana, majority household work i do I am from a middle class family in Purvanchal (UP). Father's dead when i was 6. Got two bros and one sis and i am the youngest and we all do formalities with each other, no one is close to no one. My concern is that i am always sidelined. No one listens to me or tells me anything. I have never drank in my life, no girls or gf, no roaming or awarapanti, no friends, i am your typical seedha sadha shy introvert guy. And i feel like... 3 1 replies
What do you think about recent Ranveer Allahbadia (BeerBiceps) incident on India's got latent and what are your opinion on stand-up culture these days? During a recent episode of the YouTube show "India's Got Latent," hosted by comedian Samay Raina, YouTuber and podcaster Ranveer Allahbadia, also known as BeerBiceps, faced significant backlash for posing an inappropriate question to a contestant. He asked, "Would you rather watch your parents have sex every day or join them to finish it once and for all?" 1 17 replies
Long Term Smoker who Quit ? Hows life now and how did you Quit. Been smoking for 5 years—at least 2 packs a day, sometimes more, along with multiple Mary Jane's daily. Lately, the effects are catching up—breathlessness, fatigue, and just feeling off all the time. I know I need to stop, but it feels impossible. If you’ve been a heavy smoker and managed to quit or recover, how did you do it? How long did it take for your body to feel normal again? Any real experiences, tips, or just motivation would help. Would appreciate hearing from those who’ve been through it!... 3 3 replies