What are ur opinions on gossip subs ? Idk I find them quite weird , like everyone there has met a celebrity and have tea about them . They hate nepos but every other post is about them . 5 0 replies
Is there any chance that there will be Judicial reforms in India? These recent years we have come across so many terrifying cases and no single person has achieved justice. Judiciary system is now a joke in India. Higher authorities always dismiss the cases to save their reputation and manipulate the cases. Do you think our India has already fallen or it will fall more? Do you think in near future India might have some Judiciary reforms? What are your views on it? 3 0 replies
Why is it so difficult to find a CF (Childfree) woman for marriage? Hello all, I'm a guy in early 30s, and I'm trying to find a Child-free (CF) woman in the 28-34 age group for marriage, doesn't matter whether she's never been married or is a divorcee, as long as she's honest about the reasons. I'm wondering if the pool I'm looking at is just too small, or if the CF and DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) lifestyle is still not that common in India. Looking for insights, thoughts from women specifically. Thank you. PS: Child-free woman is a woman who... 2 0 replies
Is it okay to block someone out of nowhere if it's bothering your mental health? [Considering you'll never meet that person but you both live nearby] Is it okay to block someone out of nowhere if it's bothering your mental health? [Considering you'll never meet that person but you both live nearby] 3 0 replies
What is lowkey a scam in India but is so normalized people don’t bother? In my opinion it's tier ≥3 Private Colleges and Arranged Marriage. 4 0 replies
To those who have felt that sex outside/before marriage is worthless, please share your opinions on what have you realised about it? Hi I am an new adult, and i feel sex is an incredibly intimate and sort of a sacred thing we can do with someone, i feel that if we do engage in even well meaning and deeply intimate sex with someone, and later on don't marry them, then our ability to be intimate with the person we actually do end up marrying will surely diminish, even if slightly. But I want a more in depth explanation, maybe just a bit more elaborate than what i have felt. Just... 3 0 replies
How often you get complements about your dressing sense ? Today I got a complement from most beautiful girl in office. I know look good but men get very few or zero complements. Our team is attending wedding of a teammate and we were discussing what to wear etx. And I wad thinking about getting a new shirt and she said you that shirt with stripes, that look good own you. I weared that a week ago she said i was about to complement you at that time but i dont wanna be awkward so i hesitated. So this... 1 0 replies
What to do with life? I am 35 years single man. I dont have a job for the past 5 years. I have all the possible mental health problems. My parents are alive and still working coz of me. Looking at the current job market beong taken over by AI, I have no idea what to do next. Is my life over? Or what can I do to change my life? 5 0 replies
Why do we accept decay as our destiny? If you have given up, read this. The sheer apathy we Indians have is astonishing. We walk past mountains of garbage, breathe in poisoned air, drink contaminated water, and consume adulterated food—yet we don’t flinch. Corruption isn’t an anomaly; it’s a way of life, woven into the fabric of our daily existence. We don’t fight it. We endure it. We shrug. We sigh. We say, “Yahi hai system.” We’ve normalized decay. We’ve accepted dysfunction as the status quo. Now, here’s the deal: I will take USA’s example. America’s history spans barely 300 years, yet they believe... 1 0 replies
What's your age and your total savings? Should include investments also, Mine is age 21, savings: 5lakh 4 0 replies
What’s the most painful moment of your life? I'm sharing my most painful moment. When I was 16, the unbearable quality of life pushed me to run away from home. I reached the railway station and boarded the first train I saw. It took me to Jaipur, where I ate some poha outside the station before heading back in and hopping onto another random train. This time, I ended up in Mumbai. With nowhere to stay, I spent my nights sleeping on Juhu Beach and wandered aimlessly during the day. After a week, my money ran out.... 4 0 replies
Joint family vs nuclear family, which one do you think is better and why? I want both genders to participate in the discussion Recently I saw a poll on an Indian sub, where, ratio for joint to nuclear was 1:2 for males, and 1:10 for females. So **5 times more males prefered a joint family than females.** So which do you think is the better way to form a family, and why? Share your opinions irrespective of your gender and opinion, Since this is an anonymous platform and Be respectful ☺️. 5 0 replies
You woke up in a hospital bed and find out you will die in 24 hours, what would be your final decisions? Same as above, mine would be thanking every person i met along the way whether on text or calls and saying sorry to my mom. Sorry for choosing the wrong flair. Edit: those who are saying "delete browsing history" seperate browser use karo yaar. 5 0 replies
Question on Indian Customs Classification: Does “Personal Use” Automatically Force HS Code 9804? Hi everyone, I recently imported a specialized product from abroad that, according to its technical specifications and the applicable tariff schedule, should be classified under a specific HS code with a much lower duty rate. Instead, I was charged a significantly higher duty based on HS Code 9804. According to the courier’s explanation, all personal imports in India are filed under 9804—resulting in 10% Basic Customs Duty (BCD), a 10% surcharge on the BCD, plus 28% IGST on the assessable value. Here’s a summary of my situation: The product... 2 0 replies
A Question To Orphans or People who didn't have a parent while they were growing Just a curious question. How has your life been? Is it better than people with toxic parents or dysfunctional family or you feel like you missed a major chunk of life? 1 0 replies
Why are intercaste (both M/F dwija) marriages frowned upon? [Serious] While it is undestandable how/why upper and lower caste marriages are considered blasphemous, why are intercaste (both dwija) marriages frowned upon? Please stick to the point. What is the importance of caste endogamy in Indian culture ? I'm curious, since I've seen many people fixate absolutely on finding a partner from the exact same caste/subgroup, regardless of any other concerns. 5 0 replies
35/F Why is finding plain genuine friendship so hard at 35 ? Edit: I am not a lonely person. I am asking about genuine connections beyond family, raising children or profession. I have a busy career, married, looking after family and raising a child. Not exactly having free time or loneliness. What I am asking is for like minded genuine interaction that leads to a productive discussion. May be learn something new from each other. Discuss skills and life experiences. Conversations that don't die in a day or two. When we are younger people are more open to discuss ideas. I... 2 0 replies
Mrs. movie offends because its real but is one particular change needed from women? **NO MOVIE SPOILERS** Watched Mrs. yesterday as a guy and the movie is very much real. Some things might be exaggerated here and there (as per today's standards, no doubt women have gone through this 20years ago). But, overall the movie is true for many women of India, everywhere 2 decades ago and in tier2/tier3/rural areas even today. I have seen it happen and I have heard about it happening to people as well. I do, however, have one tiny opinion to share. Just my two cents. Our world... 4 16 replies