As a man how comfortable are you while hiring a woman in your team? I was talking to a guy at my workplace , he said he would never hire a woman because of false allegations, lower commitment to work and no late night sittings? This got me thinking, what's the situation in other workplaces? 2 3 replies
Is there any good tattoo aftercare products in india? Was looking to get some nice aftercare products like Hustle butter but cant find any decent products. Pls lmk if you know any. Thanks! 3 0 replies
Regarding to getting in private with 6 year gaps after b.tech GEM,28, passed out 6 years ago, had less than 60 in 12, so didnt get to sit in campus placements, tried for govt job , could only clear prelims its already too late , my friends are getting married and starting family, its a really mental stress at this point i want to go for private jobs now, would devops be a viable option for me? i have some devops materials and after giving it a try, i found it interesting, i knew c and python from college. with... 5 1 replies
Relief options for non-BPL senior citizens without current health insurance? Hi folks, My best friend’s FIL (senior citizen) was recently admitted for lung related issues. He has today been referred to a bigger facility. The issue is that he has no existing health coverage. What are the recourses available to him for financial assistance? TIA 5 2 replies
Is it okay to live on your parents money? I plan to prepare for upsc after my ug and masters, currently a second year student at a fairly good college. I have seen my batchmates sitting for internships and cracking it and they also plan to sit fr placements. Good companies come here so they'll get placed. I am always feeling like they'll have a stable living by the time i complete my masters and give my first attempt. Should I try changing my route? At the end I do want to give upsc, but should I go... 1 4 replies
Do you have friends? How many of you are just living for the sake of it w no one around to be a part of this journey? 2 2 replies
How can I become street smart in India? I'm too nice to my own detriment. It's super easy to bluff or con me and I've gotten remorseful of being raised too nice, doormat-y. And this is going on even in my 30s. I have realized most people are manipulative and will take things without giving anything in return. For example, I caught the petrol pump attendant conning me of 50 rupees and despite confronting him and him agreeing, he managed to screw me up. Sorry for the resentment but here's my question. How can I become street... 4 10 replies
When will India have professors like that of Harvard or Stanford or MIT? Hello Community, I have been following and learning from lectures of Professor Mehran Sahami and David Malan from CS50 and oh man they are just so, so good. I learnt a lot and have been doing a lot of programming in C and learning Linux lately. We do not have such professors in India at IITs/NITs or other so called Tier 1 universities. Why is that so? Why we always lack such quality in all the fields be it STEM or medicine or even other subjects? Everything is absolute... 4 9 replies
Need advice please? So me and my gf got married this year. Both are working. Unfortunately my client's project is over therefore i have to look for another job, need to prepare for job interview before december end. Now, since it's december my wife's project has no work left she literally do nothing but scorlling instagram all day all night. Preparing meal is on her mood. I was wondering, if i am overthinking or what is it that she should have thinking that i have to save my energy for study and... 1 3 replies
Does intercaste/interstate marriage bring any changes? As the title says , As a woman, how does intercaste/interstate marriage impact family relationships and daily life? I’d like to understand the changes or challenges women may face, both before and after marriage? 3 3 replies
Earned my first 10k 😎 I have just completed my 3rd Sem Exams, my first income has arrived into my bank account. Feeling very happy to share and flex 5 1 replies
Would studying abroad ever be a good option ? Idk I was very fixated upon studying abroad earlier. I'm rn in India only in a college which is in a different state. My home is still near so I can easily visit once in a month or two. I have enough friends at college and even good ones whom I like to spend time with but sometimes when I find myself alone at the mess table or in my room I just miss my parents and school friends miserably- I think it has something to do with me... 5 0 replies
Why do couples in arranged marriages often seem to act like they've been in love forever? I recently met a friend who got married, and the way they were behaving seemed like they were madly in love—posting tons of photos together, sharing cheesy songs, and just radiating that 'newly-in-love' energy. What’s interesting is that their marriage was arranged, so I couldn’t help but wonder: Why do arranged marriage couples sometimes behave as though they've been in love forever, showing such intense affection and connection so soon? 2 10 replies
Why do we need exams to sort people who just want to learn? The entire concept of exams seems flawed when you think about it—why should people be sorted or filtered just because they want to learn? Education is supposed to be about growth, exploration, and self-improvement, but exams turn it into a stressful competition where only a select few "qualify." Why is this system so deeply ingrained, especially in countries like India, where a student’s worth often gets reduced to their exam scores? Shouldn’t colleges and universities focus on creating opportunities for everyone who wants to learn, instead of acting like... 3 3 replies
I[26M] am thinking about ending LDR of 5 years with my GF[27F] We have been in LDR for 5 years and honestly I just want to close the distance asap. We have different castes. She is a thakur and I am a baniya. Now a little bit of context first, my gf father was in army and is not anymore(2014). In absence of her father, her brother in law took the charge and hence her family holds in high regards. Now her brother in law was diagnosed with stage 4 stomach cancer in Feb 2024 and since then he has been... 3 3 replies
What would you do if you are threatened by a group of transgenders demanding huge money at your place? Its your home, your safe house, you can't run from here. You can't close the door because they will keep hitting the door and would damage the things near door. Tired of this, every good moment and they appear out of nowhere and won't leave without giving heavy trauma. Really scared of them. 3 10 replies
How many of you have faced eve teasing in your life or seen in front of your eyes happening ? How many of you have faced eve teasing in your life or seen in front of your eyes happening ? 1 5 replies
What all the things would you suggest which doesn't include screen time - as I had eye surgery and can't see screen more than 30 minutes? What all the things would you suggest which doesn't include screen time - as I had eye surgery and can't see screen more than 30 minutes? 1 0 replies
what is the best way to invest 1 lakh rupees hey everyone! I am 19F in 1st year of engg and saved upto 1 lakh rupees ( been saving since I was 5). Currently it is mixed in my mom's FD account but now I want to invest it on myself be it financially , physically or emotional . what should I do with that money ? I want to learn investing too so should I try with that money like- - Mutual funds via SIPs ( thought to start SIP of 3-5k/month but I will run out of... 4 1 replies