Why are Indian parents so much obsessed with engineering ? I wanted to do something related to history and geography didn't let me take arts. Ok I said I will do something like bba+mba but no these people are like do btech then you can do mba na. They think other degrees are inferior and useless.. 2 37 replies
How do i stop my parents from snooping through my chats I'm 16 F still studying, and i've noticed that my parents (mum) go through my chats with other people while i'm asleep. Today she brought up a chat of mine while we were having a convo, it was something that i did not want her to find out then she said something along the line of 'you're lying to me' and somthing like 'you're hiding stuff from me' and got all emotional. to be honest at that point i felt so violated, because she had snooped through my chats... 2 38 replies
Aadhar Related Query. So I updated my Aadhar a few days back but it doesn't have a 'Care Of' section anymore. Even when I tried updating it on the Aadhar portal it showed my Father's name adjacent to my address like this - 'Arun Sharma Kalpana Nagar, Delhi' (Made up name & address) But earlier it used to be like this - C/o - Arun Sharma Address - Rajinder Nagar, Delhi So has the govt made it mandatory to put C/o near Address or does it not have a C/o section for... 1 0 replies
People who were skinny but gained a big fat belly, how did it happen? People who were skinny but gained a big fat belly, how did it happen? 3 0 replies
What are some government job opportunities for women that offer a good work-life balance? I'm a 21-year-old woman, and it has been six months since I graduated with a B.Com (Hons.). Apart from completing an unpaid internship, I’m still unsure (Whether to commit to a Government or Private sector job?). My father suggested preparing for the UPSC, but honestly, I didn't resonate with the idea at least for now. However, I understand that he wants the best for me. As a woman, having a secure job would bring tension free by parents, which is why I’m considering it. Before making a decision, I... 3 0 replies
Why is image more important then financial literacy in India? For a lot of people, we know to keep your expenses low, save money, live below your means etc. What I don’t hear much is advocating for true financial literacy. Setting up an emergency fund, parking money in high interest savings accounts, aggressively investing when you are younger to take advantage of compounding growth, managing tax liability etc. I guess the literacy issue can be the same in any country but in India, I feel the money earned is saved followed by being spent to have the nice apartment... 4 8 replies
Best city in India Hi, We are a couple in our mid late 30's with 2 kids (5 year old and 6 months old) belonging from Delhi and UP and currently based in Ahmedabad. We want to relocate to a tier 2 or 3 city in India which is safe, has decent schools, cleaner air, comparatively lesser pollution, and free, open spaces. Online services like BB, Blinkit, Zomato etc not required Easy, simple quality life for us and the kids to lead is what we are looking at. What could be the best... 5 120 replies
It seems that the more I pray, the more challenging life becomes. Am I the only one experiencing this paradox? It's been an year now , i pray almost daily in hope that today might be better but it keeps getting worst ! I even thought to just let go of this god existence thing but part of me is still hopeful idk why !!!! 2 13 replies
Help with Haryana State Pharmacy Council(wanna die) Hi I am a 2020 Pharma Grad , and these HSPC people are not processing my license, its been almost 5 years since I graduated apparently then are a den of corruption and ask for 50k to 1lac as bribe, I have gone to chandigarh multiple times its so tiring I wanna Die literally, Everytime I go they say this document missing that missing, They do not pickup phones and dont respond properly Can anybody help me I dont have resources to pay this much and I need to... 3 0 replies
What’s something you see many people do, that you’ll never do? What’s something you see many people do, that you’ll never do? 2 0 replies
At what age did you become fully independent and stopped relying on parents support ? In western culture people mention once a kid turns 18 parents kick them out in real world. Get your little apartment, find a side job and go college. But it’s not always like that in Asian culture, most parents pamper their children even when they get married and some children become very disciplined because they grew up in a hostel. Like I have few cousins who live abroad but spend their childhood in a hostel became disciplined and later moved abroad for studies and settled down there. They now... 3 46 replies
How to make yourself presentable? Kindly share some tips and tricks on how to groom yourself and look smart. It applies to both boys and girls 2 0 replies
Chhava - how did people like it? Am i the only one who felt chhava was extremely boring movie? I understand the historical significance, but i feel the move could have been finished in 90 mins 3 32 replies
Why does India have so much animal abuse? Including bears / elephants I don't understand what is wrong with India. Why do people seem to have no empathy for animals? Whats wrong with the place? 1 0 replies
What are the genuine reasons why some women make excuses to avoid sex with their husband? What are the genuine reasons why some women make excuses to avoid sex with their husband? 5 25 replies
Anyone else just tired of the constant r*pe news and heinous crimes against women? Kinda makes one want to leave this messed up country, sometimes; very shameful things being on the rise is really concerning. It really makes one wonder if humanity even has any hope against such evil; and I don't think it does. 5 0 replies
Struggling While My Younger Brother Thrives – How Do I Cope? I'm feeling really low seeing my younger brother succeed while I’m stuck in a low-paying job with lots of responsibilities. He has a high-paying job, a freelancing gig, and seems genuinely happy, while I’m constantly anxious about my future. My family gives him a lot of attention, and it makes me feel even worse. I know I shouldn’t compare, but it’s hard not to. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How do you deal with these feelings? 1 8 replies
Is it really worth having kids in India? I've always had this doubt do people really care about the problems we face as Indians? No jobs, overpopulation, religious conflicts, corruption, a backward education system, a broken justice system for the middle class and poor, poor air quality, high taxes like in England but facilities like in poor countries. I mean, we know what this country is like and how we suffer and struggle. Do people really think about this before having kids? I'm not against anyone; it's just my opinion. I even told my sister not to... 3 0 replies