I'm surprised they aren't screaming about some stupid conspiracy theory involving canada cheating in the game.

I get where you’re coming from. You’re not rejecting anything, you’re just trying to figure out what truly resonates with you. And that’s okay—spirituality isn’t about blind adherence, it’s about connection. You’ve already realized something important: peace matters more than routine. If chanting feels mechanical and reading feels like a hammer to the face, then something’s off.

Your instinct to explore Bhakti Marga’s mantra for 40 days is a good one. It’s structured, it gives you time to reflect, and it lets you see if this practice genuinely brings you closer to what you’re looking for. But here’s something to watch out for: don’t just measure success by "peaceful feelings." Real spiritual growth can be uncomfortable too. Ask yourself—do I feel more connected to God? Do I feel more clarity in my purpose? Do I feel more present in my life?

The need for a living guru also makes sense. Reading books is powerful, but without guidance, it’s easy to feel like you’re just absorbing information without transformation. If Bhakti Marga’s approach feels more alive for you, then it’s worth diving deeper. That doesn’t mean leaving behind everything you’ve learned from Srila Prabhupada—it just means you’re seeking a path that speaks to your heart, not just your mind.

I’d also suggest this: don’t be in a rush to “choose” a path right now. Instead of thinking, Is ISKCON right for me? Is Bhakti Marga right for me?—try asking, Where do I feel closest to God? That’s your real answer.

And don’t be afraid to talk to someone directly. Whether it’s a monk, a mentor, or someone from either tradition who understands both perspectives, a real conversation might help you sort through your thoughts better than just introspection alone.

At the end of these 40 days, instead of forcing a decision, just sit with what you’ve learned. If it’s real, you won’t need to force it. While it's not mandate to have a guru in Kaliyuga, like trauma, bhakti also has seperate manifestations for all.

There is no right and wrong in this case. Surrender to Your lord and ask him to guide you brother. Ask him to show the way. To lead to the path which brings you to your eternal salvation at his lotus feets. Beg and pray for guidance from him.

Keep your heart open. There is no burden of anything. Some rules are meant with great intention but are not made for all. Like boarding schools.

I will suggest you one thing more : find religion outside conventional practices.

Help others, feed others, listen to others, give time - money - food - effort - ear / hand / shoulder : whatver you can to whomever in need. Don't seek dharma and God in just rituals and mantras.

Often in the rat race of punya and jaap counts, we forget golden lines of our texts :

सर्वं ब्रह्ममयं जगत् : The entire universe is pervaded by Brahman

यथा दृश्यं तथा ब्रह्म यथा ब्रह्म तथा जगत् :
सर्वं खल्विदं ब्रह्म - तस्मै श्री ब्रह्मात्मने नमः

As is the seen, so is Brahman; as is Brahman, so is the universe. All that there is, all that surrounds me , indeed, is Brahman. To that Supreme Self, I offer my salutations."

My personal advice is this :

चित्तमेव हि संसारो योगिनां मोक्षकारणम् : The mind itself is the cause of bondage and liberation for a yogi.

Don't get too caught up in rituals and mantras if you can't do organically. You would face much more bigger guilt and may even feel bad if the same would happen to you after you started following proper physical gurues specially the ones that you know if and like and feel drawn to. Bhakti bhaav is more important than number of beads. Our texts are a testament to that.

You are on a good path by questioning things and seeking more. Keep going. Get in touch with nature, get sun daily. And try to actively be more sattvic. He is calling you, he is waiting for you. If you take one step towards him, he will take 10.


May the lords lights guide us all to peace and prosperity 🙏 sitaram 🌞 😇 🙏 🪷 ❤️

Balor kela 😂 imagine getting triggered over Internet comments lmao. Snowflake billa 😂

Jan 2025, 20k

They were uncivilized, their deeds might put the Mughals to shame. The Bargis attacked Bengal every now and then. They destroyed Hindu temples, \*aped women, burnt entire villages to ashes. Sambhaji was infamous for his harem and his concubines.

lmao guys(men) take a seat and watch gender civil war, 🎥🍿

Why are you moving

MAAM SHE IS RIGHT.

THERE IS A DIFFRENCE BETWEEN SYMPATHY AND EMPATHY. SYMPATHY- I FEEL PITY FOR YOU EMPATHY- I FEEL YOUR PAIN. IT IS RELATABLE.

NO WOMEN WILL EMPATHISE WITH A RAPE VICTIM UNTIL THEY ARE ONE. THEY COULD JUST SYMPATHISE.

JUST DONT CONFUSE THE TWO TERMS.

EDIT- NOW I CAN SEE SOME PEOPLE WHO ARE EMOTIONAL ENOUGH TO NOT USE THERE BRAIN. AND DOWNVOTED ME FOR SAYING SOMETHING RATIONAL AND LOGICAL. NO WORRIES POKKIES


I see it changing.. Kudos to upcoming generation stepping up and asking for change.. Keep going 👍🏻

Local results are different, depends what you mean by local though, google my business or websites? Links won’t impact GMB, all about reviews, etc.

Settled in BLR having a decent salary in a PBC. Have the privilege to go to hometown by a drive. Closer to family and friends. Ath pore aliyaaaa!

I suggest the same to everyone, if you have decent enough salary, if you don’t get a chance to be in kerala atleast be closer. Earn well and lead a comfortable life.
This is the best time to be in India rather than foreign countries.

What I don’t like to about Kerala is the pay for IT and education for kids. You have the option to move to tier1 cities to get everything you want.

Nammude naadu edakk edakk visit cheyya, ennit engane jeevikya!

What's the deal with Elon having a chain.saw.

why this question pops regularly in this sub? Itne khaali h kya log 🤣

Arunachalis gets bullied in North India, but will act like dons in the bordering regions.

[Edit: isn't related to this case, still unaware of the context, but someone is saying something regarding victim card]

Expected to fail got 61/70

Have no idea how they're doing 70M ARR. I've never heard of mercoe before nor have I seen anyone using it

Is it gravel on ground or what?

Eu is irrelevant anyways due to bureaucracy and anti capitalist policies, they have no tech giants compared to China and USA (arm and asml are exceptions not norm)

Does Trump think elon is Not Sure?

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