Council housing in the uk priorities druggies and single mums over people like me

I live with a dysfunctional parent . I’ve been trying for over a year to move into my own apartment but have had no luck . council gave me a band C. Last night my mum was being horrible to me and I genuinely felt scared I’d have to defend myself against her or something (she has been physically aggressive towards me before when I was 16/17 whilst she’s been intoxicated) I called the police but regretted it because I got paranoid they’d take my devices from me again like they did a year ago on a suspected terrorism offence I apparently committed . I went out at 12am by myself to smoke 🍃 so I wouldn’t have to face the police or my mum . Looking back this was dangerous cuz sketchy lone drunk men kept walking past me and my town is pretty dangerous to sit alone at night as a young autistic woman. I probably reeked of 🍃 which could draw attention as well . Benefits advice subreddit tells me I’m not vulnerable , that I’m not deserving of a band A like all those druggies and single mothers . That I’m an entitled asswipe for thinking I deserve more points than them. Well I ask you Reddit .. how the fuck am I not vulnerable? I went outside at 1am to smoke pot cuz my mum had me fearing for my safety ? This has been going on for years . But apparently I’m not vulnerable …. I also have no friends. No family . The CMHT gaslighted me into thinking I don’t qualify for assisted living . They basically talked to me like im not trying hard enough / exaggerating my issues / playing on my autism , etc .