I just realized how much restrictions we really have

I am talking about women here .. so what happened i was going somewhere and i was driving.. so as i was driving i saw a uncle (mabye 30-40ish).. and his vest ( ganji ) clearly visible through his shirt .. (not like faint visible..clearly) and this made me realize that really do have restrictions.. a lot.. these uncles wearing this casually while we women have to think a thousand times before we wear something that shows our bra. We are even scared that a faint strap will be visible cuz then you know people start passing comments and all.. like bruh its a literal bra.. same as your vest just smaller. And its really sad that we are put so much restrictions.. even when laws are changed restrictions are still there...people still have that beliefs in mind...law don't do much.. you know when i saw his vest from his shirt it really hit me hard that we still haven't progressed much.. even aunties themselves pass comments on other girl when they accidentally show some bra or anything. And here people are fighting gender wars.. now where is yours "not all women are same wala thing" when a man does something other man defend themselves with "not all men are same" lekin jab abb women ki bari aye tab kaha gaya "not all women are same" .. congratulations india we really are progressing.. youll think that bringing some damn new law will do anything.. nah its wong .. it isn't the law...its the people's mind.. even after so many years dowry culture is still seen... still women face abuse even after laws.. even if laws are made to protect mans rights still anything won't be changed just like it didn't in womens part.. although some people do find loophole in our shitty law system which includes both women and ALSO MAN. its not just like sirf women hi asa kam karri hai .. ajj bhi dowry and abuse chalra hai.. its same for both genders . Idk why we even call this country a damn super power when some basic gender problems cannot be solved.. and some "insecure andhe desh bhakt" will defend me idc. Yes we are making progress in "economic terms and materialistic things".. its weird how we are reaching international level when our own national problems is being ignored.. its like you get a masters degree without passing 10th class..