My story.

After reading the Atul subash case, i feel like I wanna share my story too. This happened last year, i was 21 m and i met this girl on instagram, 24f, we talked for a while and then eventually we made a plan to hang out. The first night we met, we drove around for a couple of hours and then we came back to my place and we had consensual sex. We really hit it off initially and we started dating. We had a Lotta fun together, she was a corporate employee and she had wfh 3 times a week and we met almost every single day for a month, whenever we weren't together we spoke on call or text. After that initial 3 weeks, I wasn't able to meet her cause I had work and other friends i had to meet. In a bit of context, she used to get a Lotta attention on social media, guys dmming her and commenting on her pics, i wasn't bothered as much and she knew that. In an attempt to make me jealous and lash out, she threatened to hang out with other guys if I wasn't gonna meet her which pissed me off but I kept my cool and tried to explain things. When i had zero chances to meet she did go ahead and go out with another guy, nothing happened between them but that really pissed me off. We had an argument and we broke up and then she apologised and she assured it wouldn't happen again. After a few days, same story, couldn't meet, this time she threatened to sleep with another guy, this sent me off the edge and i broke up with her. From my side it was completely done. She showed up at my place after I broke up with her and she started crying to take her back and I was adamant that im done, i blocked her everywhere after this. Few days later, she called me up to tell me she's pregnant (we didn't use protection) to meet me. We met at a mall, i bought pregnancy tests and quickly found out she was lying about it. I left there saying you can go sleep with a 100 guys, Idgaf. This time around, her mom called me up saying what is this, please marry her, you guys shouldn't fight like this and I explained the situation saying that how can I trust her when she's openly saying that she's gonna cheat on me. This time, she threatened me with a rape case, saying that I promised to marry her and im not marrying. I immediately involved my parents, they supported me, spoke to her and told her to do whatever she wants. That one month, I didn't sleep. I developed high blood pressure due to that stress. She didn't do anyrhing but just to imagine she could've easily ruined my life, My career, Me and my familys image, just like that. Its been a year now and I still can't talk to women. Im scared, I take bp medication, haven't been on a single date even though I know everybody's not like this I just have severe anxiety to even try. Im all for the laws of India but the way it's being misused is horrible. I see couples everywhere and I feel sad and I feel like I'm missing out cause I love love. I have a Lotta love to give but now I'm too scared to put myself out there. If she did put a case, I would've committed suicide too. No other option.