Can we stop

Atul literally just died and everyone has started a gender war. Can we as a collective just stop and actually mourn and fight for justice for this man. Continue your gender wars after that but atleast for the time being focus so that actual change is good can be bought for Atul. I see myself getting sucked into this war as well which is useless idc what your wife, gf, husband, father etc think because right now is not the time to be divided we can use this momentum to actually do something for Atul. All I have seen is rage bait and gender divisions all day and only ONE popular post for an actual candle march. If you actually give a shit and aren't doing this to add more to the chaos, please post about your local candle marches and details of the case or whatever you think could add more context or help the case. EDIT:- I know nasty sexist and gross overgeneralisation are being thrown around and the best thing you can do is don't reply and read something else. Don't give into the negativity it. If anyone is finding this overwhelming please get off Reddit for a while.