If you want to move up to a more senior role, you should understand why they’re being picky on implementation. They may have a greater architectural vision that you are unaware of, they may not want to cause the HL design to veer off its intended course (even if it’s a bad design because there’s tech debt to consider). there’s buy in they look for from their own peers to guide them into decision making just like you.

Sounds like your hierarchy structure is working fine, you’re just not in the know as to why they’re being picky. You need to not let your emotions drive you in understanding why things are the way they are.

You need to be asking for feedback non stop until you know WHY they’re deciding to shut down your innovations.

He needs a good friend who will listen to him. Does he not have any friends?

I’ve been in a similar situation. One of my undergraduate friends not even from my department, just a casual "hi-bye" friend changed my life. I had wasted three years after graduation, feeling lost. One day, he called me to check out a place near my hometown, and that simple conversation led to something bigger. Over time, we started talking more, and he eventually took me to Chennai, encouraging me to find a job without relying on referrals.

After I left that job, he found me another opportunity as a guest lecturer at Dr. Dharmambal Polytechnic in Chennai. Slowly, I started to understand the purpose of life and the value of independence. My education then took me to Sri Lanka, the UAE, the US, and finally back to Madurai.

All I can say is this: A good friend can change everything in your life. They can open doors to opportunities, support you during tough times, and lift you out of depression.

Today, he is more like family to me.

Take your brother out, spend time with him, and make him feel valued. Offer advice gradually, like slow poison especially when it comes to earning respect, because sambathicha ellam kidaikkum, mariyathai , nalla life , ninachatha vangalam.

Get his consent before suggesting psychiatric counseling. If he says no, don’t force him to go ,it might make the situation worse. Instead, start the conversation slowly and gently.

Best you can get is morning walk + bedai enthusiasts

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Happily!

I'm not Bihari i stayed in Bihar Just for 6 months and people call me Bihari.
What should I do?
Go to China? To be called chinese?

They need to update the goalie mask

I thought this posture was just him being insecure and wearing lifts

Did he start having these after getting sick with COVID?

If always thought it’s funny that people with less than a 100k worry about estate tax…

It would be funny if not for the fact he's president, which makes it very not funny and worrisome.

She's like a groundhog but for election day.

"It's a dangerous thing to mistake speaking without thought for speaking the truth." -Benoit Blanc

A quote from a movie but it works so well with Trump and all of his supporters. Anti US, anti democracy and anti constitution shit stains.

I loved the show until salim grew up. Rajat and Paridhi were so good.

They’re not getting what they deserve.

They’re getting **better** than they deserve.

Bro division 2 at 22 years sounds good but not having another breadwinner in the family, it's going to take a toll on you!

Bonds aren't valid in our country, you can break out of that. If you really feel you can make it top tier in 4-5 years and have the support from family, do it.

If the opportunity will allow you to get a state team call up, use that to find jobs in sports quota later.

come back bro atleast you dont have debt

Chandigarh is a small city and one great advantage is very low traffic you can easily go to your office within 30 minutes, if you choose to live within 12 km radius.