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20 New Industrial Cities planned, None in Odisha!
Chunna maruchanti , aau loko mananku ta khali double decker boss aau bala bhaila jojona aniki actual development to durare rakhuchanti . -
BCCI's strict norms for cricketers and their families after BGT debacle
What about “National Coach shouldn’t be selected just because he’s a staunch ruling party supporter”? -
Are we so jobless
Petition to find the chappri who called this chappri 😂 -
BCCI's strict norms for cricketers and their families after BGT debacle
So if a player by chance misses the bus like Jaiswal, then he gets dropped immediately? -
Suggest a cafe or place in Mangalore where I can sit and study/work for hours.
Try artist cafe in bejai it’s good I have tried it -
Helping my wife sell Microsoft Arc Mouse at half the price
For 4K we can get Logitech G502 with hero sensor, upto 25K dpi, rgb and ergonomic -
Are we so jobless
I have no bloody clue what he even does or how he became famous. -
Overwhelmed by fears of parenthood (PCOS, career, trauma, and more)
You sound a lot like me. Except that I am a guy, and navigating pregnancy alone wasn't a fear.
I feared
1. Raising a child up without enough finances
2. Genetic diseases that I might pass on
3. I did not like kids at all- I hated them.
4. We had an arranged marriage, and we were kind of getting to know each other in the first few years.
5. We were kind of establishing ourselves in another country
6. Not a very patient person. I love my sleep. I like being lazy
Eventually
1. We hit our financial target. Exceeded them comfortably
2. Consulted a geneticist. Did as many checks as possible for my peace of mind. Went with wife together as well. Wife and I aren't related at all.
3. My brother had a son. I loooove him. He changed my outlook towards a child. Single handedly.
4. Kind of stabilised our relationship. It wasn't never bad. But we are chalk and cheese, and we kind of realised it's futile and unnecessary to change the other. But acknowledge we are different, change a bit, and use the strengths of the other to cover the weak ess of the other. We still argue, but we kind of figured out a way to discuss issues. Plus, I love her big time. So we are determined to find a solution.
5. Kind or found a reasonably well paying sarkari kind of jobs
6. Ya, this is one issue. I my sleep. And I can't 24x7 entertain kids. But I guess that ll change. Infact, I just realised how tough pregnancy is. So household chores and helping my wife navigate post partum difficulties is my no1 priority. And I realised noone can be fully prepared. I thought I was fully prepared for marriage. Lil did I know, I was not and had to work our way through it. We will find a way.
My wife is pregnant now 7 years after our marriage. We did not try before, and she got pregnant immediately the moment we tried. Our relatives were asking after 3-4 years. We ignored it. Thankfully, our parents did not ask. I don't think we were prepared for it even a day before we had the decision to go for it.
The only problems with delaying it
1. Sad part- my dad passed away. He ll never see my children. It's tragic
2. We'll have to be around for a long time. By the time my kids are 40 I'll be 77. Losing ur parents before 40 is just pain cruel. We are focusing on our health now.
3. We planned for 1, and my wife is pregnant with twins. So -
Helping my wife sell Microsoft Arc Mouse at half the price
Just throw it, into my my hand -
Question about D Y Patil stadium coldplay concert. Is this position a good seating position. Should I go ahead and buy the ticket ?
Anyone wants to buy ahemdabad standing tickits -
Moving to Ludhiana, give me Advice
Feel free to contact me
I’m happy to help. -
A woman parks wrongly, threatens a man, says he'll face false cases. Her daughter also abuses him
Just leaving this here;
[https://www.indiatoday.in/law/story/mumbai-man-6-months-jail-swearing-making-rude-gesture-towards-woman-1885588-2021-12-08](https://www.indiatoday.in/law/story/mumbai-man-6-months-jail-swearing-making-rude-gesture-towards-woman-1885588-2021-12-08)
[https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/man-faces-up-to-3-years-in-prison-for-indecent-gesture-at-woman/articleshow/71226866.cms](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/man-faces-up-to-3-years-in-prison-for-indecent-gesture-at-woman/articleshow/71226866.cms) -
Approx 1.5 crore devotees took holy dip in Triveni Sangam on the first day of Mahakumbh 2025
Just a question to anyone who knows more about Mahakumbh’s history:
How long have people been meeting every 10 years, and did they do that during invasions or British rule or famine, etc etc? -
r/IndiaTech Purchase Help Megathread | January 14, 2025 at 10:00 AM
I am looking for a decent work laptop for myself. It will mostly running visual studio, a db server, a few browser tabs, any one of the team collaboration tools at a time. Some occasional hobby projects around machine learning and AI nothing advanced. I am willing to spent maybe 70k but if I can spend less I'll be happy.
Please suggest.
Thanks a lot. -
Overwhelmed by fears of parenthood (PCOS, career, trauma, and more)
Hi, OP have a good day. While you have a complicated situation, I feel all of these are weight on one side. You shared a few fears you have. Do you want a child on the other side? Of course when you have a kid your world changes significantly physically and mentally and its not a bad thing necessarily, but when that happens you should be able to enjoy the process. If you really want a kid at least then weighing your priorities and preferences against your fears and making a conscious decision yourself is the first step. You would not appreciate the most impactful decision in your life be driven by others including your family or strangers like us. So I would say try to find your own arguments for other side of decision.
Talk to your husband and consult a professional and it might help to leave your trauma behind. Whether for this decision or not, getting over it is good.
PCOS - Even though it is harder, as you might know a lot of people have PCOS and we ourselves overcame it(would not want to share too much detail here).
Career - Depending on what do you do, having a child is rough on a mom at least for a few years(if you care too much years get longer). There are more options than past to deal with this but each mom deals with this their own way in my opinion depending on their own perspective of career personal balance and options available and practical to them.
Good luck and I hope whatever decision you take get you to a happy future. Today is Sankranthi and it is when we northern hemisphere people appreciate sun starting to migrate north. May you have a migration to peace of mind and happiness, irrespective of the choices you make. -
My cousin is thinking about buying this?
Wait for sometime and try extending the budget. Test drive both n250 and ns200 and get one of them. -
Who’s your favourite Harry Potter character and why?
Hermione Granger. First of all, I share a birthday with Emma Watson. I like Hermione's character because she has the highest IQ among the three leads. I started watching *Harry Potter* as a kid, and her "Wingardium Leviosa" scene is something I'll never forget.
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