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This is more of just a complaint but has anyone else had the issue of your comments getting deleted for seemingly no reason (checked and have no words I can possibly think would be offensive) while ones that are super messed up stay up? This has happened to me a lot over the years and I used to think I just used a flagged word or too long of a comment but I just did one and someone else had a way longer comment. It’s really frustrating especially when you’re trying to respond to someone saying something harmful or just factually wrong but their comment stays up and you can even respond. Edit: must’ve offended the YouTube gods somehow, now all my comments are getting deleted 🫥