Feeling like failure and having huge guilt of unable to marry a woman I loved

Hi , while I'm successful in my career but due to unfortunate circumstance I'm unable to marry a woman I loved , this feeling makes me to think i have failed in my life and developed a huge guilty feeling that I am very unlucky. But my friends convinced me that only very few lucky ones will able to marry the woman they love , what i experience is very common for most people. But I am unable to get out of this guilty feeling and I daily curse god about my situation. How you guys cope up and got out of this feeling when you about to get ready for seeking alliances for marriage other than your loved ones.