full of toxic backlinks

⚠️**[URGENT]**⚠️ some dude are making spammy backlinks to my site, those are very unrelated and toxic. is there a way to solve this? my domain authority keep decreasing. i have once tried to disavow them but then i lost a lot of traffic and keywords that im previously ranking well, undo'ed the action but it doesn't helps. i would say, 30% of the backlinks with > 60 spam score actually helped me to rank. plus, the toxic backlinks are always increasing. most of the backlinks are articles, they were ai-generated, and 80% are unrelated backlinks, i even see some "new york city" articles backlinking to my site which are completely unrelated. i would like to get rid of it forever. HELP!