So I have a question about well NEET girls

Well my question is why do NEET-girl art shows them as hot and sexy. But NEET-guys art shows them as just ugly guys? And is there any NEET girl that can relate to NEET girl art? I do apologize if this is a rude question to ask just want to know. If anyone want to chat more about this. My DM’s are open but that is if you want too.