always getting invalidated

i feel like my opinions and feelings doesn't matter when talking with my peers and relatives. i always have this vibe/feeling that what you say doesn't have any credibility or whatsoever because i don't have a job, no money and no relationship/not married. it's like you have nothing so why should i believe you. ngl sometimes i feel like being treated worse than a convict, even heard someone say atleast those "people" (convict) can be forced to work so they can have a use.