Is it even possible to go from NEET to full employment?

Any success stories? Last year I was hired as an intern at a givernment agency but I resigned before I started because I felt like a fraud and because it was such a big change for me to handle: Moving out, finding a house to rent, doing a job I had never done before. It just seemed unreal, and unrealistic. This year I might have a chance to work at a hotel if I make quick decisions. But again I hace to move out to live at hotel with people I don't know, probably share a dorm, do I job I know nothing about. It seems like a crazy dream. Not real. All my life each time I made a decision my family would make me cancel by saying "Are you seriously going to ...". I don't ask them anymore but their voices are in my head. What seems realstic and normal is to stay in bed. Just stay where I have been forever. This phantasy of a job away from here is just a phantasy