I want more NEET friends but I feel like I’m bothering people

I’ve made multiple posts and everyone I’ve found has made me uncomfortable or seemed disinterested. I want genuine friends that are neets because I want to get along with people similar to me but I don’t know what to do or how to do it. It’s really bothering me because I just feel pathetic for it. I just want female neet friends because I am more comfortable around girls and want to be friends with people who understand how it feels to be a neet. Honestly I don’t even care about gender much anymore I just want people that understand me. I’m a very emotionally vulnerable person and idk I just feel lonely. I wish I could just find *that* person already or have somebody reach out to be my friend