Sick and Tired of apartment owner's associations and securities in Trivandrum

Totally sick and tired of apartment owner's associations in Trivandrum. Not sure if this is the case everyeher else in Kerala too. Worse than hostels with a ton of stupid rules . To name a few , get the approval from owner before hosting anyone in the apartment even for a night. And dont even start with opposite sex visiting your apartment even in broad day light. Even the renter himslef has to reason with the security to get entry to the apartment if you happen to appear at odd times say after 12'o . Securities acting like demigods with free running allowed by Owners associations to harass you and be rude to you no matter what. They won'tspare evn the meek owners. Well..what a fate to spend money to own something to live in peace only to be harassed by 60+ random ammavans . Food delivery not allowed inside the apartment complex. You have to go and get it from the gate . Then what is the point of food delivery . Same with ecommerce packages. Have heard worse about apartments in and around Technopark. Like security themselves checking in the renters into the apartment complex each time they have to . This happens when they do not have any access card given by the owners just in case .And renters will not be allowed to have themselves added to bio metric security beacuse they are renters of course. I think things are better in hostels . All this harassment in the name of security and moral upkeep of the apartment complex. Recently saw the reviews for Silver Castle apartment complex near technopark where somebody have posted the association minutes which is close to basic human rights violation . How can one fight these ammavan mentalities and ammavan associations.If you think that we can boycott staying in such apartments , then good luck to you .It is really tough to find one offering basic respect and freedom and they dont mind keeping them vacant . There is already an unwritten rule to rent out to only families .