My parents are okay with me marrying a misogynist of my caste rather than accepting my feminist boyfriend who is of a different caste.

This is a rant post. Few years back my parents introduced me to a guy who talked well when we first met. Exchanged number. Later on when I saw the kind of WhatsApp stories he puts I was utterly disgusted. It was all about how women are dumb, gold diggers, cruel, bad drivers, etc. Those were not even funny and he put laughing emojis as caption and women tea cup. I showed this to parents, they didn't find anything wrong in it and dismissed as it's just a funny video. I told them I am not interested in that guy. He got married few months after that. And now his stories are about men romancing wives in a sexual way. Lots of videos where they talk about tits and how men like them. Double meaning jokes in Steve Harvey shows. And recently even a story about how wives should let mother in laws sit in the front of the car, how women are beneath men (praising a small time actress saying that pennungal eppozhum aanugale kaalum oru padi thaazhe nilkendavar aanu.), praising Boche and criticizing Honey Rose. His own mom has the upper hand in the house as she is educated and earned well. Despite this my parents think I made a blunder by not accepting him and that I would have been married by now. On the other hand, there is my boyfriend. Different caste. A gentle human being. Well mannered. Good etiquette. Believes in equality. Has no bad habits as he is trying to maintain a healthy lifestyle. But my parents find a 100 mistakes in him which are practically non-existent. They think he is immature when all he did was to talk freely with them to make them as comfortable as possible. Just by his caste and wealth parents are assuming he is spoilt brat. Yeah, I don't have a question actually. Just wanted to vent. Fed up of my parents. And trying to understand their thought process.