Kashmiri matrimonial market Does anyone feel that Kashmiri matrimonial spaces are very limited? Like you'll hire a matchmaker and he'll bring all sorts of "parche" without asking what are the requirements of the person to be married. Whether you want a short wife or a tall wife, a sarkari mulazim or a businessman, etc. All the discussions are done by parents who give their personal preferences for their would-be nosh/zamtur. The space is even more constricted for women because these matchmakers hardly talk to them, they look at their pretty faces, check... 5 0 replies