Abhimanyu didn't deserve to lose his child

I might get hate for this but I was watching it this clip on twitter, and my heart breaks for him. On white day, he lost his brother was in grief, his mother was hospitalized, his lost his kids too and lashed out. Akshara left him, no issues, you are allowed to divorce men and move on but running away and hiding about child instead of going through the legal process so both parents can have the visiting rights is bare minimum