Question for Yeh Hai Mohabbatein Viewers - Why didn't you warn us about the toxicity?

After years I had found a couple which I loved in SaRaj, it was remake of YHM and fans loved it so much and turns out it has such extreme scenes of abuse from physical, emotional to sexual The way fans defended and loved that show I had assumed it would be a good one but my god, what is wrong with you all?