YHM: Does anyone else feel bad for Shagun, despite her manipulative ways, that raman and ishita got pihus custody?

I don't know why but it feels a little odd to me. Yes she did manipulate the feelings of a child but it was out of fear of losing her. Ishita literally kidnapped ruhi when shagun asked for her custody and yet here, Shagun is the one portrayed as a villain for wanting the same thing. Shagun for 6 years, loved and cared for Pihu with the same energy and loved that she had gained from Ishita as a result of her redemption character arc. Im just imagining if this sh\*t happened to me where I raised a child for 6 years that I gave birth to myself and then the "real" mother who left for 6 years comes back and gains custody despite all the love I gave that child for 6 years. HORRIBLE